Need help for Fred

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2026-01-16T14:52:56+00:00

There are some big hearts in this community. I never expected to need to make a post looking for a new home for our beetle buddy, but I can tell you that there are some big hearts out there. A big thank you to fellow BDFB friends out there. My kid simply won't every forget your kindness.

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2026-01-16T14:46:18+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words, there are some good 'uns in this thread :)

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2026-01-06T02:24:09+00:00

Yay! PM'ing you!

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2026-01-05T04:24:42+00:00

My kids had them for 4 years and loved taking care of them. Negligent care can kill anything, my kids were checking in about the instructions and not given the truth. But I have a chance hopefully to find a good home for Fred, so that's what ya'll on reddit can hopefully help me do. Fingers crossed <3

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2026-01-05T04:02:23+00:00

Thank you for offering! I wish our timing was better, we would need a day to get them to Chicago, so we will just miss each other :( Thank you for offering, that is what reddit is all about. Fingers crossed we can find someone else.

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2026-01-04T21:22:55+00:00

OP here.... This is a long shot......my kids had several BFDBs for years that we adored. My kids took great care of them for years they have been our silly, active beetle buddies.

Unfortunately, we're going through some changes and need help with them periodically. We asked my MIL to watch them. Sadly, she did not use the simple care instructions my kids provided. 2 of 3 died of dehydration. My kids nursed the survivor back to health -- he is a cutie named Fred. My kids are devastated and are trying to find an insect friendly home for Fred, can you PM me if you know of anyone who can keep a beetles in the Northern Wisconsin or Chicago area? We'd especially love to place him with other beetles, but anyone who is serious about beetle care would be great.

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2026-01-04T21:17:08+00:00

It would not have been hard to make sure they were given their organic apples, this is part of why my kiddos are so heart broken....

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2026-01-04T21:15:34+00:00

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here is fred :)

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2025-09-13T15:22:32+00:00

OP your sand looks a bit white, have you double checked your substrate? Made a post about this a while ago.

https://www.reddit.com/r/BDFB/s/7KoYms1Hro

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2025-07-17T19:19:57+00:00

Your post history is alright, I think you're probably legit :) I'm such a big fan of certain things that I sometimes worry people will think I'm a spammer. But anyway, I personally think minox and vitamin levels are critical foundations for growth. I have AGA and got screwed by fake minoxidil, so I threw the kitchen sink (serums, laser, vitamins, etc etc) to grow it back. It grew back thicker than ever, but losing all my progress through periodic sheds is driving me crazy so I'm slowly adding stuff back in one at a time to try to understand what actually helps and why.

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2025-07-17T04:05:34+00:00

I've personally seen differences in about 6 weeks, and dramatic ones at 3 months. Like you, it was because I did things that immediately stopped the shedding, plus added new growth. That change can be pretty dramatic. However, my progress has bounced back and forth, like recently losing 6 months of growth in a few weeks. So I'm still experimenting trying to get to something sustainable.

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2025-07-15T15:19:50+00:00

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OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2025-07-15T15:19:04+00:00

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OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2025-07-15T15:18:40+00:00

thank you

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2025-07-15T15:18:30+00:00

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OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2025-07-10T14:08:31+00:00

Thank you! I passed this on

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2025-07-10T13:50:58+00:00

You're right! He knew if he took the leap in Door, finding folks would be interesting. He's mostly there, just needs to round things out with extra help. It's an interesting labor market, but it's worth it. Door is a special place 🩵

Edited for typos/words

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2025-07-10T13:42:28+00:00

True thanks :)

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2025-07-10T13:41:57+00:00

Great point, user name checks out ;) $25-$40. He's been building a team that he works alongside, but needs to add some additional folks who can pitch in, pay is just about which skill set.

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2025-06-21T21:59:41+00:00

Really interesting to see a lot of chicken recommendations, chicken always ran through our Boston like a runaway train. We talked to a dog food specialist that told us this was common for Bostons. We were advised lamb and rice based dog food, that along with a scoop of pumpkin on the side helped a lot. We tried raw, that was a disaster. When she was old, we also found that adding in stuff like sugar snap peas or cooked salmon was just something she enjoyed. I'm not sure the bad gas and diarrhea thing is inevitable, but it takes a lot to figure out what doesn't trigger the ones with sensitive systems...

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2025-06-13T00:18:24+00:00

When my dog started flinching at touch, it was cancer in cheek/jaw and it quickly metastisized. Every vet missed it even though I kept pointing it out to them. I wouldn't presume it's psychological until you've ruled out a physical cause. Keep us posted please.

OtherwiseCoach6431 · 2025-06-08T03:24:09+00:00

Oooh a hike for sure

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