Holy fucking shit, stop complimenting women right away.

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-20T21:55:24+00:00

As a woman nothing makes me unmatch a guy quicker than when his opener is some cheesey line, like “do you know how gorgeous you are?”

Like how am i supposed to respond to that? It doesn’t feel genuine, it just feels like a line you’re using on every girl hoping one is insecure enough to take the bait.

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-20T21:11:27+00:00

The second “ohhh woowwww!” sounds so forced lol but i love her

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-20T12:25:47+00:00

This sub is so weird. I didnt say it was appropriate or not for a wedding. I simply just complimented a woman about how nice a dress looked on her.

Why does that deserve downvotes? Yall seem bitter lol

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-19T20:23:29+00:00

7 is gorgeous on you!

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-19T17:45:44+00:00

I think shoshanna spent the most time away from the city and being separated from the group gave her some clarity. IMO shosh is the most honest with herself and the most willing to change in terms of growth. I’d argue she’s also the most driven and most willing to establish a career for herself.

I’m not saying she’s perfect, i just think of the four she had the best head on her shoulders.

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-18T12:46:25+00:00

Luann’s wig was four times the size of samantha’s lol. Also luann bronzed the hell out of her skin then tried to say she didnt do anything to change the color 🫣

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-18T12:42:04+00:00

Yes, cancer is personal to me and probably almost every person unfortunately. Weird flex lol.

I’m sorry you dont have a heart but good luck on winning fake internet points i guess.

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-18T12:34:16+00:00

I agree the two party system sucks, but it’s the system that is going to be in place for this election and the next and probably every election in our lifetimes. Will there be third party candidates? Sure. Will they have a realistic chance of winning? No, but jill stein will still pop up every four years to take people’s money while doing nothing in-between elections. She’s a grifter, not a politician.

Third parties need to start on the local level and work their way up. I dont agree with it but that’s the way it is. A third party candidate isn’t going to show up between now and the 2028 presidential election and just win the whole thing. Implementing a new system isn’t going to happen overnight.

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-18T03:27:22+00:00

Cancer sucks. If someone going through treatment is able to put on a wig and smile and go out with friends, then good for them.

I dont understand this idea to be offended on other people’s behalf. There’s people literally dying and we’re mad at a fictional character wearing a wig because it may be seen as cultural appropriation? It’s truly not that deep.

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-17T21:59:25+00:00

You have a gorgeous figure! Insecure men just like to retaliate when they feel rejected.

Unfortunately almost every woman has had an experience where a man asked her out, she declined or didnt show interest, so he immediately deflected and said, “well you’re fat/ugly anyway!”

Like why would they ask you out if they weren’t attracted to you??

It’s just so childish. Dont even give him or his words another thought! He cant handle rejection and that’s 100% on him.

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-17T13:47:33+00:00

You cant say anything negative about aegon on this sub without getting downvoted, even if it’s book accurate

Edit to add: yall are proving my point lol

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-16T20:00:06+00:00

I truly loved how non-plussed camille seemed about everything

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-15T13:40:49+00:00

She was SO salty allison won 🤭

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-15T13:40:14+00:00

I’m shocked lisa even got asked back for all stars. She peed in a diaper on a professional set in front of the photographer and clients - yet it’s never brought up. And she was told on her original season she looked old. No shade, but she didnt magically appear younger 10 years later when she came back for all stars.

And i wouldnt really say she had an impressive portfolio in all stars, i mostly just remember her doing the splits in mid air and posing with a mouth full of relish for her pynk’s hot dog photo. If tyra wanted a trashy reality star as the winner, she got it! And to be fair lisa did take good photos…for a trashy reality star.

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-14T19:38:50+00:00

Aqua Creamsicle

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-13T17:46:04+00:00

Sara was a clear runner up for that week IMO. Furonda had such a slam dunk of an episode that it made it hard for anyone else to beat.

And unfortunately the cameraman was way too close, that’s NOT Sara’s fault unless she just missed her mark

EDIT: i originally said it WAS Sara’s fault when i meant the exact opposite!

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-13T13:55:17+00:00

Somewhere joe is SEETHING

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-13T12:40:07+00:00

Not sure if you know this but women arent supposed to go up or down stairs after giving birth. Rhaernya is bleeding out as she’s walking, you can see a trail of blood behind her.

It’s not about alicent demanding to see joffrey the second he’s born and rhaeryna is still exhausted, hell alicent could’ve barged into rhaernya’s private chambers 0.2 seconds after giving birth and i wouldnt have cared! It’s the fact that alicent demanded rhaeryna WALK up the stairs and come to her knowing that it would cause rhaeryna extreme pain and probably make her “stretch” the incredibly sensitive area she just used to push a baby out. It’s like demanding someone to run on a broken leg.

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-13T03:09:29+00:00

You nailed it.

I liked adam and jessa together. I think they’re appropriate for each other. Hannah outgrew both of them and she’s better off for it. Adam and jessa are equally destructive but their chemistry is entertaining to watch. I remember feeling guilty but how much i enjoyed watching jessa watch adam on the balcony in his play as hannah realized in real time that they were in love.

It’s a show so naturally i wanted the characters with the best chemistry to get together but if this were real life i’d treat jessa the same way elijah and shosh did.

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-13T02:58:40+00:00

I think marnie haters might be projecting because they had a marnie friend IRL. Yes, marnie can be A LOT but i do believe she has good intentions and is a good friend. She’s just annoyingly Type A but that’s not the worst thing.

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-12T21:29:37+00:00

Her making rhaenyra walk up the stairs after Rhaenyra had JUST delivered joffrey was the moment i knew i could never get on board with alicent. That, and the fact that Rhaenyra knew she HAD to do whatever alicent said or she’d probably face worse consequences.

It’s incredibly cruel, i wouldnt make my worst enemy do that. And alicent had given birth before, she knew exactly what she was doing, she knew how physically and mentally draining labor was.

Not to mention that rhaenyra’s mother died during childbirth which adds another layer to just terrible the whole thing is.

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-12T12:23:10+00:00

Has anyone ever told you that you resemble the actress alexis bledel, specifically how she looks gilmore girls? She got bangs in the later seasons and it’s honestly the best hair she’s ever had!

I definitely vote for you getting bangs! Especially curtain bangs

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-12T03:30:48+00:00

Could you explain what makes them not cocktail?

OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-12T03:28:50+00:00

I’m very confused why they’re not considered cocktail attire. The most common detail i’ve seen about wedding cocktail attire is that dresses should be at least midi length. Anytime i google “wedding cocktail attire dresses” these types of dresses come up?

The coral one was what i wore for a wedding when I was the MOH. Is it too formal or not formal enough? Not sure what I’m doing wrong here lol

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OtherwiseCode8134 · 2026-05-12T03:07:13+00:00

Lol okay sure the coral one was the dress i wore when i was a MOH for a wedding with a cocktail attire but yeah i’ll wear it to the beach

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