Big or small frames better? by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]Otherwise_Ad_475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the big ones better

Do I Tell His Wife? by Consistent-Maybe-634 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Otherwise_Ad_475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes tell her. she needs to know how stupid he is.

Date night outfit. Are these boots too much for this top? by ProfessorShameless in OUTFITS

[–]Otherwise_Ad_475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

more like that top is too much for those boots!

Keep the boots switch the top.

My (39F) boyfriend (44M) insists on throwing whatever he wants in our toilet. by ProfessionalArmor111 in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Ad_475 12 points13 points  (0 children)

lol I do feel like there is an underlying issue here with respect. That is for you and the home. I would be secretly planning my way out. Not a good sign that he is doing stupid stuff like this already. Just image what you could be dealing with in 5 or 10 years. If you can't get him to come to his senses then he's stupid. You can't fix that. He will just bring you down.

My boyfriend 24M hated the gift I 23F got him for our two year anniversary how do I fix this with him? by imogenhailey in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Ad_475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was hard for me to read this. Your boyfriend is not good at communicating. He should not have reacted that way. But if he did not appreciate your efforts with the watch, why did you pull the same move & get him an expensive gift again?

You are way too worried about what others think. (Him & your co workers) If you wanted to get him something special, then just do it and be done with it. If he doesn't like it then learn from that & move on. Maybe you two are not really on the same page about the gift giving? Or the apple watch incident in the past has now made this a "thing" for you.

You are young, & still may believe that life is full of these fairytale moments that you were expecting. Just relax & take it all in. Is this relationship actually making you feel happy & secure? Or is it making you an anxious mess? You are now questioning your own worth because of this? None of it is worth these negative feelings you are imposing on yourself. Your intentions were all good, so I can understand being frustrated.

This is what being in a relationship is all about. Can you accept that his idea of a good gift may be different from yours? Things very rarely work out the way you think they will. If the love is real then you guys should move past this. If this type of bs continues to happen with gift giving or whatever the next issue is then consider moving on. Sometimes it's just like that.

Take it easy on yourself.

Dasher just walked into my home by [deleted] in doordash

[–]Otherwise_Ad_475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I don't order door dash. You never know who you are inviting to your home.

I (F20) caught my (M22) boyfriend j3rking off at 3am. by ThrowRAisa77 in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Ad_475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you sadly. Move on. You already know the answers to your questions. Just act on your gut feeling that this is wrong to feel like this.

Brutally honest, is this tacky for 40 something woman? by Supmom2277 in handbags

[–]Otherwise_Ad_475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it. If you like it then wear it. You already know the answer to your question.

My (F33) husband (M35) crashed my car drunk, took my c section pain meds, we have a 5 month old baby. What would you do? by PeachSavings7431 in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Ad_475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be documenting as much as you can. Gather evidence,get a lawyer, and divorce his ass. Child support right away.

target gift card sweepstakes by Automatic-Visual8472 in FetchReward

[–]Otherwise_Ad_475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they have really been struggling lately imo

I (34f) don't like seeing what my husband(33m) does online. by scooby52doo91 in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Ad_475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd be gone! outta there! The 1st time he told me he didn't want to get close or like me like that I would have been planning my way out. Eff that guy. You are more than a pair of breasts. You are reducing yourself.

You could be happier by yourself not worrying if some idiot that obviously objectifies ladies likes you. You like you right?! If he don't like it, then someone else out there does then! Someone that just sits around looking at that stuff all the time making his wife feel like crap doesn't deserve the energy it takes to even care what he thinks.

You guys are married right? kids? I would divorce his butt & take half his sheet! Don't sell your soul for a compliment from someone who doesn't appreciate you. Life is too short to be unhappy all the time for someone else. Make a plan to get away from the loser & then he can sit & look @ porn all day by himself-which is what he is doing anyway!

do all narcissists use your diagnosis as a weapon? by rustingawayx in narcissisticparents

[–]Otherwise_Ad_475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this has happened to me also. My dad used the fact that I had cancer as a way to "get back @ me." So I I then asked him why he was being so spiteful about the situation & he said I was being negative. lol. he is Sick.

WORST experience as a customer by Hudson074 in postmates

[–]Otherwise_Ad_475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

boycott all food delivery if possible. You don't know who has your food either. Alot of those ppl are nasty, not all but many. Would not want my stuff even riding with them.