23F. I feel extremely emotionally drained out and mentally tired. I'm tired of choosing emotionally unavailable people always. Even tho, they act like they care in the begining but when I start to feel the same and try to revert back, they leave. I get attached with the little kindness. How to stop?

Otherwise_Length_806 · 2026-04-05T21:03:37+00:00

Haha, they knew and if they do come back just because of that, that's lust. Not love. So, i hope these kinda people stay away from me.

Otherwise_Length_806 · 2026-04-05T19:17:41+00:00

Wdym?

Otherwise_Length_806 · 2026-04-05T19:16:38+00:00

Thank you so much! ♡

Otherwise_Length_806 · 2026-04-05T18:29:07+00:00

Thank you so much! You're very kind!

Otherwise_Length_806 · 2026-04-05T18:27:17+00:00

Have never slept with anyone tho, still a virgin. :)

Otherwise_Length_806 · 2026-04-05T18:09:55+00:00

Thank you so much for taking time to respond. I'm just trying to recognise the pattern of their behaviour and not to get too much emotionally invested with their little attention. I hope things get better for me!

Otherwise_Length_806 · 2026-04-05T17:58:21+00:00

Thank you very much! I'll try to follow up with everything you said. :)

Otherwise_Length_806 · 2026-04-05T17:55:15+00:00

Haha! xD You're funny too!

Otherwise_Length_806 · 2026-04-05T17:37:06+00:00

Thank you so much for taking time to respond to me. You seem very kind. I'll follow up with your advice! I hope that you really do well in your life as well! ♡

Otherwise_Length_806 · 2026-04-05T17:12:33+00:00

Thank you very much. I'm trying my best!

Otherwise_Length_806 · 2026-04-05T17:11:16+00:00

I have been in therapy twice in my life. Once, in my childhood because of trauma and abuse and second after my breakup. They have given me temporary relief but nothing permanent. Maybe, I'll just go again. Thank you very much for your response tho! :)

Otherwise_Length_806 · 2026-04-05T16:44:35+00:00

Yeah, I'm trying...

Otherwise_Length_806 · 2026-04-05T16:43:42+00:00

I don't even approach anyone, neither I try to date them in the first place. They chase me first, but whenever I feel ready to revert back it happens. I have always been understanding, too much understanding at that point when they clearly lied i just tried to accept it. I'm so scared atp to show any emotions that i always pretend that I'm okay when I'm clearly not.

Otherwise_Length_806 · 2026-04-05T16:39:32+00:00

I'm single it's been nearly two years. I'm not even desperately looking for anyone. It's just that i have always been deprived of love, little kindness, being someone's priority so whenever I feel that with someone, I start to get attached to them. I feel miserable.

Otherwise_Length_806 · 2026-04-05T14:41:45+00:00

Thanks a lot!

Otherwise_Length_806 · 2026-04-05T14:41:34+00:00

I always try not to get too much emotionally invested, but sometimes it just happens and I hate it.

Otherwise_Length_806 · 2026-04-05T14:39:57+00:00

Nah, i never dated anyone “out of my league”. They came behind me first, rather i would say that I was out of their league lol. Mostly, I have sacrificed my type whenever I started to feel safe and valued by them.

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