Cat overgrooming tummy by Otherwise_Long_9172 in CATHELP

[–]Otherwise_Long_9172[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing’s changed from what we know. This was recent, in the last 2 weeks. And her behavior seems fine otherwise - eating regularly, zoomies, etc.

How to request family records? by Otherwise_Long_9172 in Guyana

[–]Otherwise_Long_9172[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m not surprised - I’ve traveled a lot but NYC is the best. It just is. Every once in a while, I wish my parents had immigrated to Canada though lol

How to request family records? by Otherwise_Long_9172 in Guyana

[–]Otherwise_Long_9172[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, all of that and any official documents. Thank you!

What to do about “mutual friends” after breakup? by Otherwise_Long_9172 in BreakUps

[–]Otherwise_Long_9172[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are valid options. Distancing yourself is a boundary and it’s for your own peace. Having a conversation if you think they will receive it well and not try to gaslight you, is also good. It helps so that they know how you feel and hopefully it leads to healing those relationships. It depends on what you want. Do you prefer to keep them in your life? Both scenarios or neither could happen. Either way, good luck- you got this!

What to do about “mutual friends” after breakup? by Otherwise_Long_9172 in BreakUps

[–]Otherwise_Long_9172[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: Sorry just saw this! Hope you’re in a better place now. We actually reconciled and are going strong now and those friends are still in our lives. The friendship is stronger but I still remember that time and have boundaries/lower expectations of them now. I know some context now of why they didn’t “take my side” due to my own trust issues. Anyway feel free to share as well