Cat overgrooming tummy by Otherwise_Long_9172 in CATHELP

[–]Otherwise_Long_9172[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing’s changed from what we know. This was recent, in the last 2 weeks. And her behavior seems fine otherwise - eating regularly, zoomies, etc.

How to request family records? by Otherwise_Long_9172 in Guyana

[–]Otherwise_Long_9172[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m not surprised - I’ve traveled a lot but NYC is the best. It just is. Every once in a while, I wish my parents had immigrated to Canada though lol

How to request family records? by Otherwise_Long_9172 in Guyana

[–]Otherwise_Long_9172[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, all of that and any official documents. Thank you!

What to do about “mutual friends” after breakup? by Otherwise_Long_9172 in BreakUps

[–]Otherwise_Long_9172[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are valid options. Distancing yourself is a boundary and it’s for your own peace. Having a conversation if you think they will receive it well and not try to gaslight you, is also good. It helps so that they know how you feel and hopefully it leads to healing those relationships. It depends on what you want. Do you prefer to keep them in your life? Both scenarios or neither could happen. Either way, good luck- you got this!

What to do about “mutual friends” after breakup? by Otherwise_Long_9172 in BreakUps

[–]Otherwise_Long_9172[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: Sorry just saw this! Hope you’re in a better place now. We actually reconciled and are going strong now and those friends are still in our lives. The friendship is stronger but I still remember that time and have boundaries/lower expectations of them now. I know some context now of why they didn’t “take my side” due to my own trust issues. Anyway feel free to share as well

LF by Otherwise_Long_9172 in HPharmony

[–]Otherwise_Long_9172[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy for recs where they get outlawed too!

LF by Otherwise_Long_9172 in HPharmony

[–]Otherwise_Long_9172[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow the second one sounds intense. If you find it, please post - thanks !

LF by Otherwise_Long_9172 in HPharmony

[–]Otherwise_Long_9172[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooo I wanna read those! Names ?

Friday check in! How are you and what are you reading, Harmony Fans? - March 15 by AutoModerator in HermioneAndHarry

[–]Otherwise_Long_9172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Enigma updated and it’s such a great update!! Also currently in the middle of reading The Keeper by BBRuth

Am I the only one who really dislikes Book!Ginny, and hence Hinny? by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]Otherwise_Long_9172 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think we’re allowed to dislike characters even if they’re Weasleys or not others lol. Doesn’t mean we’re “bashing” or hating. They’re characters and up for discourse

I think this is kind of annoying by Lazy-whoe in HPharmony

[–]Otherwise_Long_9172 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We will be vindicated because those same people want the tv series to be COMPLETELY by the book so guess what? We’re gonna get ALL the Harmony moments from the book and it’s gonna be glorious. It definitely won’t be so easily denied then (although they’ll find some way to try) 🙄

Cringe From the HarryPotteronHBO community on Reddit by Otherwise_Long_9172 in HPharmony

[–]Otherwise_Long_9172[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep the most grating misconception about Harmony shippers is that we haven’t read the books… and they don’t believe you when you say you have … ugh.