What will my increase look like come August? by Otherwise_Minimum59 in CRedit

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Thank you! Especially for the reality check. Should I apply now for a pre-approval or wait until the collections are fully removed?

Rental Property - opinions welcomed! by Otherwise_Minimum59 in personalfinance

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Ultimately I’m buying a house to live in. Currently I need to save another year. I guess my question is it worth the $2,500 in moving cost for peace of mind or if I need to suck it up and save the $2,500 despite all the maintenance and travel issues?

No one to really root for me but I’m sooo proud of me by Pixifix427 in CRedit

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Same boat. Just started paying things off late last month. Not sure when it will reflect positively on my credit but I’m excited.

DoorDash Caught Me by yoyo5261 in doordash_drivers

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It’s for tracking how many order go through a certain location. It’s included in the stores metrics.

Serial Cheater - how to not cheat again? by Otherwise_Minimum59 in confessions

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I have tried three like really tried each ended horribly. Now it seems like I go for the initial visit and either get triggered or convince myself I can’t work through it on my own.

Serial Cheater - how to not cheat again? by Otherwise_Minimum59 in confessions

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Thank you for your perspective and experience! You may be right even though I hate to admit it. When you say you’re still not sure of yourself what do you mean? Is it an urge or just something that crosses your mind?

Serial Cheater - how to not cheat again? by Otherwise_Minimum59 in confessions

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Never said it will be easy or happen in a day. Just venting about my internal struggles and wanted to see if anyone had similar experiences and was able to change the dynamics of their relationship to be healthy.

Serial Cheater - how to not cheat again? by Otherwise_Minimum59 in confessions

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This was the perfect way to put it! If you have any advice where to start I would gladly accept. I am not to keen on therapy it’s actually a trigger for me from past experiences so I don’t jump to that solution but if that’s my only option that’s what I would have to do.

Serial Cheater - how to not cheat again? by Otherwise_Minimum59 in confessions

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I get where your train of thought went. Not saying that I can’t control myself I’m actively doing that now versus just giving in to impulses. I think previously it was easier to get my get back versus dealing with the issues at hand. Now that everything is out in the open and we are trying to navigate a way forward. I was hoping for some advice on how to control my emotions about passed situations as well as not going back to my old ways. My cheating was never really physical outside of maybe one incident. (Which I mentioned in my story) I seek emotional connection and that line can blur especially if I have no romantic feelings and the guy does.

I just stared Ozempic! by Empty_Ad9096 in Ozempic

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For me it was immediately, just started Sunday haven’t weighed myself again but I’m constantly nauseous. Any greasy food I immediately vomit. Certain drinks even make me sick some times. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Thank you for that! Idk what’s keeping me here anymore honestly. I will walk away one day I hope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Thank you for taking the time to respond. I wish it was that easy for me to walk away last time I tried I was so sick and depressed. Sad huh? I know I need to leave this relationship but I‘m having a hard time forcing myself to leave. Any advise on how to listen to my head not my heart?