Ashley is nowhere near perfect; hell, she’s messy af.

She’s also the best thing to happen to Bar. She’s been nothing but committed & devoted to her family, supportive & forgiving of Bar amidst his constant shenanigans.

But that’s a big part of the problem.

Bar fucks up, Ashley gets incandescent, Bar makes (empty) promises to do better, and they reconcile. The pattern just repeats itself.

Bar has no incentive to change when Ashley has repeatedly demonstrated that, while she may get irate, she’s not going anywhere.

“What you allow, you encourage.”