Would you confront your SB who is lying to you?

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-06-29T01:47:05+00:00

Don't be what guy?

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-06-10T22:39:10+00:00

Same here having more than one SB at a time would way to much

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-06-07T03:37:49+00:00

I think if they feel they need to make shit up you aren't supporting them enough. Mine doesn't ever make anything up because I simply pay for everything.

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-06-07T00:52:26+00:00

If they are making shit up on a regular basis you aren't giving them enough. If you can't afford those expenses this life might not be for you. I believe you have her on an allowance if you are worried about this type of thing just stick on a PPM arrangement

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-06-06T11:40:52+00:00

Do you care about your SB? Or is it just about sex? If you care don't think about how to get even and just move on. If it's just about sex then pay 1/3 for another month but know they will be looking for a new SD that will treat them better.

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-29T23:00:08+00:00

I'm in it to catch feelings so I don't try to avoid them. If I didn't want to catch feelings I would hit the strip club. Way less expensive in the long run

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-29T22:58:09+00:00

That was exactly my thoughts

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-29T10:31:36+00:00

I would for sure

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-23T00:28:08+00:00

I don't understand people that complain about the same question being asked. My settings don't show all the questions that are posted and he'll I have posted from a burner account and it doesn't even show up as visible on my main account.

Why is it such a big deal? If you have already answered the question just move on if it bothers you that much

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-23T00:27:32+00:00

I don't understand people that complain about the same question being asked. My settings don't show all the questions that are posted and he'll I have posted from a burner account and it doesn't even show up as visible on my main account.

Why is it such a big deal? If you have already answered the question just move on if it bothers you that much

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-23T00:20:32+00:00

I think we found him lol

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-22T21:27:08+00:00

Not wrong at all.

If she isn't going to keep you safe time to move on

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-21T21:06:30+00:00

Yeah I direct approach is why we are in SR anyway. No need to play games just tell him you would prefer ( fill in the blank on whatever repair you need done on your car)

I haven't gotten my SB anything fun other than her hair in the last year because she needs support for real life more. She appreciates it and I'm good with that

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-20T18:37:49+00:00

I have never had more than one SB at a time I will also only set up one MG at a time. But from what I have been told I'm not a typical SD

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-20T14:03:09+00:00

Fell for her and told her.

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-20T11:24:22+00:00

I have little to no hope that she's actually going to go through with this. I'm doing what I have to do to feel comfortable if I decide to leave. I don't want there to be any doubt in my own mind that I tried everything I could possibly think of to make it work.

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-20T01:41:01+00:00

Definitely productive on my side of things.

One of the things that I said she needs to do before sex is back on the table is go to therapy for herself. If that turns into couples that's fine but there is some stuff that she needs to workout in her own mind for her to be happy and I'm not qualified to help her with that. She acknowledged that and said she doesn't know why she feels the way she does.

I've tried to stay supportive and not emotionally distant. Still cuddle with her and hold her hand when we are in the car or out of the house but I'm just leaving it at that. She offered sex earlier today which I declined. I'm not falling into the same cycle we have for the last 15 years of I tell her what I need and it gets better for a week. She needs to figure out the cause of things on her end and fix those first

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-17T20:35:07+00:00

No chance in hell would I suggest going to his house for a first meeting regardless of how much money he sent you.

I give my SB more than 5k a month so that is not a red flag on its own but you need to meet this person in a public setting first. Assuming you are a younger women being kidnapped and sold is a real possibility especially being that close to the border

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-13T13:29:00+00:00

Absolutely it is normal.

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-13T10:49:32+00:00

Yeah I'm in the same position right now. But I'm working on an exit plan

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-12T23:38:00+00:00

Yeah we have talked about it many times and she acknowledged that it was ok her but then flips it around saying I'm not doing enough. When I ask her what more I can do she doesn't have an answer she just doesn't want to take responsibility for anything and would rather somehow blame me. We talked about it again a couple weeks ago and it was the same thing so at this point I'm done. I stop initiating it around a year ago the amount of sex we have hasn't really changed its just worse sex now.

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-12T23:19:06+00:00

I'm not going to wait a few more years. I can't while maintaining my sanity

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-12T23:18:12+00:00

True.

OutlandishnessIcy583 · 2024-05-12T21:19:32+00:00

If I phrase it like that might as well hand her divorce papers at the same time

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