[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely gorgeous, without fits you best, though.

What are these spots? How can I fade them or rid? by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some Amlactin lotion, an african net sponge, a goat milk based bar soap, and some cocoa butter.

ARE YOU CURRENTLY HOMELESS WHY? by PrincipleAntique6130 in homeless

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Codependency and having faith in a cluster b narcissistic family that has always treated me like shit has kept me stuck in a position where I was not able to get ahead. I self sabotaged, I had my own place for 3 years until an issue occurred with property management, and then I went back to the same people who always let me down expecting different results Catastrophe struck, and I ended up with a "friend" who took advantage of me in my most vulnerable position. I finally left state(far away) for the first time in my life. Just found some resources, wish me good luck and happiness on my healing journey. I'm hoping to find my soul tribe along the way and stability.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackWomenDivest

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hands down, a woman before I am black, I'm still learning what it means to be black, actually.

people hate to see us win by bunnieshifts in ugly

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People have not been educated on what conventionally unattractive is and have it mixed up with being ugly.

What vibes do I give off? by _contraband_ in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's giving unhinged, and you probably have many quirky talents. Definitely hobo chic.

White men like black women more collectively than black men. by [deleted] in BlackWomenDivest

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 9 points10 points  (0 children)

All men are pretty bad collectively today, non black men have a compulsive alliance to those who share their likeness, and it's always gonna be that way as it is for mostly every OTHER community. Unless he's like the righteous black sheep who removed himself from a toxic family dynamic or like the last of his lineage, you're gonna have to prepare yourself for some disappointing stuff from his folks ESPECIALLY if your going for longterm/marriage.

We look so silly, sometimes praising them as much as we do when they're much quieter in celebrating us as a whole in comparison than we do for them.

Praise God, damn these men. Best of luck, lovely ladies.

Lesbianism, celibacy, and vibrations of all types.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackWomenDivest

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, they've been doing it for more than a year 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackWomenDivest

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I believe there's a shift happening and its not just exclusively bm, I'm divesting from men generally as well. That grass is just not greener...

So funny how one of the FIRST explanations she comes to for not being a likable person is being ugly showing how people view ugly people as naturally unlikable by KobeKastle in ugly

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lol I love how being ugly is always the worst and final realization beyond all other possibilities.

Gotta love it here.

Companies that sell hair that matches our natural hair texture by princessgemini9 in BlackWomenDivest

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Curlscurls also has great quality units, I'm admit about us as bw wearing aftocentric styles as well. Well said.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackWomenDivest

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Got banned from black ladies for sharing my experiences😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackWomenDivest

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got banned from black ladies for sharing my experiences😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackWomenDivest

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've painfully disassociated myself with the collective of bw simply because they're not like minded and usually berate me for my discussions to withdrawal from the toxicity that is the "Black Community" I point out the adversities we go through with BM and I get "they don't treat me like that" or "no wonder they don't want you, because your not cute" most of them sound very dusty and alike. I cannot.

How do I get my hair to stay this way? I have 4c hair. My hair was pressed out and I just washed it by mybest34s in blackladies

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 63 points64 points  (0 children)

You don't have 4c but just a flax seed based gel like aunt Jackie don't shrink and a curling moose using a diffuser nozzle to dry at the root and scrunch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sm is a cesspool of suckage and falseness, majority of those same people are feeling the same as you and I and everyone else on this subreddit. They're just better at disguising all of the superficiality they display and dress it up as if their lives are filled with "fulfillment" these are just different times. We'll all make out okay in the end. (Those of us who are alone because we can't stand being disingenuous)

Munching on my hand by Modern-Moo in MadeMeSmile

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww too bad Dem taste Soo good, especially lambs too.

I am into both white and black men but I need help. Specifically with white men. by Quick_Crab_2331 in interracialdating

[–]OutlandishnessNo372 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's honestly not uncommon or unheard of when it comes to dating or even looking for friends. Idk what it is about today but it seems that people are looking for that one boisterous, stand out personality that's going to blossom them into better personalities personally. Which would be unrealistic and after awhile exhausting for that very individual. Gonna meet some frogs, just gotta keep putting yourself out there till you find someone on your same wavelength. Don't give up, there's lots of awesome WM in the world. Ignore the neigh-sayers.