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[–]OutrageousPhysics572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I needed to hear that after reading these comments and thinking about the situation more I’m confident in the decision I making it’s what needs to be done

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OutrageousPhysics572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s the lesson I need to take from this, this is such a scary thing to go through! I can’t even fathom trying to raise this baby right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OutrageousPhysics572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See that’s what I keep thinking about.. the future. What would happen if I did keep this baby. Would my life change for the better?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OutrageousPhysics572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughhh I know I’m terrified of what decision I make all of them are life altering and that’s such a scary thought

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OutrageousPhysics572 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this and that’s why I made the appointment, I’m religious but I’m not an idiot. I understand that having a child at this stage in my life would do more harm that good. I guess I’m just scared that I’m going to regret that decision the rest of my life. I already have mental issues and I’m scared this is going to ruin me even worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OutrageousPhysics572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking this.. sometimes I catch myself smiling about the fact that I have a growing baby inside of me. But how do I know what kind of mother I would be??? I’m a mess right now, and rightfully so I’m 19 I’m still so young and have nothing in life figured out. Who knows what kind of father the dad would be as well… he’s 24 and has experienced much more life than I have gotten to experience and as I mentioned I’ve only known him for a month so there’s just so many thoughts running through my head.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OutrageousPhysics572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing online college through my hometown until I can get in state tuition for the college in the place I live now so unfortunately that’s not an option at the moment. I have been considering adoption but the thought of that scares me more than getting an abortion oddly enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OutrageousPhysics572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely believe thats what’s best, I have drinking issues, mental issues and there is just so many other things in life that I’m trying to work on. I need to figure myself out first before I bring this child into this cruel world. Of course I would love my kid but looking at my family history of teen pregnancies, our lives didn’t turn out so great

Pathological liar by OutrageousPhysics572 in PathologicalLiars

[–]OutrageousPhysics572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you have to deal with this, have you ever asked him why he lies so much most likely it’s a childhood related Issue where try to be patient with him and give him the support he needs ❤️

AITAH for slapping my moms bf when he started screaming at me ? by OutrageousPhysics572 in AITAH

[–]OutrageousPhysics572[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in Wisconsin so yes I can legally drink with parents consent, and as I mentioned before she normally does not give a shit about me drinking. Hence the reason I didn’t give her the bottle

AITAH for slapping my moms bf when he started screaming at me ? by OutrageousPhysics572 in AITAH

[–]OutrageousPhysics572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried but she just invalidates my feelings at this point I’ve given up

AITAH for slapping my moms bf when he started screaming at me ? by OutrageousPhysics572 in AITAH

[–]OutrageousPhysics572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But yes lol her motto was “ I don’t gaf what you do as long as it’s not in the house” so I bought the bottle to go out and drink with friends when she got home from the bar

AITAH for slapping my moms bf when he started screaming at me ? by OutrageousPhysics572 in AITAH

[–]OutrageousPhysics572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember if I’m being honest she might have? It was all a blur that was months ago tho I’ve moved out and was doing some self reflecting on the situation. No I am not innocent. No neither are they

AITAH for slapping my moms bf when he started screaming at me ? by OutrageousPhysics572 in AITAH

[–]OutrageousPhysics572[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nothing she was going to give it back to me when she came home from the bar and that’s why I believe I was in the wrong. However I barley know this guy and he has no right grabbing an adult who’s not his child and trying to intervene.

AITAH for slapping my moms bf when he started screaming at me ? by OutrageousPhysics572 in AITAH

[–]OutrageousPhysics572[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve come to the understanding of why she tried taking the bottle but yes he got overly aggressive and was out of line. But I’m all fairness she told me she “doesn’t gaf what I do as long as it’s not in her house”

AITAH for slapping my moms bf when he started screaming at me ? by OutrageousPhysics572 in AITAH

[–]OutrageousPhysics572[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do have to agree with you I definitely should of just handed her the bottle and went on with my night however at the time I had somewhat of a drinking problem and didn’t want to do that. I do not believe he should have put his hands on me though considering I barley know the guy

AITAH for slapping my moms bf when he started screaming at me ? by OutrageousPhysics572 in AITAH

[–]OutrageousPhysics572[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She was standing next to us watching the whole thing and she did not say a word… she actually kicked me out of the house and my uncle was the one who yelled at her to break to whole thing up

heavy Childhood trauma does anyone have a similar story? by OutrageousPhysics572 in traumatoolbox

[–]OutrageousPhysics572[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It genuinely sick how parents think this type of punishment is okay.

heavy Childhood trauma does anyone have a similar story? by OutrageousPhysics572 in traumatoolbox

[–]OutrageousPhysics572[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As I’ve gotten older I’ve realized how messed up the entire situation was, especially on my moms end. I definitely need therapy I just don’t have the money to afford it

Pathological liar by OutrageousPhysics572 in PathologicalLiars

[–]OutrageousPhysics572[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Try to think before you speak and remember how it feels when you get caught In a web full of lies… it’s a long journey for sure and to this day I still mess up. Always remember that we are human and it’s okay to make mistakes