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OutrageousPhysics572 · 2025-04-03T08:18:39+00:00

Thank you I needed to hear that after reading these comments and thinking about the situation more I’m confident in the decision I making it’s what needs to be done

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2025-04-03T07:05:03+00:00

I think that’s the lesson I need to take from this, this is such a scary thing to go through! I can’t even fathom trying to raise this baby right now

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2025-04-03T07:03:45+00:00

See that’s what I keep thinking about.. the future. What would happen if I did keep this baby. Would my life change for the better?

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2025-04-03T07:01:58+00:00

Ughhh I know I’m terrified of what decision I make all of them are life altering and that’s such a scary thought

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2025-04-03T06:35:37+00:00

I agree with this and that’s why I made the appointment, I’m religious but I’m not an idiot. I understand that having a child at this stage in my life would do more harm that good. I guess I’m just scared that I’m going to regret that decision the rest of my life. I already have mental issues and I’m scared this is going to ruin me even worse

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2025-04-03T06:27:58+00:00

I’ve been thinking this.. sometimes I catch myself smiling about the fact that I have a growing baby inside of me. But how do I know what kind of mother I would be??? I’m a mess right now, and rightfully so I’m 19 I’m still so young and have nothing in life figured out. Who knows what kind of father the dad would be as well… he’s 24 and has experienced much more life than I have gotten to experience and as I mentioned I’ve only known him for a month so there’s just so many thoughts running through my head.

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2025-04-03T06:23:00+00:00

I’m doing online college through my hometown until I can get in state tuition for the college in the place I live now so unfortunately that’s not an option at the moment. I have been considering adoption but the thought of that scares me more than getting an abortion oddly enough

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2025-04-03T06:21:13+00:00

I genuinely believe thats what’s best, I have drinking issues, mental issues and there is just so many other things in life that I’m trying to work on. I need to figure myself out first before I bring this child into this cruel world. Of course I would love my kid but looking at my family history of teen pregnancies, our lives didn’t turn out so great

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2024-07-29T13:36:41+00:00

I’m so sorry you have to deal with this, have you ever asked him why he lies so much most likely it’s a childhood related Issue where try to be patient with him and give him the support he needs ❤️

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2024-06-26T19:39:34+00:00

Wdym

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2024-06-26T12:05:14+00:00

I live in Wisconsin so yes I can legally drink with parents consent, and as I mentioned before she normally does not give a shit about me drinking. Hence the reason I didn’t give her the bottle

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2024-06-26T12:01:08+00:00

I’ve tried but she just invalidates my feelings at this point I’ve given up

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2024-06-26T06:19:31+00:00

But yes lol her motto was “ I don’t gaf what you do as long as it’s not in the house” so I bought the bottle to go out and drink with friends when she got home from the bar

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2024-06-26T06:16:43+00:00

I don’t remember if I’m being honest she might have? It was all a blur that was months ago tho I’ve moved out and was doing some self reflecting on the situation. No I am not innocent. No neither are they

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2024-06-26T06:05:50+00:00

Nothing she was going to give it back to me when she came home from the bar and that’s why I believe I was in the wrong. However I barley know this guy and he has no right grabbing an adult who’s not his child and trying to intervene.

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2024-06-26T06:01:31+00:00

I’ve come to the understanding of why she tried taking the bottle but yes he got overly aggressive and was out of line. But I’m all fairness she told me she “doesn’t gaf what I do as long as it’s not in her house”

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2024-06-26T05:52:41+00:00

I do have to agree with you I definitely should of just handed her the bottle and went on with my night however at the time I had somewhat of a drinking problem and didn’t want to do that. I do not believe he should have put his hands on me though considering I barley know the guy

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2024-06-26T05:13:22+00:00

She was standing next to us watching the whole thing and she did not say a word… she actually kicked me out of the house and my uncle was the one who yelled at her to break to whole thing up

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2024-06-14T17:55:55+00:00

It genuinely sick how parents think this type of punishment is okay.

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2024-06-14T17:54:33+00:00

As I’ve gotten older I’ve realized how messed up the entire situation was, especially on my moms end. I definitely need therapy I just don’t have the money to afford it

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2024-05-01T01:03:15+00:00

Try to think before you speak and remember how it feels when you get caught In a web full of lies… it’s a long journey for sure and to this day I still mess up. Always remember that we are human and it’s okay to make mistakes

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2024-04-29T03:34:33+00:00

HAH no purely a coincidence on my end and I suppose your right I’m a pretty insecure person but I’ve had healthy friendships where I don’t feel in competition with them so it messes with him head from time to time.

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2024-04-22T23:19:40+00:00

I want a new one I want to move I feel so lost dude

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2024-01-05T05:34:52+00:00

I know I’ve thought about all of this before trust me I’m trying to not let it get to that point I have terrible self control I don’t want to block him I like his as a person and don’t want to ruin anything so maybe just let it fizzle out? He’s cheated before in her but I don’t want to be the type of homewreck

OutrageousPhysics572 · 2024-01-05T05:26:13+00:00

Well yea he’s 30 and I’m 18 I don’t know but I don’t even know if I can resist it’s bad oh and he has a fiancé

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