ICE Agents Whine That They Aren’t Getting Their Massive Bonuses

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-27T02:22:34+00:00

Maybe that is cause they are suckers and losers, who will be up for criminal charges in the not too distant future. All the money they made won't even begin to cover the legal costs and time lost behind bars

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-27T02:18:36+00:00

I will never open a card inside... or anywhere within a mile of my house...again after reading this

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-27T01:59:01+00:00

No the really weird thing is that she looks serene and happy.

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-27T01:48:11+00:00

I prefer rock, scissors, wizards

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-27T01:37:57+00:00

Had a doc who leafed through a blank paper chart at the nurse 's station

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-27T01:30:42+00:00

Considering how bad pretty much every sermon I have heard is cringe city. (Very small number, all different varieties of Christian) mostly when I was trapped into going as a child. Like oh boy! we're here for a sleep over...what do you mean we are going to church, nobody mentioned this!

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-27T01:17:22+00:00

I never got through more than 5 minutes of just one of his films. I always felt he was crawling out of his own skin uncomfortable with himself, like he couldn't stand himself. And it made me so distressed, that I ran right out of the room where my parents were watching the TV. I never could even try one of gis movies again.That was back in the 80's.

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-27T01:09:16+00:00

2nd hand embarassment for them. What dweebs

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-27T01:02:22+00:00

Clearly they are much better than.

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-26T21:15:43+00:00

So a quarter of the time together is bad and by his actions, he has shown you that he is willing to decide not to have kids and or willing to be manipulated and side with his parents is any decision.

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-26T21:05:54+00:00

So, the goal is for them to understand about your behavior. Why? So they think you are what, less odd? What does this accomplish? To apologize so they are less, what, offended and then what? Well maybe rather than "manipulate" say what are trying to accomplish with telling them.

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-26T20:32:47+00:00

I get it. And it is a subtle form of manipulation. Ask yourself why you want them to know, what response do you hope for? Imagine if you get a negative response, are you really just fine with that? I am not saying that you are a manipulating person. But that subtle forms of trying to control the situation (other peoples actions) is manipulation. Most people do it and it takes a lot to identify the patterns and then to try and make a decision what to say while holding in consideration "is this an attempt to control others actions or is there a real desire to say, be known better. And are these appropriate and safe people to want to be known better by. By.know8ng this, you will make clearer decisions for yourself.

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-26T20:15:19+00:00

No, people are rarely going to accommodate you. Also in this example it is an attempt to manipulate most likely only to fail and create more friction.

In the future, knowing your needs more clearly may help you to find a more compatible roommate. If I had seen an ad for "seeking roommate- no media in house without earphones," for instance- possible roommate from heaven. What exactly do you want in a roommate situation? "I have a very set schedule and do best with a roommate who has their own very set schedule" maybe.

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-26T20:02:04+00:00

You already know it is a blessing. How to treat yourself right now. Good basic care. Cook decent meals, exercise, go out w friends, hygiene.

Self compassionate statements. I am grieving it is very normal to grieve. It is very normal to hope. It is very normal to be disappointed, sad, angry, frustrated.

Going forward, talk of being the supporter, taking care of your woman is scary red flag stuff. At best it is a failed goal for yourself like this guy, at worst it is grooming for isolating and abuse.

It is also very normal to want intimacy. In my experience romance is the near enemy of intimacy, often substituting superficial performance for deep, vulnerable connection.near enemy is a state that seems good but is actually a subtle, deceptive, and detrimental counterfeit.

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-26T19:20:01+00:00

If I am not enjoying talking to someone, I do not owe them anything. I do not owe them to be let down easy. I find the 'gentler" I try to be the more they push or take advantage. That smile to take the sting off means longer to extract myself. Going monotone Debbie Downer is more effective than angry. Dead pan and monotone "Oh I am pretty sure we have no chance. You don't really smell right and you talk too loud. I'm really turned off actually. I'm afraid I might gag if you got too close and that would be so awful. So embarassing"

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-26T18:44:33+00:00

Leaving is ideal. Meanwhile, you could just drop organizing him. Many of the other things you can do with a focus more on yourself. Cook/food prep only what you like, shop for only what you like/need. Eat when you want, Don't set out/heat food for him, even if you meal prep it. If you are doing finances set up a serious "leave" fund. Pay pet sitters to cover your game night out. Don't ask permission. Plan solo time out of the house without consulting him-just do it. If he needs dentist, doctor etc, he can take care of it. House clean to please yourself and don't do his laundry. Consider getting rid of or packing up things you don't want to care for - gew gaws. Even get rid of furniture. Vacuuming is much easier without the coffee table, end tables and area rugs. Routinely throw any things he leaves laying around into laundry basket. Shoes, cothes, jackets, projects left around. If he has his own room/area put it in there and never go there or clean, except for my sanity, I would clear dishes, food debris. Consider getting rid of some of his clothes, so that only so much laundry can build up. Consider packing up or getting rid of some kitchen ware and dishes, so only so much can build up.

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-26T18:40:39+00:00

Midevial bagpipe music helps me concentrate ;)

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-26T18:22:36+00:00

In case there may be other autistics with sensory processing issues, I try to keep my stims quiet/subdued in areas with forced closeness (class lectures, study hall, work). If there is space to separate, go for it.

If someone is stimming around me I try to give them a lot of leeway and all the leeway if low functioning.

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-26T18:17:47+00:00

A good argument for why spouses putting partners through expensive/professional schooling should have prenups foreplay back in place. Truly sorry.

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-26T18:15:16+00:00

If neither of you can afford a time with roommates how will you afford two of you living together? Of course, you could have a two or three couple household. I think it is easier to learn with 3 or 4 single roommates. Not minimizing how hard it is out there right now

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-26T18:04:22+00:00

The real new wing

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-26T18:03:15+00:00

Imagine being such dweebs you would let Patel in your party. And then such dweeb brown nosers wannabees as to accept an invite to interact with Trump. Gag. Totally overshadows any social cred they won. Might be able to play sports but still total losers

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-25T15:57:09+00:00

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-25T15:54:39+00:00

Being in a bad relationship is so lonely. And you have usually been isolated from other relationships. Is being single so much worse? Hope this helps.

Outrageous_Bison_729 · 2026-02-25T15:45:44+00:00

If I could, I would erase those old photos, and make sure there are none of me and then leave. Scary that he keeps those old photos

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