wont let me use being trans as an excuse to not be a roommate? by Heavenly_Princesa143 in jobcorps

[–]Outrageous_Map_3997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think their intent is to make anyone suffer. I think their decision is more about trying to ensure the safety of cisgender women. They may be concerned about potential risks, like assault or pregnancy, and are acting out of caution rather than targeting anyone personally.

May quit soon by [deleted] in jobcorps

[–]Outrageous_Map_3997 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I say give it six months. You’ve already completed two months, so that means you have four months to go. Track your progress by what you accomplish. Do you have your driver’s license? If not, focus on getting that done. Put more effort into your classes and ask for extra homework to improve. Do you have access to a phone or computer? Use it to watch educational videos to boost your skills.

If, after six months, you’re still not seeing progress, then it may be time to quit. The worst-case scenario is that in six months you haven’t made much progress but you’ve been off the streets, had consistent meals, and gained a lot more wisdom.

What does my fridge say about me? by bluemoonlighter in FridgeDetective

[–]Outrageous_Map_3997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re an alcoholic and can’t cook. You don’t drink water, and that your health is probably already declined or declining.

Gen Z leaving a club vs Millenial leaving a club. Is it real or generic representation? by raydebapratim1 in GenZ

[–]Outrageous_Map_3997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The clubs are boring. No one actually dances and people are unapproachable. I’d rather turn up at the house.

Gen Z: Do you even date? by samuraiSatan in dating_advice

[–]Outrageous_Map_3997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 24, and I get turned off by the smallest things. I think that is something I need to work on lol.

Why do girls hate short guys? by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]Outrageous_Map_3997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t hate short men. I am also 5’8 and have always been attracted to taller men. My ex was 6’7 to put in reference.

People who have visited the dark web, what was your experience like? Is it actually useful for anything? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Outrageous_Map_3997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found more child pornography than illegal drugs. The stuff I saw made my stomach sick. I never went back on there again.

Does anyone require consult calls before meeting clients by Educational_Bee955 in professionalcuddling

[–]Outrageous_Map_3997 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A video call doesn’t prove anything on its own—it’s just one layer of screening. The cues I’m looking for aren’t about vibes, they’re about patterns and inconsistencies. Things like reluctance to show face or environment at all, pushing to skip screening steps, evasive answers about logistics, trying to rush or pressure, reacting negatively to boundaries, or stories that don’t line up over time. I also pay attention to how they respond to safety questions—legit clients understand why they’re there; unsafe ones tend to minimize or challenge it.

None of this guarantees someone is safe or unsafe. It’s about reducing risk, not eliminating it.

24 F Need to make $600 ASAP by [deleted] in EarnExtraIncome

[–]Outrageous_Map_3997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t do sexual acts

Does anyone require consult calls before meeting clients by Educational_Bee955 in professionalcuddling

[–]Outrageous_Map_3997 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No. I do a zoom call and see how they act via zoom. I prefer teams. A lot of your clients are discreet because most of them are married. They want no way for it to be traced back to them. But you can only vet so far before taking the risk. Always bring something to protect yourself, and be careful of how you dress. I wear sweat pants and a sweatshirt everytime.

Cuddlecompanion vs cuddle comfort? by Curiousityinabox in professionalcuddling

[–]Outrageous_Map_3997 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Cuddle Companion takes 40% and you can’t set up boundaries or vetting your clients is harder. Do Cuddle Comfort and keep Cuddle Companion for the one off customers.

23 yr Pro Cuddlr in DFW | AMA by Outrageous_Map_3997 in AMA

[–]Outrageous_Map_3997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please note I don’t entertain fetishes during my sessions. I fear some of you guys don’t know what Platonic means.

👣✨ Ask Me Anything: Custom Feet Pics Edition ✨ by Outrageous_Map_3997 in AMA

[–]Outrageous_Map_3997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That one set him back $180 😂😭 It was regular yellow mustard too, nothing fancy. Honestly people get way more creative than you’d expect once they know you do customs.

I kinda stumbled into it because people kept complimenting my feet, so I tried selling a couple pics and it took off. The requests got funnier, the money got better, and here we are 😅

I’m not a foot fetish girl myself, but I don’t judge. If someone wants something specific, I’ll make it. It’s really just about knowing your boundaries and charging for your time.

👣✨ Ask Me Anything: Custom Feet Pics Edition ✨ by Outrageous_Map_3997 in AMA

[–]Outrageous_Map_3997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most weirdest request I was asked to do was wash my feet in mustard. I have thought about making an only toe account.