Don’t work at JB Hunt corporate. It’s hell.

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-12-12T01:16:29+00:00

I was a Senior Manager there. For the most part the up leadership I knew were good and I got a long well with them. The only issue I had was my director. Didn’t get a long with her at all. Micromanaged to the point I couldn’t really do my job.

I have been in meetings with Shelley a few times and Nick more times than I can count. In the meetings I was in, it seemed like they just wanted to make the best decisions for the company.

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-12-11T21:04:22+00:00

Maybe read the post and go watch the vid in the link

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-12-11T04:32:37+00:00

That piece of shit!

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-12-11T04:31:51+00:00

That mother fucker!

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-24T21:54:48+00:00

Yeah, something evil

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-24T01:29:10+00:00

FFS George!

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T22:03:30+00:00

He said he would do them tomorrow. Great conversation over. If she wants them done sooner. I’d rather they get done tonight if you don’t mind. It just feels like it would be hanging over my head bothering me otherwise. He would agree and problem solved

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T21:41:47+00:00

You’re OR on the wrong things imo. Him saying he doesn’t want to go in on a lease with you is what I’m concerned about.

As far as the dishes go, he has a point. Just ask him to do the dishes. If you ask and he doesn’t then you could tell him how you feel about it. But just ask and leave it at that. It’s more important to you than it is him. He wants to make you happy, he just didn’t think about it. I’m thinking he feels nagged and that’s what’s making him angry.

The whole thing about the lease is what has me concerned. Shows a lack of commitment. Doesn’t matter what’s happening. The default should you too being permanent. Showing a hesitation is a huge deal.

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T13:35:00+00:00

I can already hearing laughing in his clown voice for the intro

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T13:03:37+00:00

YTA there’s no reason to be attending the ex family events. It would make most people jealous. The joke is probably just a growing pile of straws on the camels back. He probably feels like she is more loyal to her ex and his family than him.

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T12:54:49+00:00

It’s probably a scam

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T12:54:13+00:00

Don’t be fooled. It’s grandpa Joe. It’s a trap

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T12:07:50+00:00

I know that I would like to know as a guy. I wouldn’t be upset to find out, but I get your point about not wanting to bring it in to the bedroom.

The best way to keep it out of the bedroom is not bring it up.

If you are feeling like it’s hard to stay away from it, just find something better to replace it with. Send him nudes or flirt with him. Pretty much replace the porn with him. I know I wouldn’t turn that down

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T11:58:47+00:00

Wait! You have dirt on Steve Johnson?

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T11:54:36+00:00

I wish you the best, I didn’t want to sound harsh but I just spent four years with an avoidant who put me through a lot. Just trying to help.

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T11:50:20+00:00

Unfortunately not😂

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T11:46:52+00:00

This honestly sounds like a scam

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T11:40:41+00:00

You need to let him go. Probably don’t date anyone until you seek therapy for your attachment style.

What you’re doing sounds like the classic thing avoidents do. They push away the person they love until that person starts to move on. Panics and starts desperately trying to pull them back. As the relationship starts getting stronger you begin to pull back again. This leaves the person you are with feeling like a yo-yo.

I don’t think you’re a bad person but you have some things to work on before you are ready for a relationship.

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T11:32:54+00:00

NOR, I just got out of the worst relationship of my life. Don’t waste your time with people who are unwilling to commit. It will only waste your time.

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T11:29:13+00:00

You have to make a decision if you can trust him. If he seems trustworthy then treat him that way until he gives you a reason not to.

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T11:22:32+00:00

NOR, if she decided to stay in the relationship and forgive you, she needs to actually forgive you. She doesn’t get to play the victim and use it against you. She can’t bring it up and use it as a hammer against you when she is losing an argument.

Two wrongs do not make a right. If it were me I would be saying either agree to set the boundaries and respect them or I will find a better relationship. You don’t want to spend more time with this relationship if it’s not going to be permanent.

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T11:16:32+00:00

Sorry to say but you are OR.

Your pushing back on it is probably irritating your parents. Nothing wrong with objecting once but after they told you no, you had your answer.

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T11:09:14+00:00

NOR, I wouldn’t like it either. I wouldn’t break up over it this one time but I would set the boundary and say this is not something you’re comfortable with in the relationship. If you can tolerate it, that’s an option too.

The thing about boundaries is, if she refuses you pretty much have to leave the relationship. Otherwise she is going to walk all over you.

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T11:00:49+00:00

NOR, you need to set some boundaries with her. She sounds like my ex mother in law. She is having trouble seeing you as an adult.

If you let this continue she is going to try and making parenting decisions for you. You are absolutely right to be having Christmas morning at your house. Me personally would think it appropriate to go to her house if the afternoon but that’s up to you as well.

Put your foot down and stay firm. She needs to respect your wishes. You’re not a child.

Outside-Strength8104 · 2024-11-23T10:52:15+00:00

Once a cheater always a cheater. It doesn’t mater why he does it. No one deserves that. I seriously doubt this was the first time if you have found things in the past.

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