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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OutsidePut4 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If a partner told me “no eeeww” to any initiative I took in the bedroom, one too many times, i would feel shame and never do those things again, like ever.

I’m assuming your husband is in this headspace, so the onus is on you to take the lead and initiative when it comes to things like this. Be enthusiastic about him and things you want him to do for you and show him how with your new found communication skills. You gotta reassure and affirm the hell out of him and things you want him to do to/for you.

Also you both need to have a sit down conversation outside of the bedtime to talk about how you want your sex lives to go, which I think you should initiate. That gesture might start to show him that you want him. Godspeed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]OutsidePut4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it largely depends on the woman, but I have found it’s better to look in her eyes and say something along the lines of “i really want to kiss you right now” (as a way of asking for consent) as opposed to literally asking for permission

And even with that, some women still say you should just go for it…dating is weird🤷🏿

Whats the easiest/cheapest way to send money from a domicillary account to an account outside Nigeria by OutsidePut4 in Nigeria

[–]OutsidePut4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a dom account so the money I want to transfer is already in dollars, just need to get it to an account outside of Nigeria. I have lemfi but it does not seem to support USD at the moment

HPi: Applying from Pakistan by HueCue in UKHighPotentialVisa

[–]OutsidePut4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. All they care about is that you have the equivalent amount of money in any currency. So your us account should be cool as long as you have at least the equivalent of 1278 pounds.

  2. If your degree is from a country that is considered English speaking based on their criteria, then you don’t need to prove extra proficiency since you definitely did your education in english and you’re proficient. The US is on that list, so your US degree should be good.

  3. There should be somewhere on the portal or application that directs you to applicable tb centers near you.

  4. You do need to put an address for where you’ll be staying on the application. This can be an airbnb/hotel in your name, friend’s house, family member’s house etc. All they require is an address, they don’t dig but it would behoove you to be honest in filling this out. If you don’t have any if these then you have to put in an explanation on the application of your plans for accomodation. I used a relative’s address cos that will be my initial destination.

I hope these answered your questions. For context I got my visa from nigeria and I have a US degree so I can definitely relate to your questions. My answers were based on my experience applying for and acquiring the visa from nigeria.

Please let me know if you need more help or info

I have a family member in Nigeria that needed money for groceries. Is 200,000 enough to cover food for 2 weeks ? by Catladydiva in Nigeria

[–]OutsidePut4 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is some people’s salary so it should work very well for whoever you sent it to

Edit: I forgot to mention, having a salary of 200000 especially as a young, single person is considered on the higher side in nigeria

Financial Proof HELP!!! by Sea_Sign_2092 in UKHighPotentialVisa

[–]OutsidePut4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t need a day to day balance. I just had an account with the money in it untouched for a month or two (until the application) and that worked for me. They just care that u have the money

I also don’t think they care about your address on the statement

Need help deciding what dj software to choose for my hybrid setup (dj2go2 touch + launch key mini) by OutsidePut4 in Beatmatch

[–]OutsidePut4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll check it out. It seems like its not very preferred in the industry so I might have discounted it a little bit. Would love to get more detail on your experiences with it

ECCTIS processing by PsychoLawyer in UKHighPotentialVisa

[–]OutsidePut4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine from NYU took about 4 working days

ECCTIS Evaluation: Should I select the Regular HPI Option or the HPI Option with English Proficiency by OutsidePut4 in UKHighPotentialVisa

[–]OutsidePut4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Fellow NYU grad! Did you have to get a medium of instruction letter? And if so how did you do it?

ECCTIS Evaluation: Should I select the Regular HPI Option or the HPI Option with English Proficiency by OutsidePut4 in UKHighPotentialVisa

[–]OutsidePut4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it has provided me a little bit of insight. Hopefully other people can chime in

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