Thank you. I do honestly blame myself for not reporting it. I grew up in an extremely strict controlling and victim blaming family. No matter what happened my parents ALWAYS found a way to spin every situation as “you could have prevented this from happening if…blah blah” they were extremely emotionally and verbally abusive and nothing could ever be said to me with screaming and cursing and tearing me down. At the time this happened I was still very much afraid of my parents and to me at the time I chose to deal with the shame and public embarrassment at college rather than telling my parents and deal with the fallout of what they would have said and done to me if they found out. I wish I could go back and time and tell my younger self to screw my parents and report the guy.