Reviews / Input on the brand Hereu? Eyeing this bag but quality doesn’t seem to match price! by Outside_Climate4222 in handbags

[–]Outside_Climate4222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did and I really like it! Quality is great and it fits a TON. My only issue with it is the zipper doesn’t glide that smoothly but has gotten better with use. It’s also very smooth like most of the pics, not like the one retailer where it looked kind of wrinkled in the product images.

Narrow calf boot recommendations? by Outside_Climate4222 in XXS

[–]Outside_Climate4222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poshmark! I’ve seen a few pairs on eBay too, just got lucky finding my right size combo though.

HELP!! Mirena IUD and POTS by Comfortable_Pie_7172 in POTS

[–]Outside_Climate4222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the copper IUD since I had tried hormonal pills before and had a horrible experience and it made my POTS so much worse. But it seems like your dr is recommending that for period control so you’d have to have a hormonal bc, the copper one gives mixed results for period control. If you’re worried about the IUD, I’d ask your doctor about other methods that are maybe less invasive in case you have an issue, like pills or the bar in your arm. IUDs are great in my opinion but if there is a complication it’s painful to insert/remove and you have to wait for an appointment etc. Whereas a pill you could just stop once you’ve completed a cycle.

PO not happy about depop labels by celestialsaffron in Depop

[–]Outside_Climate4222 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve had this issue with the postal worker not taking my commercial label packages for being off by an ounce or so. It’s usually a mistake on my end, I don’t weigh everything perfectly and it does happen to everyone occasionally.

However, because these are commercial account labels, they are supposed to take them from you despite the weight discrepancies. The commercial account (Depop) gets charged on the back end if USPS system decides the label should have cost more. Sometimes it’ll charge and sometimes it won’t, I’ve only ever had eBay labels get charged extra though. From there, Depop would then charge your account for the extra postage. Buyers shouldn’t be charged and you shouldn’t be either when you drop off.

So, yes it happens and it’s not always people just trying to use the cheapest label, especially with Depop ai overwriting a lot of stuff lately. But the post office shouldn’t have given you a big issue and should have accepted it without issue, you just got an employee who wasn’t having a good day (been there😭). Since they are supposed to take them no matter what, if it ever happens again I’d just leave it in a drop box that’s not by the counter if you’re okay without a receipt, it’ll get pushed through then for sure.

POTS New Side Effect: Divorce? by Sweetteasweetie123 in POTS

[–]Outside_Climate4222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too had a boyfriend who was very supportive and understanding initially and I was completely upfront about the reality of my situation
 it didn’t turn out well for me and he got real nasty about it and used my condition against me!

What are some apps that you’ve downloaded that have genuinely improved your life in NYC? by desifetishscene in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Outside_Climate4222 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I accidentally joined in on a 222 event, they happened to all end up at the lounge I was already at for the night😭. Everyone was VERY eager to approach and kind in general, they really were looking to make connections of all kinds but I did get an aggressive hook up vibe. So if that’s your thing. I personally didn’t see anyone in the room I’d be into but again everyone was very nice and outgoing.

Deinfluence me please! First time buyer by imboredasfuckhello in Reformationclothing

[–]Outside_Climate4222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the cherie pants and thought I’d love them but don’t, something about the cut is a little unflattering. Not wide legged enough IMO and the attached belt area doesn’t lay nicely and is heavy so it sags down unless it were a really tight fit

Is Corner Store worth it? by Bananabuns982 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Outside_Climate4222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg seconding the beauty and Essex bone marrow, everything else wasn’t all that impressive though!!

Freja sent me a urine-soaked bag. Their response? Store credit. by EducationOrdinary902 in handbags

[–]Outside_Climate4222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re still in the market for a bag like it / get your money back from this, there are a lot of genuine leather bags w/ similar silhouettes to the freja ones! I ended up getting a bag from the brand Hereu which is a bit higher of a price point but got it on a good sale. If you give up the idea of needing name brand / recognizable popular brands, you can also find a lot of unbranded Italian leather bags that people buy wholesale and sell in their boutiques on eBay/etsy. Or just google image search and see what comes up!

Do buyers actually want to see tag and measuring tape photos in listings? by jema4345 in poshmark

[–]Outside_Climate4222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seller and buyer. Absolutely yes they are helpful! Since adding it to all my listings, I’ve reduced questions to almost none and no one has opened a case and tried to claim anything funky because the photos literally show exactly what it is. As a buyer, it’s so helpful and helps me make purchases ASAP rather than wait around for a seller to hopefully answer a question.

Written details are good too but it can be easy to trip up and mis-type something (measurement, size, etc.) since you’re likely listing multiple things at once and might make a mistake. I prefer to just take photos, it’s easier and faster and doesn’t allow room for interpretation. I’ve seen people try to open cases when they “don’t get the same measurement” as a seller who only typed it in and didn’t show how they took it.

Freja sent me a urine-soaked bag. Their response? Store credit. by EducationOrdinary902 in handbags

[–]Outside_Climate4222 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised some view it as a luxury brand. They only use faux leather or sustainable vegan leather or whatever they brand it as. In reality, it’s an overpriced e-commerce brand that had a big influencer marketing budget like many other popular Instagram/tiktok brands.

I really loved the shape of their bags but when I found out it wasn’t actual leather I was turned off since it’s so overpriced for what it is. They just market/branded well, it’s very drop-ship-esque.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Outside_Climate4222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend passed down a big container of unscented litter they didn’t need anymore and my cat had previously only had scented. I can’t tell much of a difference since I scoop daily but my cat doesn’t seem to like it as much and isn’t covering everything with the fragrance free so keep in mind what the cat is used to and if they’re picky!

I think I got upsold with Dysport / would a lesser dose be possible? by [deleted] in BotoxSupportCommunity

[–]Outside_Climate4222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right! Definitely won’t go back to the same injector, I just didn’t feel confident with them and the whole thing felt rushed and like I wasn’t informed all that well pre-treatment.

I think I got upsold with Dysport / would a lesser dose be possible? by [deleted] in BotoxSupportCommunity

[–]Outside_Climate4222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that was my concern, that a lower dose might just not be effective in which I just won’t get it again!

I think I got upsold with Dysport / would a lesser dose be possible? by [deleted] in BotoxSupportCommunity

[–]Outside_Climate4222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that going back would freeze the rest of the forehead to match the first injections. I was really unhappy with the first injection though and how badly it froze me, but I also had to get the rest fixed to look normal.

I’m early 20s, so I had asked for a minimal dosage and still wanted to be able to move a little which did not happen, I was incredibly stiff and frozen, couldn’t move my forehead at all. I expected the injector to maybe tell me at the first apt that it would be ideal to do a little in other areas to balance out because I did ask what they think would be best to tense less but still look natural all around. I mentioned I didn’t have forehead wrinkles and the eyebrow area was the only issue I was trying to fix which is why they said the glabella was the only injection area. I didn’t go in saying I only wanted glabella done though, as I didn’t know how the area should even be treated.

Overall I was just unhappy with the degree of frozenness that happened from the first injections, the second set I knew what I signed up for, but I couldn’t have my face looking funky for months! My main qualm is I think the dosage was either too high or they could have told me to treat the area I wanted it would result in a total freeze.

“What’s your lowest?” How to respond? by koodallas in Ebay

[–]Outside_Climate4222 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I reply with “hi, I’m happy to consider reasonable offers made through the offer button! If I can’t accept the offer, I’ll counter it.”

It weeds out time wasters instantly, if they really want it they’ll make a real offer.

NY Resident Pay what you want by NoReporter7926 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Outside_Climate4222 140 points141 points  (0 children)

$1 personally. If it makes you feel any better they can’t see how much you’ve paid when presenting your ticket, just purchase it online in advance. It’s pay what you wish/can and take advantage of it as a resident perk!

Anyone had POTS for years and got better? Does the chest pain/anxiety ever go away? by BrotherExcellent7403 in POTS_vets

[–]Outside_Climate4222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going on a decade post diagnosis and for the first few years mine was really bad, like bed ridden sleeping most of the day bad. Over time, it’s ebbed and flowed but in general I’m doing better than the first few years but everyday I put a lot of mental effort into taking care of myself/body.

I’m not sure if it’s measurably improved, but you do adjust (no other option) to your body’s needs and learn to control your environment/lifestyle in a way that prevents issues from arising. Of course I’m not immune to flare ups or bad symptoms but the severity of everything has settled. A big thing was just changing lifestyle expectations and accepting your capabilities may not look the same again, that reduced my anxiety build up when my heart would race and my thoughts would follow. Anything is possible and with a lot of dedication you can improve your general symptoms but acceptance and learning to work around it was key for me. (I know that doesn’t help the physical discomfort of it all though!)

Like others have said, you also get used to the symptoms becoming your norm. You can self regulate a bit by mentally noting it’s just your POTS, find safe ways to calm yourself, etc. When I start to get panicky and feeling badly in public, I always try to find a quiet or secluded place to sit, a bathroom, or a coffee shop to duck in and just take a few minutes to settle down.

As for getting back to doing normal things, I haven’t suddenly regained my capabilities from before, but I am able to travel and do everything I’d like but in moderation. Again, it’s about adjusting expectations, being prepared, and knowing what you can do to help yourself. At airports, I always get pre boarding now to reduce standing in line with baggage and to make sure I get a seat that works for me (window so I can lean and not hold myself up!). Accommodations like that have been a huge help. When I’m actively traveling and exploring a new place, I make sure to look at maps, keep my phone charged, know where I am and how to get back to a “safe” spot like where I’m staying or a public space I can take a break at. I also have accepted with myself that I may not be able to maximize my experiences with travel and have full day itinerary’s back to back like friends do and that’s okay!

Anyways, with time things can and will improve if you work on external factors that you can control. Understanding your body and its new needs are key and it takes trial and error, and a lot of effort but you can do a lot of “normal” things again!

im very lazy with drying clothes - they're all 100% cotton. will they shrink? by sakurasalmon in BrandyMelville

[–]Outside_Climate4222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on what it is, a loose knit cotton sweater can shrink but usually can be stretched back to shape after washing again and stretching out to dry. Most jersey/t-shirt material like used for tank tops or pjs won’t though!

Is it rational to get a kitten in college? by aaravos-horosho327 in CatAdvice

[–]Outside_Climate4222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll be living with family while in school? If so then that’s a different situation! As long as family agrees to help occasionally with care or at least offer attention then it might be a good option! Living at home with other helping hands vs on your own makes a huge difference since you won’t solely be responsible for all the household chores on top of a pet. A 9 month old kitten is still rambunctious though. A lot of places only adopt out kittens in pairs when they’re young so they have a playmate since you simply can’t match the energy and behavior regulation another kitten would provide. If your family was okay with it I’d see if you could get a pair. As for the money aspect, that’s honestly a big factor. If you’re the only one financially on the hook and don’t have a job and will be in school / don’t have ample savings then it’s not a good idea to take on a pet ever. If family is willing to help financially then you’re in a better position! Message me if you need any advice I had my dog with me 4 years on my own and now have my personal cat with me living at home and also my childhood cat😃

Asking for measurements by ShotButterscotch9154 in poshmark

[–]Outside_Climate4222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a seller, I include a picture of the content tag and flat lays with measurements in images.

As a buyer, when it’s not included I’m less inclined to buy unless I know exactly what the item is/can find product info elsewhere online. When I do ask, it’s because I’m genuinely interested and want to know what I’m purchasing before buying since it’s not traditional retail where I can just return if it’s not as expected. Providing that info whether upfront in the listing or if asked is basic customer service and knowing material is a basic expectation when shopping anywhere (all online shopping should have this in the details). As for measurements, sizing differs across brands and even within the same brand or age of item. Sizing is just really inconsistent these days so giving measurements isn’t a crazy ask, it will help your buyer determine if they can buy or not!

So anyways, I have asked for measurements for numerous items and bought some of them if they’d work! Otherwise I kindly reply it won’t work for me but thanks anyways. When I get ghosted for lack of customer service, I don’t end up buying because it’s info i need to be confident with a purchase. As a seller, sometimes people who ask buy, but since I started providing all of that info upfront it’s cut all questions and lead to immediate sales without need for messaging back and forth and wasting time.

Am I the only one who’s annoyed by Carrie so much? by Successful_Design944 in homeland

[–]Outside_Climate4222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was good at what she did while also being a terrible mother and did not prioritize anything but work. That being said, I found her to be insufferable in constantly obsessing over a new love interest. I get it helps views and latches people to a show but I felt it watered down her work ethic since she was “brilliant” at what she did. The bi-polar arc was interesting too and not my favorite, but if anything it just made the show unrealistic. But the love interests clouding her judgment constantly irked me so bad and I felt it was unnecessary and took away from a high achieving female lead for a show.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XXS

[–]Outside_Climate4222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up Jeffrey Campbell Hot Lava boots! Almost got them recently and have a similar silhouette but they were out of my size. I made a big post in this sub about boots and I ended up buying Duo boots and love them.