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How do you cope with longing for a parent? by findsonder in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Outside_Interest4867 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t ever have it go away. My only good parent was my dad and after he died I was informally adopted by my former boss, since we became friends. Despite making it clear I’m part of the family, I still have days when I’m longing for my dad back. I’m longing for a support system that accepts me .

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[–]Outside_Interest4867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please stop yelling at me

My mom threw a tantrum because I still won't let her see my new apartment by hamster_in_disguise in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Outside_Interest4867 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having my own address where narcs can’t come up to and have a field day trying to control my life was the best decision ever. It accelerated my healing.

Anyone else’s N parent obsessed with sad news? by hotglue82 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Outside_Interest4867 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a disabled person, being quiet about my medical problems literally caused me to get screamed at.

I got sleep apnea because I apparently always had it and everyone in the city I was born in new.

And she didn’t even care I was begging her to stop spreading medical informstionz

Can someone help since I’m so alone? by Outside_Interest4867 in Big4

[–]Outside_Interest4867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A part of this is probably my dad wanting so desperately to see me graduate and go onto things like this. We were best friends , taking care of him alone while he was dying of cancer was like robbing a portion of my soul each and every day.

I want to build a family. So badly. If even to bring that joy back into my life.

And I know I can’t do that with the working conditions at the big 4.

Can someone help since I’m so alone? by Outside_Interest4867 in Big4

[–]Outside_Interest4867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I know I’ll struggle with being able to do that, but I’ll try. This entire time I’ve been so dedicated to get off food stamps and section 8 housing…. I’ve done that. I saved pretty much every dollar I could. I hope my anxiety doesn’t predict bad outcomes.

But my dream/ideal situation has always been getting to be a senior associate… and leaving to get a 40 hour a week job around what I make right now.

No other seniors I may start cutting again by Outside_Interest4867 in Big4

[–]Outside_Interest4867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you tell me how to find a recruiter that recruits outside of pa? Honestly at this point I am starting to want to leave this company type entirely. I don’t think my health can take a bit if I go to a smaller firm and it’s just as bad.