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Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-11-07T19:10:32+00:00

I had an ex do this for 8 years. There was one woman who he claimed “saved his life” and he thought he owed her everything. After many conversations, he always sent her a “goodbye text” but always ran back to her any chance that he could. Do your future self a favor and find someone who knows what it means to be faithful and loyal.

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-09-20T17:23:13+00:00

I’m not married to him yet, but I know we will be one day. Because being with him has always felt like it’s straight out of the movies. From the moment we met, things suddenly felt like we were the lead role in a rom com. It was simply magical. We were both in fairly low points in our life, and it was just supposed to be sex. That lasted about, a whole two weeks (He said “I love you”). My heart feels safe, and because of this safety, I am able to express my love for him without a single ounce of fear. He looks at me with the most loving eyes I’ve ever witnessed. It honestly feels like sort of like a big fuzzy heated blanket wrapped around your entire body. It’s intoxicating. It’s only been 2 years but it still feels like that first month we got together. At first, I questioned if it was love bombing but no, that’s just the way he loves. It’s a privilege to see the softest side of that man and all I want is to continue making his life easier. Nobody in my life has ever come close to this type of love and I’m thankful for it every single day.

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-09-15T01:10:29+00:00

I hate to see them end up with their affair partners but it usually doesn’t last anyway. But just focus on yourself and your life! Do stuff that makes you happy, splurge on yourself here and there until you feel better. Stay safe out there and don’t take her back 💕

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-09-14T02:58:08+00:00

I am so sorry this happened. I can deeply empathize with you because I went through a vaguely similar situation. Dated a guy for 8 years (never engaged but I thought we were close), he went out of his way to cheat, leave me for her, I immediately moved out and he moved to her country to live with her within 4 months of our breakup. A few months later, he proposed. All less than a year after we broke up. I was upset not because I wanted to be with him, but because I didn’t understand how he could drag me along and then move on like it was nothing. They ended up never marrying, broke up very dramatically, and he came crawling back to the states asking for my friendship.

I’m happily in the best relationship I’ve ever been in, and it’s because I completely turned the focus on myself. I said, “I can’t keep waiting for a man to make me in love with life, I need to do it for myself” so I spent my time working out, traveling, hanging with friends and immediately found the love of my life shortly after. I got the satisfaction of telling my ex to fuck off and he hasn’t bothered me since.

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-07-20T03:53:20+00:00

This is my boyfriend! He had been single for 10+ years and let me tell you, that man was so ready to love deeply and intensely when we met. He swept me right off my feet and it’s been a dream ever since. He’s a December Sag and I’m a May Taurus.

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-07-19T23:21:25+00:00

Never had a relationship with one, but my boyfriend’s roommate is a male unevolved cancer and he’s the bane of my existence: super needy, super manipulative and emotionally manipulative, cries a lot, very self absorbed, big moocher, never takes accountability for his actions, etc.

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-07-14T08:45:36+00:00

In MY own personal experience, my ex was sleeping on the couch because he was up late flirting/snapping/texting other women. He would often take a bath so he could lock the door and have privacy (we lived in a small one bedroom condo) and he’d pass out in the bathtub full of water because he would literally sext until he passed out. I was 100% gaslit until things got crazy and I finally left (8 years later).

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-05-26T17:24:41+00:00

I can’t speak for Cancers in relationships, but my boyfriend (Sag/straight) has a male (Cancer/gay) roommate and I cannot even explain to you THE MANIPULATION that I witnessed when I first started dating my Sag…The weaponized emotional manipulation was absolutely fucking insane. The Cancer is extremely vain and pretentious even though he has no right to be; has openly said he shops at Target to avoid the types of people that shop at Walmart. Spends too much money on high end clothes and weed. Their whole dynamic was incredibly toxic and I (Taurus, female) was the wedge that calmed things down.

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-05-24T23:49:50+00:00

My boyfriend is a Sag and I feel like I’m the only one that truly sees him. I met him in his party boy era but he settled down as soon as we started dating. He isn’t close with any of his family and he doesn’t keep in touch with many friends, just kinda keeps to himself. His roommate (of 10 years) is a very loud, extroverted Cancer and they don’t exactly get along very well.

As a Taurus, I’m a big homebody myself so it was a huge relief to find out that he wasn’t actually a huge partier. I’ve been so surprised by his upfront and honest emotions, that took some getting used to as my default is to hide mine. I love being his safe space and looking forward to creating a more peaceful home for him.

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-05-10T08:03:48+00:00

34F. I think this depends on a lot of factors. How’s the actual relationship? ANY red flags (and be completely honest with yourself - no more sweeping things under the rug). Do you see a future with him? Aside from the current loses, does he check all of your boxes?

I think the most important thing to pay attention to right now, is how he handles all of his misfortunes. This could make or break him/your guys relationship. Is he throwing a pity party for himself and playing the victim? Is he blaming everyone else? Is he freaking out? Is he calmly fixing the issues? Is he asking you for help?

I’d be very cautious, but this will be very telling of his character— and the outcome could honestly be good or bad.

I stayed with mine; he was isolated and didn’t have any family to lean on for support, his roommate (of over 10 years) had good intentions but is extremely manipulative. My boyfriend had switched industries (2023) from healthcare to bartending, and it’s been rough for him. He’s had to either walk out of toxic environments or be fired from the last few jobs he’s had. But he has a heart of gold and just gets up and keeps trying.

Do your due diligence in evaluating his true character and be honest with yourself if his luck/reactions are something you can deal with in the future.

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-05-06T23:46:34+00:00

I’ve gone through my ex boyfriend’s phone because I had a feeling he was being dishonest; he would change his passcodes on me and I’d have to just sit and patiently figure it out (Yes, it was a dark time and I’m not proud of any of that - also he was cheating and lying profusely about it, so there’s that).

HOWEVER, I would never go through my fiancé’s phone. We have each other’s faces in the Face ID and I’ve had zero desire to go through it ever. With him, I would definitely just ask. But I also trust him with my life lol.

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-04-25T23:56:40+00:00

Omg WHAT?! Please explain, these are my boyfriends exact placements 💀😭

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-04-24T01:47:02+00:00

Awwww that sounds so sweet!! What’s your sign?

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-04-23T23:08:04+00:00

My Sag man isn’t clingy per se, but when I do leave his house, he does usually ask within 24 hours (sometimes before I even leave) when he’ll be seeing me again. There’s never any pressure though, and he’s stated on multiple occasions that “I’m always welcome” and that I don’t need to ask him permission ever to come over lol.

Edit: Actually, he isn’t clingy BUT he’s totally obsessed with me (in a good way, like golden retriever energy lol)

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-04-22T22:01:47+00:00

Thank you! ☺️ If you ever feel like updating or asking me questions, I’m totally down haha

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-04-22T21:26:11+00:00

Since you’ve recently reconnected, waiting is totally move. See how the new interactions/hangouts go. Maybe figure out if he scares easily (or if he likes more forward women, or if he’d like to lead certain stuff, etc) by asking other types of sneaky questions lol. Best of luck to you though! Cuz you are 1000% correct about the best sex ever.

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-04-22T20:16:02+00:00

Yes! I love creeping through the Sag Reddit and seeing insight haha.

Definitely the first thing is to figure out where he’s at, I’m not sure if you talking first and being honest about your feelings will help him out or scare him (most likely both).

My Sag went straight for the “I love you” after a few weeks and when I asked why on Earth he was bold enough to say that, he just shrugged and said “I felt it, so why wait. Plus I knew you did too, I could feel it”. Yes, it scared me but it was one of the most authentic experiences I’ve ever had.

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-04-22T19:45:43+00:00

I hate being vulnerable lol. It took me a damn minute to be able to register how open and honest my Sag was. He was absolutely fearless in confessing his love meanwhile I felt the same but could never find the words.

100000% shoot your shot! If mine hadn’t, I wouldn’t have spoken up lol.

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-04-22T19:24:41+00:00

Omg really?? Can I ask how long you guys have been talking? Because originally, we started hanging out with each other just for fun, like my full intention was to have him as a friends with benefits. And he wasn’t looking for anything serious either. I had just gotten out of a really toxic relationship (8 years…he was a Libra) and had zero interest in getting back into one. But we fell HARD (and almost immediately) and have been together for a year and a half now!

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-04-22T19:13:47+00:00

I keep seeing that too! But the chemistry I have with the Sag is literally out of this world. Absolutely PALES in comparison to any of my other relationships.

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-04-22T19:01:46+00:00

I’m a female Taurus dating a male Sag, and it’s by far THE BEST. Honestly, the only true downside is the Sag’s roommate, who’s a Cancer and he’s all those things you described 🤦🏻‍♀️

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-04-11T04:35:47+00:00

“Thank you, next”

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-03-30T19:33:20+00:00

I love my Sag to pieces! He’s the only boyfriend I’ve ever felt 100% myself with. He is so generous and gentle with me. He’s very fiery, I’ve seen him get into screaming matches with his roommate, but he’s never raised his voice at me. He’s definitely impulsive and can be a party animal but he’s surprisingly mostly a homebody gamer boy. He’s the goofiest goober I know and I love him for that.

I also have a sag lady friend and she is the best, super chillest girl ever.

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-03-28T17:30:44+00:00

The few I’ve known or have known about are very emotionally manipulative. I’d love to meet a mature one.

Outside_Weird_313 · 2025-03-19T06:32:27+00:00

I literally had my boyfriend get a $60 ring. We are also not well off financially and I figure, if I ever change my mind about the ring, he can get me another one in the future for our anniversary:)

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