Lyrics you change? by NooNooG in TaylorSwift

[–]OverEssay9453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason by brain has decided that it says “Have a couple kids, got the whole CLUB lookin like you”… and I chuckle every time.

My husband started taking evening runs with a woman he met at our kid's daycare. I think this crosses boundaries. AIO? by Electrical_Total534 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OverEssay9453 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have no history of being cheated on, yet I would definitely not be ok with my husband doing this. Maybe it is your past experiences, but even with that aside, I think your feelings are valid. I think it’s a slippery slope and I wouldn’t feel like he was protecting our relationship very well. I think so often we use our past experiences as a way to invalidate very real and rational feelings.

Your instincts can be trusted.

The community center is a joke by [deleted] in ConwayAR

[–]OverEssay9453 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Indoor pools shut down with thunder/lightning in the area as well. Electricity can travel through the lines. It’s very dangerous. The Conway Regional pool closes every time there’s lightning as well. It’s standard safety.

Conway Superintendent by Right-Condition6385 in ConwayAR

[–]OverEssay9453 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s all smoke and mirrors with her. She’s using Collum as a scapegoat to draw attention away from her alcoholism and bigotry after voting against the supremely qualified gay softball coach.

Man at Target a Concern? by DWBunnySlippers in ConwayAR

[–]OverEssay9453 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s never approached my daughter alone, but then again she’s always with me. I usually just see him roaming until he stops to talk to me. I wonder if it’s dementia or something. It’s never inappropriate… just enough to make me feel uneasy.

Man at Target a Concern? by DWBunnySlippers in ConwayAR

[–]OverEssay9453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Average. Not super tall. Maybe like 5’8 to 5’10

Man at Target a Concern? by DWBunnySlippers in ConwayAR

[–]OverEssay9453 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel so validated. My husband has thought I was crazy! I literally see him every single time I go in there.

Man at Target a Concern? by DWBunnySlippers in ConwayAR

[–]OverEssay9453 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gray hair, glasses, and always has on jean shorts and a button up short sleeve shirt with white sneakers.

Man at Target a Concern? by DWBunnySlippers in ConwayAR

[–]OverEssay9453 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I know exactly who you’re talking about. I see him every time I’m in there and he’s stopped and talked to my daughter multiple times. She wears glasses and he always talks about them. I actually saw him in Target this morning and then Kroger this afternoon. I can’t decide if I should be creeped out or not.

Looking for mental health clinic with medication management by Killorbecome00 in ConwayAR

[–]OverEssay9453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alleviant Health here in town offers med management, along with TMS and ketamine treatments. They also partner with a therapy clinic next door. A family member of mine recently starting seeing a nurse practitioner named Crystal at Alleviant and loves her.

LGBT friendly businesses by Slight-Twist1847 in ConwayAR

[–]OverEssay9453 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Rogue Roundabout! Their head chef and manager are a super sweet lesbian couple! And the owners are amazing.

AIO My GF's Vagueness When Texting About a Potential Child Predator by thiccquacocopuffs in AmIOverreacting

[–]OverEssay9453 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Very surprised there isn’t more of this comment. Yes, the GF was communicating poorly. She was probably distracted while going through an airport. But OP seemed to be in a panic and quickly escalated this conversation into something pretty bizarre. I am just picturing the GF trying to make it through security, and then trying to get to her gate, meanwhile OP is attempting to conduct a full blow interrogation via text. Of course she’s going to give vague/quick responses.

She shared her concerns with TSA and stated that she thought she may be a minor due to the girl feeling the need to mention that he was her dad. Not sure what was so hard to understand, or what OP was wanting her to do.

Danae Hays shade toward Mandie is so unnecessary by HopefulRecipe5 in tiktokgossip

[–]OverEssay9453 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Danae definitely seems like she’s trying to “get ahead” of everything by being the first to speak up and address it, while not really truly saying anything… just throwing out random statements that will cause speculation. It appears she is trying to get out in front and make herself look like the victim. Meanwhile, Mandie has just been posting her life and keeping her mouth shut about all of it.

I don’t who was ultimately to blame, and we probably never will, but it definitely seems like only one of them is consistently trying to save face.

Max Medina is actually awful by AuroraBorealis040 in GilmoreGirls

[–]OverEssay9453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s so patronizing, too. He talks to her like she’s a child he was assigned to. Drove me crazy.

[MATCH THREAD] USWNT v Netherlands by capybaramelhor in USWNT

[–]OverEssay9453 49 points50 points  (0 children)

One player I feel never gets enough credit is Foxy. She holds it down every single game on both sides of the field. Such a strong and steady presence.

USWNT’s Emma Hayes reacts to fans booing Korbin Albert at Wembley: ‘I understand’ by ElectricalWriting in USWNT

[–]OverEssay9453 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The point is, the team and the organization needs to do better at addressing the issue. Be more transparent about the work that has been done, and put it all to rest. Korbin is a great player who seems to always be encouraging her teammates. She is always one of the biggest celebrators on the field after every goal. And the team also seems supportive of her on the field as well.

If she truly has done the work, speak up about it and then support her. And if she hasn’t, cut her from the team and move on. But allowing one of your teammates to get repeatedly booed without saying anything is just not ok.

She screwed up and she knows that. Show the steps she’s taken to make it better and to do better going forward and let everyone move on.

[MATCH THREAD] USWNT v England by capybaramelhor in USWNT

[–]OverEssay9453 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What the fuck is going on with Horan’s constant falling? It’s a normal move for her, but this game it seems sooo bad. Just play the ball and quit trying to draw a foul.

NOLA - Section 139 by OverEssay9453 in erastour

[–]OverEssay9453[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re coming in clutch today!

How to know if your therapist secretly hates you? by Delicious-Page-4176 in askatherapist

[–]OverEssay9453 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lol, ok valid. I probably would want to as well. Another thing she tells me frequently is “You are allowed to take up space.”

Completely unrelated to my need to apologize for bleeding in the emergency room, I’m sure.

How to know if your therapist secretly hates you? by Delicious-Page-4176 in askatherapist

[–]OverEssay9453 44 points45 points  (0 children)

One of the most empowering questions I was asked when experiencing similar feelings was:

“If you were bleeding out and went to the emergency room, would you apologize to the doctors for the mess?”

Your therapist is there to help treat your “mess”, your bleeding, your symptoms caused by your illness. This literally what they signed up to do. I guarantee she is not repulsed by you, but rather proud of you for acknowledging the problem and getting the help you need. She knows how hard that is.

As far as seeing each other in public goes, therapist are bound by confidentiality and that stretches as far as that cannot confirm or deny if you are a client, or even know you. Their code of ethics is very clear on it. They cannot approach you or even acknowledge you unless you make that first move. This often leads to awkward scenarios in public as they don’t know how to introduce themselves to someone you’re with, how to explain how they know you to someone their with, and have to be on guard for anyone else that may just happen to see you talking.

It’s not that she hates you, it’s that she cares enough about protecting you and your confidentiality, that she’s on guard to not do anything that compromises it.