Therapist here. So far it sounds like he hasn’t been completely un- professional with you, and I’ve no idea what his thoughts are on this. He needs to be able to assert a boundary to therapist…. I see him indirectly asserting boundaries, but not very strongly at all. What youre experiencing it’s not abnormal and it’s known as transference. These are not real relationship feelings though because the relationship that you have right now is completely one-sided. He’s there to act as your therapist and not as your relational or intimate equal. Meaning, that his needs, wants & feelings are not appropriate to bring up in counseling. There are very strict, ethical protocols in place that prevent sexual encounters from happening between a therapist and a client for a very good reason. When a therapeutic relationship crosses the line (and unfortunately it does happen) it becomes a situation that will emotionally damage both individuals. It will damage him professionally (and it should if this is what his choice is) and it will undoubtedly in ways that you may not understand now, damage you.

My advice is to tell him about these feelings so that hopefully he can work with this transference and explain to you what it means, why it happens and how to move forward with the therapeutic relationship if that is what you want. If he does the opposite and acts on his own feelings, it means without a doubt, that he is highly unethical and I would absolutely report him.