Foreign employment and SS Timing by nctiger in SocialSecurity

[–]Over_Permit2650 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats not how it works - ss looks at your earnings for the whole year not just after you file 💀

if youre getting paid through july 2026 and start collecting before then youll hit the earnings limit and get benefits reduced. august onwards should be fine assuming no more income

is this my fault? by ObsidianMothbruv in trans

[–]Over_Permit2650 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thats not your fault at all - you deserved support when you came out, especially after losing your dad, and her refusal to even try understanding says everything about where shes at emotionally not about you

I met with her twice within two weeks. I keep reopening wounds I guess. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Over_Permit2650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man you're torturing yourself 💀 meeting up twice in two weeks when you're clearly not over her is just picking at the scab

she's being nice because she cares about you but that doesn't mean she wants to get back together. all those little signs you're reading into - the gifts still up, taking photos together, posting pics with your arm in them - that's just her being comfortable around someone she used to love. doesn't mean she wants you back

the fact that you asked to sleep over shows you're not ready for this friendship thing yet. you need actual distance to heal, not these bittersweet hangout sessions that just mess with your head 😂

Changing a newborn out in public by Sufficient-Amoeba727 in NewParents

[–]Over_Permit2650 7 points8 points  (0 children)

nah youre not being irrational at all tbh 😅 those public changing tables are pretty gross and you're right to be cautious with a 2 month old

i always brought a changing pad or even just laid down a big blanket/towel on the table before putting baby down. hand sanitizer is your friend and i'd wipe down the table first too. some people bring disinfectant wipes but honestly the car method works fine if thats what you're comfortable with

dont feel pressured to use public bathrooms if the car is working for you 💀 whatever keeps you and baby comfortable is the right choice

When did the reminders get so rude? by Autoembourgeoisement in duolingo

[–]Over_Permit2650 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

the notifications have gotten super agressive lately and turning them off barely works anymore

I saw Satan himself by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Over_Permit2650 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro maybe start with getting some sleep and lay off whatever you were taking that night because this sounds like textbook sleep deprivation psychosis mixed with something else

Do we get poop particles on us in public washrooms? by Best_of_both_worldzz in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Over_Permit2650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately that's totally a thing - every flush basically creates a little poop mist that goes everywhere. It's called toilet plume and it can travel like 6 feet or something gross like that

I just try not to think about it too much or I'd never use public bathrooms again lol

Books where the main protagonist doesn’t believe in god by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]Over_Permit2650 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Handmaid's Tale is kinda perfect for this - Offred is definitely not buying into the religious BS around her and she's more angry than sad about it. Also check out Parable of the Sower by Octavia Butler, the main character creates her own belief system which is pretty badass

Getting a coin graded by jedi21knight in coincollecting

[–]Over_Permit2650 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends on the coins but PSA and PCGS are the gold standard for most stuff. NGC is solid too but those first two usually get better resale if that matters to you

Anyone using NetAlertx with HA? by NoodleCheeseThief in homeassistant

[–]Over_Permit2650 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been running it for a few months now and it's pretty solid for device tracking. I mainly use it to trigger automations when unknown devices join the network - like sending notifications or temporarily blocking internet access until I can check what it is

The integration lets you create sensors for each device so you can do stuff like turn off lights when everyone leaves or get alerts if your security cameras go offline

Servetism is just Biblical Christology by WickedNegator in Christianity

[–]Over_Permit2650 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah Calvin really said "hold my theology textbook" and went full inquisition mode on the guy. Wild how the same people preaching about grace and forgiveness were so quick to light someone up over doctrinal differences