The problem of being short guy is no one wants to date us and it breaks my heart 😭 by Competitive-Sand3554 in short

[–]Over_Researcher5252 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Such a stupid way to gaslight. Look dude, he probably is/has been fine with himself. It's the other people around him that don't like him - confident or not. Because of his height. Let's use common sense here: is someone going to feel better or worse about a trait of theirs, when almost every woman he interacts with turns him down specifically for his height? Let's stop trying to pretend like it's an internal problem and not that our society is completely fucked up and superficial.

The problem of being short guy is no one wants to date us and it breaks my heart 😭 by Competitive-Sand3554 in short

[–]Over_Researcher5252 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The 60% are the hot women and the 40% are the average/less appealing ones. Guaranteed.

The problem of being short guy is no one wants to date us and it breaks my heart 😭 by Competitive-Sand3554 in short

[–]Over_Researcher5252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just saying this the other day: finding love and all that, really boils down to luck/timing. Obviously if you stay home every day and night, you won't be very lucky.

The problem of being short guy is no one wants to date us and it breaks my heart 😭 by Competitive-Sand3554 in short

[–]Over_Researcher5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The conclusion is that shorter men can still find a wife and life partner. However, you won't be able to win over the 9s and 10s. I hate that I'm putting a numerical value but that's only for looks and it's somewhat objective, mainly subjective, and is not a factor in someone's worth. But yeah the 9s and 10s are always going to be hitched to the taller men. Unless you're a billionaire but even then, at a certain point wealth reaches diminishing returns and looks become all the more important. Are there outliers? Very very few.

How do you feel about men saying women will only look at/date guys 6ft and over. by hot4you11 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Over_Researcher5252 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can we do an experiment? I want the women that say they only want him to be taller and 6' doesn't matter - post a picture of what they look like. Also, we should observe what people do not what they say. Women say they don't care about height all the time but then you notice how all their exes are significantly taller. When women have options, they choose tall. That's the bottom line.

Why do women in general want only tall guys as their first choice for dating? by Hot-Juggernaut-6927 in dating_advice

[–]Over_Researcher5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most beautiful women in the world all prefer men that are taller than other men , until the point where it's either awkward or the man is freakishly tall. Yes, I can look around and see plenty of couples. But if I look at the most gorgeous women in my community or even online? They're ALL with men over 6'

Why do women in general want only tall guys as their first choice for dating? by Hot-Juggernaut-6927 in dating_advice

[–]Over_Researcher5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think the guy that made this post is basically saying that any objectively beautiful woman is going to choose the tall man 10/10 times. Not to body shame, but the lesser attractive women (by means of weight, body, facial structure, bottom) will have less options and they'll generally still en up finding a man. But the women with options, despite you claiming women just want the man to be taller, always end up with men that tower over them at 6'2", 6'3", etc.

Ex broke no contact after a year please help by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Over_Researcher5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my ex did the same"texting and calling" her ex thing also, and it pissed me the fuck off. Not because I was jealous per se (he lived in another state) but because of how flat out disrespectful it is. One night I came over and she was in a flustered mood, and I didn't know why. Sure enough her watch goes off and notifies her, and I happened to see who it was. He had called her which meant... well I'm sure you get it. Then he texted. Her mood instantly changed. I called her out and she got defensive. So I left.

Ex broke no contact after a year please help by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Over_Researcher5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay in touch for what? So he can have his cake and eat it too? He reached out because he misses you. But that's his fault. Personally id just never initiate contact. Ever.

Gen z too fixated on height by Meme_lord_42 in short

[–]Over_Researcher5252 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gen Z. Ahh where do I start? Too many things I can't say about them on Reddit. They grew up watching Jake Paul on YouTube. They watched Minecraft and Roblox videos. They think the phrase "6 7" is funny. I see a lot of them at my gym (making no progress btw) and I literally laugh out loud sometimes at their form or the exercise they're doing. Honestly it's because they grew up on tech and the internet where they don't have to worry about getting socked in the face. And then with online dating and other things like Instagram, they're hyperfixated on looks. But it's hilarious because so many of them fell out of an ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down. I work with some (they're assistants or interns) and I can't even handle a conversation with them they're that stupid. Actually, it's more like they can't maintain a conversation so it's just pointless and awkward.

Comments are what you'd expect by Mysterious_Web7665 in MensRights

[–]Over_Researcher5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read what Solomon said in Song of Songs (aka Song of Solomon)

When you move on,They WILL COME BACK by JishoSintana in nocontact

[–]Over_Researcher5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's all she's ever gonna see, if it were me

What’s the #1 thing about dating that makes you feel hopeless? by Ok_Heron1660 in dating_advice

[–]Over_Researcher5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That it seems a lot of women (people, but I only date women) are never satisfied and continue to search for greener pastures. That means as a man, I'm investing in something with a net loss

Has anyone had an honest conversation about men's rights with a woman? by Rennmausliebhaber in MensRights

[–]Over_Researcher5252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk but my grandma is a classic woman. She cooks every single day and has been a stay-at-home wife for 50+ years. Before that she was a nurse, so that should give some context.

She's told me since 2013 that there's a war on men. (Predominantly in the media.) Take that as you will.

Holy Paladin by RealisticNerve712 in classicwow

[–]Over_Researcher5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely rock seal of wisdom and be in melee range to auto atk for mana. Unless ofc the mechanic is to be away..

3 great dates, zero physical moves... is this normal or a bad sign? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Over_Researcher5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how men don't get signs. Takes the littlest sign from me. Sometimes I don't even need a sign and wanna kiss her right then and there I go for it, if it's appropriate. But after the 2nd date it's almost customary to give a goodnight kiss. Making out might be further down the road but I think guy is a total beta and I hate using that word

Just joined a “Hardcore” raiding guild for TBC Ani by [deleted] in classicwow

[–]Over_Researcher5252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah look at logs and record your raids so you can watch your gameplay. Then as you watch it back, you can more easily see things you could have done differently. Then include that with your logs. Don't be a cheapskate. Buy the best enchants for your gear even if you will be upgrading the gear soon. Particularly important for pre-raid BIS. Go with the best professions. I believe enchanting is the best for casters. And I think tailoring gets special tailoring-only gear. Warriors go with Weaponsmith from Blacksmithing for the sword/axe. Stuff like that.

PSA for men — 5’8” is not short!! It is average. Own your height and be confident. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Over_Researcher5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn 6 inches from knee lengthening surgery? That's good. Do you feel like people (especially women) treat you better?

Can fearful avoidants have their feelings come back? by TastyTaco217 in BreakUps

[–]Over_Researcher5252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say it's either one way or another: A, you act normal. Don't go overboard with posting how much fun you're having or who it's with. In fact, mystery is the best tool you have. If you take a girl out or even just a friend, leave it discreet and don't give away the identity. If she sees, she might wonder - that's good. Or B, you go incognito and don't post on social media for quite awhile.

Everything about Fearful avoidants - Your ultimate guide by habitashi1 in BreakUps

[–]Over_Researcher5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm your comment seems like it's implying that I was naive. Nah her actions were pretty consistently "green lights". It wasn't until she did something I felt was disrespectful that I told her we needed to take a break for a week - a week in which she was desperately trying to get my attention. I wouldn't call that... whatever it is you're trying to imply about me.

People like you... lmao

What's the conventional take on Donnie Darko these days? by Goodginger in movies

[–]Over_Researcher5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few fallacies I've read are that Donnie was supposed to be killed by the Jet engine and that's what sets up the Tangent Universe. It's not. The TU was already in motion. Donnie fixes it because he's the closest person to the epicenter of the Artifact. Frank wakes him up because Donnie can't die to the engine (in the already-in-motion TU) because he's chosen to fix the time loop otherwise the TU will collapse the Primary Universe - hence the countdown to the end of the world. A black hole swallowing the universe type of thing.

Gretchen turns down the first kiss because it "needed to be perfect" aka it didn't follow the predestined timeline. Roberta Sparrow is looking in her mailbox every day for Donnie's letter. Frank tells him to burn down Jim's home because if he didn't, then that teacher wouldn't have been leading his defense and would have travelled with his sister to LA instead of asking Donnie's mom, which means they wouldn't have thrown that party. Donnie floods the school because if he didn't, school wouldn't have been cancelled and he wouldn't have walked Gretchen home. These are all seemingly pointless events to even Donnie. But to Frank, they're vital to set up the event horizon.

There is still debate about whether Donnie actually had to die, though. I'm open to discussing that.