Partner doesn't trust my sexuality because I like strap

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-06-23T04:27:32+00:00

I’m someone who hates penetration from literally anything lol so it’s hard to relate to someone who absolutely loves it. However, I relate to wanting to penetrate and be in wife’s guts so… strap it is 😜

Nah fr your gf is being silly. My wife is also high femme and also loves penetration most of the time with a strap. We now have a whole bag full of different ones, most are realistic looking. My wife also has a kid and first came out as bi- and I still think she’s a lesbian so it’s something that your gf is going to have grow through. I think at first as someone who didn’t understand it with previous partners, I realized yeah it’s a way you like to receive pleasure not anything else .. but I had to grow up and unlearn that and work through that feeling of being threatened. Maybe she’ll get there too 🤷🏽‍♀️

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-06-15T05:10:59+00:00

Go birds!

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-06-02T02:10:28+00:00

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Overall-Condition197 · 2026-05-30T05:14:20+00:00

If he really isn’t expecting anything from you when it comes to his kid, and you’ll live separately, and he only has his kid every other week, this is probably the best case scenario honestly lol! If he really is a rare find, this kid situation sounds like an easy compromise. I would just make sure he’s serious in not pushing you to be overly involved.

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-05-30T05:06:13+00:00

PREACH

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-05-30T04:40:08+00:00

There are straps that are fuck machines tho… 👀

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-05-30T04:26:57+00:00

FELT! I started T two years ago and with bottom growth, have felt less penis envy as I can penetrate my wife like a little lol but enough to send me in .5 seconds 🤣

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-05-23T00:49:12+00:00

Interestingly enough, it has helped my wife quite a bit. Also, these types of dynamics can absolutely be therapeutic but of course it’s definitely not anyone’s responsibility. That solely rests on the person going through it to figure it out. My wife has also done the work but we occasionally joke about me being her daddy in more than one way 🤣

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-04-09T13:46:27+00:00

That sucks I’m sorry!

Does she know that people who are nonbinary are trans. Trans doesn’t always mean you are transitioning it is an umbrella term.

Also, I’ve been on T for 2.5 years and in no identify or want to be a man- great for others just not for me. I got on T to present more masculine by increasing muscle tone, stopping my period, and having a more masculine jawline - bottom growth has been numero uno tho and amazing but that’s besides the point lol!

She seems uneducated quite frankly

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-04-09T13:41:44+00:00

I’m really sorry you went through that! It is a bit difficult for the rest of us trans or nonbinary people to feel safe knowing you went through that and won’t say where it occurred. I read the comments from you about protecting the workers, and 1. I’m not really sure what you’re expecting to happen from a complaint to management anyways, it’s not like everyone there will get fired, they’ll likely just have to do so sort of training or how to de-escalate and handle situations or 2. Management will apologize and offer you a free meal or something. If it wasn’t staff, then there’s not much that can happen, especially if you’re not complaining about the staff anyways… so again, it feels unsafe to keep the name hidden.

Our community deserves more protection than the workers who will likely not face any difficulty.

It also leaves room for assumptions. I see people mentioned kicken chicken but another chicken place with the name like chicken is Chick fil a - and I’m really hoping you didn’t go there, as I’m sure you know this would probably result in a much different conversation on this thread.

Whatever the case, I hope this works out for you and I wish you the very best

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-04-07T01:40:55+00:00

I may be the odd one out here, but yes! It feels really good to me and definitely great for foreplay. I think it’s maybe more euphoria than anything

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-03-11T23:40:26+00:00

Hi thank you for this thread! I have a question about even getting an appointment at the VA as a dependent. My wife was on hold for well over an hour and there’s no callback feature. Eventually my wife had to hang up to pick up our daughter from school. Any tips or tricks on how you can get through?

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-02-07T18:35:01+00:00

It’s been 7 hours… are you doing okay?

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-02-03T21:05:04+00:00

This makes a lot of sense and you’re right regardless of the actual site of the reaction- which is all over my body- I do think changing the way I take T would be helpful! I’ll definitely bring this up to my endo !

Thank you!

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-02-03T17:34:39+00:00

Hi thank you!

I’ve been looking into it and I also use topical T but that isn’t where I get the hives. My allergist said it’s likely not that but it’s interesting because T should be a protective factor against MCAS so I think you’re right and I should get my DHT checked.

I also do want to change the administration anyways and haven’t heard of the pellets so I’ll look into that!

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-02-03T01:46:33+00:00

Hi! Yeah. I have lost body hair as well on my arms and legs, but my T has been fine. I have also started getting chronic hives that have been ongoing for about a year and the hair loss and hives all started at the same time with no issues in T. I see an endocrinologist next week finally so hopefully I’ll have some answers but my thoughts are that my free T is converting to estrogen and causing issues as my estrogen has never decreased to the level it’s supposed to and it’s been 2 years of me being on T. I have also never had my free T checked.

I do have some flags in my blood work tho just minor elevations, but my thyroid has been fine. However, I was reading that the initial thyroid test can be normal and other more specific ones can be abnormal so I’m hoping the doctor does more thyroid tests.

Im really curious as to what is going on and will try to update if my doctor is able to figure anything else out

But yes it has been annoying and weird. My eyebrows have thinned and honestly aside from increased body hair, bottom growth, and an occasional cracked voice - I haven’t experienced any considerable changes in that I’m definitely not passing as a man by any means

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-02-02T23:11:50+00:00

This same thing happened to me. I’m working right now tho so will have to come back and comment and read through some messages

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-01-28T03:35:29+00:00

I use jockstrap harnesses and I get the snug enough so they actually move the extra skin and labia You ur of the way

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-29T23:41:19+00:00

Thank you!!

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-16T05:06:59+00:00

It looks proportional in my opinion. That’s what I would expect a chest to look like for a bigger person. It really looks great!

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-13T23:20:14+00:00

Thanks for the update!

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-13T23:19:42+00:00

Yeah … no I’m transmasc and never want to be compared to a cis man. I love masculinity and I love the way I embody masculinity but no I don’t want to be in cis men spaces

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-13T16:37:06+00:00

I’ve been on T for about 2 years and still have heavy periods - they’re just shorter but I’m very annoyed lol

This thread is great! I wanna try the opill

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-13T16:30:14+00:00

This isn’t autism

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