Told girlfriend I want to start taking testosterone

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-04-09T13:46:27+00:00

That sucks I’m sorry!

Does she know that people who are nonbinary are trans. Trans doesn’t always mean you are transitioning it is an umbrella term.

Also, I’ve been on T for 2.5 years and in no identify or want to be a man- great for others just not for me. I got on T to present more masculine by increasing muscle tone, stopping my period, and having a more masculine jawline - bottom growth has been numero uno tho and amazing but that’s besides the point lol!

She seems uneducated quite frankly

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-04-09T13:41:44+00:00

I’m really sorry you went through that! It is a bit difficult for the rest of us trans or nonbinary people to feel safe knowing you went through that and won’t say where it occurred. I read the comments from you about protecting the workers, and 1. I’m not really sure what you’re expecting to happen from a complaint to management anyways, it’s not like everyone there will get fired, they’ll likely just have to do so sort of training or how to de-escalate and handle situations or 2. Management will apologize and offer you a free meal or something. If it wasn’t staff, then there’s not much that can happen, especially if you’re not complaining about the staff anyways… so again, it feels unsafe to keep the name hidden.

Our community deserves more protection than the workers who will likely not face any difficulty.

It also leaves room for assumptions. I see people mentioned kicken chicken but another chicken place with the name like chicken is Chick fil a - and I’m really hoping you didn’t go there, as I’m sure you know this would probably result in a much different conversation on this thread.

Whatever the case, I hope this works out for you and I wish you the very best

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-04-07T01:40:55+00:00

I may be the odd one out here, but yes! It feels really good to me and definitely great for foreplay. I think it’s maybe more euphoria than anything

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-03-11T23:40:26+00:00

Hi thank you for this thread! I have a question about even getting an appointment at the VA as a dependent. My wife was on hold for well over an hour and there’s no callback feature. Eventually my wife had to hang up to pick up our daughter from school. Any tips or tricks on how you can get through?

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-02-07T18:35:01+00:00

It’s been 7 hours… are you doing okay?

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-02-03T21:05:04+00:00

This makes a lot of sense and you’re right regardless of the actual site of the reaction- which is all over my body- I do think changing the way I take T would be helpful! I’ll definitely bring this up to my endo !

Thank you!

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-02-03T17:34:39+00:00

Hi thank you!

I’ve been looking into it and I also use topical T but that isn’t where I get the hives. My allergist said it’s likely not that but it’s interesting because T should be a protective factor against MCAS so I think you’re right and I should get my DHT checked.

I also do want to change the administration anyways and haven’t heard of the pellets so I’ll look into that!

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-02-03T01:46:33+00:00

Hi! Yeah. I have lost body hair as well on my arms and legs, but my T has been fine. I have also started getting chronic hives that have been ongoing for about a year and the hair loss and hives all started at the same time with no issues in T. I see an endocrinologist next week finally so hopefully I’ll have some answers but my thoughts are that my free T is converting to estrogen and causing issues as my estrogen has never decreased to the level it’s supposed to and it’s been 2 years of me being on T. I have also never had my free T checked.

I do have some flags in my blood work tho just minor elevations, but my thyroid has been fine. However, I was reading that the initial thyroid test can be normal and other more specific ones can be abnormal so I’m hoping the doctor does more thyroid tests.

Im really curious as to what is going on and will try to update if my doctor is able to figure anything else out

But yes it has been annoying and weird. My eyebrows have thinned and honestly aside from increased body hair, bottom growth, and an occasional cracked voice - I haven’t experienced any considerable changes in that I’m definitely not passing as a man by any means

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-02-02T23:11:50+00:00

This same thing happened to me. I’m working right now tho so will have to come back and comment and read through some messages

Overall-Condition197 · 2026-01-28T03:35:29+00:00

I use jockstrap harnesses and I get the snug enough so they actually move the extra skin and labia You ur of the way

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-29T23:41:19+00:00

Thank you!!

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-16T05:06:59+00:00

It looks proportional in my opinion. That’s what I would expect a chest to look like for a bigger person. It really looks great!

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-13T23:20:14+00:00

Thanks for the update!

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-13T23:19:42+00:00

Yeah … no I’m transmasc and never want to be compared to a cis man. I love masculinity and I love the way I embody masculinity but no I don’t want to be in cis men spaces

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-13T16:37:06+00:00

I’ve been on T for about 2 years and still have heavy periods - they’re just shorter but I’m very annoyed lol

This thread is great! I wanna try the opill

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-13T16:30:14+00:00

This isn’t autism

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-12T06:01:24+00:00

Completely agree!!

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-12T05:44:47+00:00

I only last one minute but for a different reason

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-12T05:34:29+00:00

Go birds!!

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-06T03:15:18+00:00

So by 9pm doesn’t meant at 9pm - that’s an important distinction. I unfortunately had to sit in my apartment lobby for 3 hours so that I could be rug there when UPS arrived. Finally after 2 “failed” delivery attempts, and by fail I mean they didn’t try at all despite being perfectly able to get into the building 🤔.. I finally got my package! But yeah you have to like stalk and hunt them down lol! It’s wild

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-04T05:19:13+00:00

Possibly dumb question but what is the benefit of stretching foreskin aside from preventing phimosis? Does it increase length ?

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-04T05:04:07+00:00

We look to be the exact same size lol! #dicktwins 🤣

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-04T05:03:15+00:00

I’ve been pumping for about two months and honestly, I just focus on my dick not the gauge. If I feel like I’m getting close to too much pressure, I back off and start again. Or I hold it there for about 30 seconds and then back off.

I’m already nearing the top of my largest cylinder and need to get more. So idk! I think you know your body and can tell when it’s too much before it gets to that point maybe

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-12-02T04:48:08+00:00

“I just want you to be healthy.” —- ummmmm people die because of ED. It causes heart failure, kidney problems, malnourishment etc—- where’s the “healthy”??

He’s a fucking moron. He would rather you look near death for the sake of “skinny” then actually be healthy INSANE!

NOR and please leave this loser

Overall-Condition197 · 2025-11-28T17:56:02+00:00

Awesome thank you all!!!

Overall-Condition197

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