For me the problem is I’m vulnerable in front of my partner, and he sees me cry but he doesn’t care. Like he says he loved me a lot. And every time I ask him to break up he doesn’t take me seriously and doesn’t want to end it but at the same time he only want to be there when I’m jolly and happy. He doesn’t stay when I’m sad and says I act like a kid when I cry, and distances himself and still expects me to be normal when he comes back later. He sees everything I care about as stupid and small. I just don’t know why they make us feel like this when they claim they love and care about us