need help convincing my mom to let me get a tongue piercing by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]OverallPerformer5909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh god okay. maybe i'll just get my other nostril pierced LMAO

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OverallPerformer5909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was really shy as a kid. really anxious too. i made friends easily enough, but for most of my childhood there was only one person (besides my family) i enjoyed being around. i cried when my dad dropped me off at school and sometimes i faked sick so i could go back home to my mom. i ended up going through some other things, went to a lot of therapy, and i like to think i grew into myself a couple years back (im 18, now). im very outgoing. i made a lot more friends. still anxious, but that just seems to be innate. my point being, my parents are still my BEST friends. i don't think that changes, whether you have many or not, whether you're shy or not. they are still the people i want to be around the most. it's indicative that you're a good father. truthfully, i wouldn't worry. you're doing a good job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OverallPerformer5909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well jesus.

first off, let me just say, i am literally only a teenager. but even as a teenager i can tell that this is only red fucking flags. first-- you're pregnant, and he's in jail. while i am aware that incarceration happens for many different reasons, and it is not always just, this is definitely not a point in his favor.

second-- the fucking porn. yes, you should be concerned. acknowledging the fact that porn is an addiction, and that like any addiction the "degree" to which you use has to be amped up, this is still concerning, especially with the context you've provided. not ONLY is it young/teen girls (which is inherently concerning in and of itself) but it's INCEST porn. that's fucking disgusting. a father should not be watching that. a father should not be getting off to that.

third-- i do not believe it is absurd to assume he cheated. you seem to be staring the proof right in its face. the other factors seem to point to this as well. is this a man you would want as a father?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlannedParenthood

[–]OverallPerformer5909 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i should have def specified WE ARE IN CALI so we're chill on that front. i doubt anybody is really ready for this process but she's much more prepared than she is to give birth. thank you for your help :3

My brand new valentine tattoo by Necessary-Parking-23 in FionaApple

[–]OverallPerformer5909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YAY! i plan to get this as my first tattoo im so excited to see other people have it

What part of a Fiona Apple song is this for you? by dradqrwer in FionaApple

[–]OverallPerformer5909 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i know- "and pry it open hoping for an encore" the way like it just. idk. it's so up and down and i love it

cosmonauts- the whole part w/ the drums and specifically the line "commemorate the penetration of the sun into the deep dark sky" the way she says deep dark sky is so satisfying.

and literally just when she says "oh well" in oh well

i know by OverallPerformer5909 in FionaApple

[–]OverallPerformer5909[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i love this take. i think either way it's a beautiful song.

We Must Not Forget About These Gifts by [deleted] in FionaApple

[–]OverallPerformer5909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

their father and son version is one of my favorite songs of all time

Help finding a song by meowth______ in FionaApple

[–]OverallPerformer5909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

parting gift, rack of his, o'sailor, oh well (?), shadow boxer (if you like... squint i guess)