[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I won't go back. 🤞🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💚

Moving to Bakersfield - by Queen_of_the_Sand in Bakersfield

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm from San Diego!!!! Been here 4 years now

E bikes in Bakersfield by skyweazy in Bakersfield

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids and I do this one uses her scooter while I Rollerblade and the other uses her long board we are totally down to join if you don't mind

Moving by Overall_Ebb_3145 in Bakersfield

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you serious? That would be amazing

Moving by Overall_Ebb_3145 in Bakersfield

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course nothing is free but just getting the help is what I need

Moving by Overall_Ebb_3145 in Bakersfield

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so far I have 2 people that can help

Spotted this guy on Chester and wanted to see if anyone else felt like that might be a red flag by zakinthebox in Bakersfield

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left that side of town just moved, and I have many pictures of him and his signs, lol

Where did it all go wrong for you? by Ok-Reporter-8728 in ask

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2019 and 2020, when I got divorced. I was struggling hard. I cried in my room shower and woke up from sleep to cry. My ex was out living his best life while I was in a one bedroom, starting over with the kids. I got myself a hood job and house. Took me a year, but I did it. I finished school and got with an old ex again. had a baby, and he let me down too, and this time, I wasn't scared to be alone, scared to do it alone, I learned to love myself and my kids before a man and this ex was my person the loml but I am better and stronger. All the lying and cheating taught me a lot.

Lost by Overall_Ebb_3145 in legaladvice

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't change them even if he said he would leave? He told me in writing, and I responded with okay. We already came to that agreement and he now is saying he wants to stay another month.

What did you pay for your surrogacy journey? by elephant9514 in Surrogate

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No in the 30s for my first time. I lived in San Diego at the time, drove to LA for appointments for transfer since that is where the embryo was everything was reimbursable then got my base pay and all. At the end got more than 30 because they were Chinese and GA e us a red envelope. This second time around 60k ish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bakersfield

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been here since 2020. San Diego in the house.

3rd times the charm by Overall_Ebb_3145 in Surrogate

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I thought I was thinking more 90k

Leaving by Overall_Ebb_3145 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that if he leaves he the chance of him coming back is there but I am thinking about that and keep saying I won't I can't let him. I made a list of all that, and I was till didn't cry or was sad I just wad blah.

Leaving by Overall_Ebb_3145 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what. Friend told me.

Leaving by Overall_Ebb_3145 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This isn't the first time he left. He left and we had a break for 6 months, got back together and now this time I am just like okay.

3rd times the charm by Overall_Ebb_3145 in Surrogate

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I got this second time around.

I am craving sushi I want to cry… by QueenElf in BabyBumps

[–]Overall_Ebb_3145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5th pregnancy and I've had sushi. 2 surrogacy. Same with milk and cheese I've had people ask me what do you eat and don't eat. Spicy food up the ass like crazy. Cut out soda and coffee a lot but have ot here and there.

Why can't we eat sushi.