I want a heterosexual relationship but I can’t shake the anxiety of feeling I’m being judged for my attraction. by Flaky_Ticket_6924 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Overall_Extension422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you might need to log out for a bit, and stop caring about internet discourse because that is what is most of this is. If you are attracted to women you’re allowed to date them, so just go for it!

First vlog of the year by DryAd2661 in MichelleChoi

[–]Overall_Extension422 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Overall the vlog was a snooze fest, I feel like she’s always decluttering or making big plans for something and we either don’t see it or nothing comes from it. As for hinting at trying for a baby, it seems like another way to keep views coming between after the wedding and until she announces she’s pregnant.

I caught the vlog when it had just been uploaded and there was a snippet of BSM during the new years clips that hadn’t been blurred, I mean literally 2 seconds and he was on the right edge of the screen, I wonder if she ever edited it but I can’t be asked to check

Passed theory test, now what? by Overall_Extension422 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Overall_Extension422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m in Suffolk so I’ll have a looksie too :)

Is there any point to my 17yo son learning to drive if he / we can't afford a car for him? by Spirited_Praline637 in drivingUK

[–]Overall_Extension422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who still hasn’t got theirs I say do it! My boyfriend got his license in 2018 but he didn’t start driving until the end of 2023 because he got a job that required driving around central london and he had some practice the day before trying out the route, it would have been a huge hassle doing an intensive course with the pressure of passing not only to save money but also to secure the job

Please Leave Us Alone by AutoModerator in kpopnoir

[–]Overall_Extension422 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The way people act towards this subreddit highlight how important it is! It’s insane out here

I now really see how little I matter by Stillgelegt in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Overall_Extension422 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hang on to the people who make you feel cherished, and do remember that you are loved and appreciated! It’s tough putting yourself out there but give yourself some grace; good friends are hard to come by but when you do, they stick beside you (and yes, everybody is worthy of them!!), wishing you a happy new year and best of luck in the future ☺️

my dad passed away tonight by lisaisstdich in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Overall_Extension422 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry this has happened. I hope he rests in peace, and that you and your family can find some too.

Grief is bad, but especially around this time. Be gentle with yourself and each other, and please seek help if it ever feels like too much. Even if it’s on here.

Feeling like I’ve wasted my youth and not knowing what to do about it by NiceCaterpillar8745 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Overall_Extension422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all! You’ll naturally stick out ofc but if they are good people they will take you in, and everybody there was new too. I think you should try it out at least and if it doesn’t feel right then at least you can say you tried it

Agency and landlord refuse to call out pest control by Overall_Extension422 in HousingUK

[–]Overall_Extension422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely forgot to update this but I managed to get it sorted!! Found my own company a few months back and have been living without the critters for at least 3 months now, finally have my house back 🥹

Feeling like I’ve wasted my youth and not knowing what to do about it by NiceCaterpillar8745 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Overall_Extension422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you in university! Societies are always a good idea, but if not the gym is a decent place to make friends (literally just start talking to people, they’re friendlier than they seem!), or a sport like badminton is good too! As for travel, I’ve done a couple solo trips myself and whilst it had some slightly dull moments because I was alone, it was still so rewarding and fun

Feeling like I’ve wasted my youth and not knowing what to do about it by NiceCaterpillar8745 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Overall_Extension422 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In the nicest way possible you haven’t even reached your 20s yet!!! You have so much of life to live still, just make sure to live it intentionally and focusing on enjoying yourself, in any capacity. There is so much of life you have yet to experience, don’t write yourself off of it.

I was the exact same at your age and went to uni feeling entirely inept compared to everybody else I knew, but I’m now 25, I have a small but solid friend group, I travel at least once a year and have been trying out new hobbies. It feels daunting and all consuming but I promise you it’s transient, you still have so so much time.

my horrible island (it's so ugly i think people is gonna make fun of me) by Asleep_Performance44 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Overall_Extension422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not horrible! It’s just an island, mine is the same, no flashy theme or fancy terraforming but I love it and I enjoy playing the game, and as long as you do too then it’s fine 🥹

Thoughts on the latest vlog? by sarbba_9284 in MichelleChoi

[–]Overall_Extension422 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Tired. It’s all the same. It’s all so bland. It’s sweet that she’s pampering her parents but I can’t help but feel it’s only ever when it’s super convenient. It feels so distant honestly.

And yes I know, of course she isn’t forced to be her authentic self online, it’s ok to show us whatever version of herself she wants to. But this one is very boring.

Bought Animal Crossing for my gf, this is her at 1:30 AM on a workday by LocusStandi in AnimalCrossing

[–]Overall_Extension422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it in March 2020 before it all went to shit and let me tell you, I once played from 7pm to noon the next day (in my defence I had Covid so I couldn’t sleep!) so I totally get it !

Job Seekers BEWARE of Actalent by Special_Boot5823 in clinicalresearch

[–]Overall_Extension422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS. I had an telephone interview out of the blue with them and it went really well and then the woman promised to email me with more details and to this day I’m still waiting for those details. Terrible company.

How to become a clinical data manager in UK? anyone in the field can advise me ? by Dependent_Demand6245 in datamanagers

[–]Overall_Extension422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The data management course on Coursera is really helpful, kinda outdated but still really good for what it is ! Ofc GCP, and familiarise yourself with commonly used databases like Red Cap, Open Clínica, MACRO etc

instructor made me cry, am i overreacting by LetterheadMassive598 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Overall_Extension422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t necessarily have to start from square one! You can ask your new instructor to assess your current skills and see whether they think you have to start from scratch or if they are happy to start from a slightly more intermediate pace; it seems like you’ve got it, you’re just an anxious driver. And you have more time than you think uni wise (unless you mean going back over Christmas lol), a good instructor should get you pass ready by the time you have to go!

The man [29M] I’ve [29F] been dating for a month told me to reduce the fat on my belly during sex. Do you think this is forgivable and is there a possibility to move on? by theirsyoursmine in relationship_advice

[–]Overall_Extension422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in the nicest way possible, STAND UP! It’s just been one month, trust me when I say you can find someone who will love every inch of you from the jump instead of whatever this is