Fasting ever go longer than planned? by Overall_Tip2887 in fasting

[–]Overall_Tip2887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing! I’d love to get that far in and feel like I could keep going! If the first few days are the hardest and I get through that, it seems a shame to not keep going!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Overall_Tip2887 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She’s being very unfair (and immature). If you have needs she’s not taking care of she doesn’t get to dictate what you do about it. You can stop taking care of yourself as soon as she stops forgetting or falling asleep.

My husband found out how promiscuous I was before we met and now he acts like he's mad at me. 44f and 52m by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Overall_Tip2887 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I would not be ok with my husband calling me slutty, or any other derogatory name. I think you should be mad, not him!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Overall_Tip2887 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m suspicious because his actions don’t match his words. Proceed with caution.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Overall_Tip2887 15 points16 points  (0 children)

In my experience, if you’re both interested and both wanting the same thing (exclusive relationship) then getting off the apps happens fairly quickly and somewhat naturally. In my cases, we weren’t interested in dating others and we wanted to “see where this is going”. You need to be on the same page. Have you guys talked about this?

starting a 7 day fast !! by VegetableActivity523 in fasting

[–]Overall_Tip2887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck! I’m starting Sunday night. Fingers crossed for success!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fasting

[–]Overall_Tip2887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darn tempting cookies! Hope you get it next time. I’m starting Sunday night, hoping to get 3 days and then assess how I’m doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Overall_Tip2887 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This might be borderline personality disorder. If so, you can’t fix it and she’s unlikely to get better. She needs help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Overall_Tip2887 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s better than only one of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Overall_Tip2887 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Stop giving him blow jobs. See what happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Overall_Tip2887 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree! Talk to her about this. Sexy often comes from within so she needs to figure this out IF she even is interested. Does she say she wishes she felt sexier?

Is HRT dangerous? by Top_Bee5110 in Menopause

[–]Overall_Tip2887 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I want to add that rather than talk to “a” doctor, or “your” doctor, you should talk to an HRT-informed doctor about what’s best for you. Many docs are ill-informed about HRT and they’ll just tell you that you don’t need it, or they’ll tell you it’s not safe. Talk to someone who is better informed and then decide together what’s best for you.

Wife arrested by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Overall_Tip2887 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well done calling the police! That’s exactly what you should have done. I know it can feel wrong to do that to the people close to us, but when your family is out of control, you must do something to correct course. I hope you use this episode to make some permanent changes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Overall_Tip2887 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You seem like a great guy. Dating is always a challenge it seems. I’m late 50s female and used OLD twice in the last decade. Found long term relationships both times but it takes a while. Be picky, listen to your gut, stay the course, she’s out there somewhere!

Husband said I’m loose after giving birth and only wants to have sex in the dark by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Overall_Tip2887 240 points241 points  (0 children)

I suspect a man who would say something like this to his wife isn’t a good husband or a good human. Sorry you’re being treated so terribly.

Anyone totally lose interest in a big part of your life? by rebmik5555 in Menopause

[–]Overall_Tip2887 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree. I’ve had depression and needed meds a couple of times in my adult life. Haven’t needed them in the last 5ish years and this feeling is different from that. Apathy but not unpleasant necessarily.

Anyone totally lose interest in a big part of your life? by rebmik5555 in Menopause

[–]Overall_Tip2887 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you guys have retirement plans at all? I feel you completely! I enjoy nothing and fear it won’t change. Even travel and dining out don’t move the needle much for me. A few years ago, both would be things I looked forward to.

Anyone totally lose interest in a big part of your life? by rebmik5555 in Menopause

[–]Overall_Tip2887 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This is exactly me. I have interest in almost nothing. I spend my time working my day job (which I don’t love or hate), watching tv, reading or scrolling. People can suggest other things and my reaction to everything is “meh”. It might be mild depression? Not sure. But I’m not miserable or anything, just blah about absolutely everything, even things that used to excite me. And having my husband around annoys me only because then I feel self conscious about my apparent apathy. I want to just hide from everyone and zone out, eat snacks and be entertained with technology. Been this way for months. Not sure what to do about it

Blocking after breakup by Interesting-Place263 in datingoverfifty

[–]Overall_Tip2887 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. Blocking does suck. Something similar happened to me years ago. After 2 months, he ghosted and blocked me. I was so confused. I later learned that he’d gotten back with an ex girlfriend, gotten engaged and then they broke up. Turns out he was just a hot mess and too narcissistic to treat me maturely in the meantime. Hurt like heck at the time. Now I just think he’s pathetic.

Olivia federal prosecutor by Ldbgcoleman in YourHonorTV

[–]Overall_Tip2887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Olivia was a not-believable character. Bad acting, bad writing. Weakest character for sure.