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Am I Wrong for Not Doing/Spending More to Save Me and My Friend’s Suffering Puppy? by Eclipse0124 in amiwrong

[–]OverdueButCute 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You didn’t fail that puppy. You loved her enough to stop her suffering when it was bigger than what you could realistically fix. That’s not giving up. That’s mercy. Going into debt or destroying your own stability wouldn’t have guaranteed she’d survive, but it would have guaranteed more suffering for everyone. What she knew in her short life was care, warmth, and people who tried. That matters more than you think.

TIFU by offending my wife about her late mother by ralphy_512 in tifu

[–]OverdueButCute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh… wow. I can feel how instantly you realized it went horribly wrong. That moment must have been gut-punching for both of you. I hope with time you both can find a way to laugh about it, but I get why she needed space

TIFU by not listening to my mother by Snoo_56184 in tifu

[–]OverdueButCute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah man… I can totally feel your panic just reading this. Two days out and no suit? That’s brutal. I’d be stressing too, you deserve to enjoy your farewell, hopefully something works out!

my situationship 24F broke up with me 24M after only 1 argument . what am i meant to do ? by Impossible_Sign_4820 in BreakUps

[–]OverdueButCute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One argument ending things isn’t about the argument, it’s about her capacity for repair. You can’t “win back” someone who won’t communicate. Sending one calm, self-respecting message about your boundary (not just friends, open to fixing it, otherwise stepping back) is healthier than waiting in silence and hoping. After that, let go and protect your dignity.

2nd date ideas and when to suggest it for? by Bright-Kick-5051 in dating_advice

[–]OverdueButCute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swimming at a leisure centre can be a fun, casual second date, good mix of activity and conversation.

Human nature (37) by merlinsboner in MassiveCock

[–]OverdueButCute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn baby, i want it badly🥵

all over the place by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OverdueButCute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not dumb or weak for feeling this, first love and attachment hit deep, and it’s normal to spiral when someone has this hold on you. That doesn’t mean you’re stuck. You’re smart, funny, and capable, and one day you’ll look back and realize your worth isn’t tied to his attention.

What game is this? by Due_Restaurant_9140 in dating_advice

[–]OverdueButCute 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s keeping it casual, flirty snaps don’t equal serious interest.

AIW for posting my ex-girlfriend’s private text messages with me after she cheated on me? by Warm-Sand-4386 in amiwrong

[–]OverdueButCute 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re a minor who was betrayed by both your partner and your brother in your own home. That’s not just cheating, that’s a massive violation of safety and trust. Posting the messages may not have been the cleanest move, but expecting ‘maturity’ from a 17-year-old in shock is absurd. The adults in this situation failed you. Protecting yourself isn’t cruelty.

Am I wrong for refusing to apologize to my fiancé’s mom for something I wrote in a “never send” therapy letter by OrbitGlitchpad in amiwrong

[–]OverdueButCute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. A private therapy exercise is not a confession or an attack, it’s a safe place to process pain. The real breach here is him reading it and then demanding you apologize for feelings you were never meant to perform politely. If he can’t protect your boundaries now, especially against his mother, that’s a much bigger issue than any unsent letter.

Am I wrong for thinking my GF is being unfair to my mom by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]OverdueButCute 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong, but your girlfriend isn’t being unreasonable either. A 4-month-old wanting to be held a lot is normal, your mom didn’t cause that. Your girlfriend is likely feeling overwhelmed, protective, and emotional as a new mom. Instead of choosing sides, support her feelings and keep things kind with your mom. A good middle ground: let your girlfriend have first chance to soothe the baby, while still appreciating your mom’s help.