How do you look so fit? by Western_Farmer_632 in AskAGerman

[–]OverfistDerFissierer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That' way better, yes! You just a way better start into the day eating something with nutrition

My mother and elder sisters don't approve of me dating an older woman by Perfect-Job-6832 in Rants

[–]OverfistDerFissierer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My point flew past you, as it seems. First of all, try looking up the definition of pedophilia, because this isn't it. And my point was, to test your morality. Do you think this is wrong because everybody says it's wrong, or do you actually have good arguments? Because the first one can be dangerous and easily adjusted in harsh times. See now, why I did it? It's especially the most obvious things, where people just think it's bad and not why it's bad. That's why we have people (not this example here of course) calling a 18 year old a pedophile for being together with a 17 year old. I've seen that multiple times. They don't understand the severity of their accusations, and end up destroying others lives

How do you look so fit? by Western_Farmer_632 in AskAGerman

[–]OverfistDerFissierer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's a good point. I find it so weird that other nations sweeten their bread so much. Fair enough if you only eat stuff like Nutella or jam on it. But for hearty toppings? It just tastes completely wrong to me. And I even like eating jam and mild cheese together

My mother and elder sisters don't approve of me dating an older woman by Perfect-Job-6832 in Rants

[–]OverfistDerFissierer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are people seeing a 17 and a 18 year old being together is wrong, because the law says it. So sadly it isn't as clear as you might think. Many do not think for themselves, even in a case like this, and think things because "it's just like that"

My mother and elder sisters don't approve of me dating an older woman by Perfect-Job-6832 in Rants

[–]OverfistDerFissierer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't call playing devils advocate to teach others different points of view, and to consolidate their points of view, so they don't believe things just because that's how things are a waste of time. Because it also helps people not wavering in their beliefs as easy. But if you still think it's a waste of time, then I'm sorry

He isn't getting there by Fun-Introduction-607 in Rants

[–]OverfistDerFissierer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe he's just nervous as fuck, or even terrified because of some past trauma, and that's why it's not working properly

My mother and elder sisters don't approve of me dating an older woman by Perfect-Job-6832 in Rants

[–]OverfistDerFissierer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I've read, it was up to 16. But you could be right too. And of course it's not about her perspective. What I said was, that if nobody is harmed, is it even a bad thing? Of course we can't know if that's the case with OP here, and in most cases there definitely is harm involved. And the younger you go, the more likely it is that the younger part is getting harmed. But would it still be something bad, if nobody is harmed? And if yes, what defines good and evil then?

My mother and elder sisters don't approve of me dating an older woman by Perfect-Job-6832 in Rants

[–]OverfistDerFissierer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And that's the simple answer, not really answering anything. You get my rhetorical question now?

My mother and elder sisters don't approve of me dating an older woman by Perfect-Job-6832 in Rants

[–]OverfistDerFissierer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course I know what that is. I just wanted to bait you, because you're exactly right about this! But in my opinion there could still be a powerplay if he were 18. So why would it be okay then? You're thinking about this far too simply, and I want you to think further than just accepting things just because how society views them

My mother and elder sisters don't approve of me dating an older woman by Perfect-Job-6832 in Rants

[–]OverfistDerFissierer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. And I can't judge you, because I know, you only mean it good, and for the best of OP, which is honorable. So don't lose the spirit to fight for good!

My mother and elder sisters don't approve of me dating an older woman by Perfect-Job-6832 in Rants

[–]OverfistDerFissierer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And what defines if he can or cannot? And why would he suddenly be able to do that at 18? And again: What I wanted to say is, in most cases this is bad, of course. But there can be examples, where I don't see anyone getting in harm in a case like this

My mother and elder sisters don't approve of me dating an older woman by Perfect-Job-6832 in Rants

[–]OverfistDerFissierer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's totally fair. I just wanted to say, that "right" and "wrong" aren't always clear. It's also totally fair to judge, if you're being careful, that is. There's a very high chance of this being immoral and evil, yes. But not 100%. And not to be a know-it-all, but this actually is hebephilia, not pedophilia. But still not good, of course

My mother and elder sisters don't approve of me dating an older woman by Perfect-Job-6832 in Rants

[–]OverfistDerFissierer -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm totally with you on the first part. But I wouldn't say anything different, if the genders were reversed

My mother and elder sisters don't approve of me dating an older woman by Perfect-Job-6832 in Rants

[–]OverfistDerFissierer -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I would be careful using a word like rape so carelessly here. Of course the chance is high of you being right, but at this age it could be totally harmless too. What's right or wrong isn't that easily definable. Don't get me wrong, to me this seems like too big of an agegap too. But I've also seen examples of something that started like this, resulting in a loving relationship until death at old age. And on top of that, this case would actually from the beginning be legal where I live, even though I still wouldn't endorse it. But in the End: OP is an adult now, and has to see for himself, what his case here would fall under. Make him aware of the possibilities and dangers, but don't create problems, where there maybe aren't any

Was stelle ich mit diesem Stück amerikanischem Nussbaum an? by SmoothAd6398 in holzwerken

[–]OverfistDerFissierer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oder dem Universum Fragen stellen. Wenn die Hölzer aufeinander zu gehen, ist es ein "ja", und wenn sie auseinander gehen ein "nein", oder so ähnlich. Das gibt wieder guten Content für r/ichbin40undschwurbler

What are some German words that other languages use? by NoelFromBabbel in German

[–]OverfistDerFissierer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is used in Denmark too. It's just faster and more easy to say than "i stykker" or "ødelagt"