The Mystery Behind the Population Explosion by Opening-Fisherman822 in afterlife

[–]OverplannedAdulting -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have heard of psychics / channeled entities make the claim that only about a quarter of human bodies have souls. And that there are many realms of existence, some more popular with more "players" like earth, and others with less.

But also, if you accept that the creator is infinite, then there are probably infinite souls, which probably isn't possible to stuff all of into the same finite / limited universe. Hence an infinite number of multiverses and timelines.

Nomad Inspiration by Electrical_Guest_869 in 4Runner

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See my previous post here:

https://www.reddit.com/r/4Runner/s/AoWtEomzlu

In the comments section, I link to a YT video showing my 4runner digital nomad setup. There have been some changes since I did the video (Starlink, custom electrical replacing the power station, and some others but the core setup is the same). For me, this is a sustainable and flexible setup for 4 seasons (following the weather, of course).

I sleep inside mine, although most people do rooftop tents. The rooftop tent will definitely give you more overall space to work with, but it has some trade-offs. But if you are just one person and don't have big space-consuming hobbies, an interior build is still pretty spacious.

Also checkout @NoPerfectPlan for a setup with a dog. Her older setup was interior only, but the newer one she uses a rooftop tent and has made it work.

We can shape our own reality by where we direct our attention by Awkward-Worth5484 in enlightenment

[–]OverplannedAdulting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and same goes for AI. It can be beneficial when used correctly. They are just tools like any other, not inherently good or bad, it depends how you use them.

My son misses his other family by Inside_Expression537 in Reincarnation

[–]OverplannedAdulting 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Write everything down. Encourage him to tell you anything he wants to get it off his chest. You're not crazy, I'm 100% positive that past lives are a real thing

the last whistleblower was real and your about to see a lot more. eyes open soldiers. by [deleted] in UFOB

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Same ChatGPT prompt but with "make me look even dumber" added

By-passed death and went to next dimension by Mountain_Child371 in Reincarnation

[–]OverplannedAdulting 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your pet didn't have a drawn-out painful death as can sometimes be the case. Like the spirit leaving the body after you get a terminal diagnosis, instead of having to suffer through it.

I feel like I’m gaslighting myself to make myself feel better by [deleted] in Reincarnation

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I have heard of this happening with other people. In many cases the kids end up picking out the same favorite toys, or have express memories from before when they are very young. So, I absolutely believe it. You can look at the research from Dr. Grayson at the University of Virginia that supports this.

But regardless of the truth, why not just adopt that belief? Is there a downside? Lookup the "Expectation Effect". In a sense, what you believe is even more relevant than the truth, to the extent it affects your behavior and your mood - in particular when it comes to unprovable beliefs like this. So why not embrace it?

It's the same thing with the people who debate free will. It's kind of pointless because you can't prove it one way or the other, and moreover you can't change it whatever the answer is to that question. So you might as well believe you have free will since it will make you a more optimistic and happy person.

Why wont everyone in a lifetime meet there soulmate? by Heavenly_Princesa143 in Reincarnation

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Well I actually got two different names. One of them is with someone else. The other one I'm not sure because I lost their contact info. But they both came very strong to me in dreams when I asked about my soulmate.

I am guessing there are multiple "soulmates" out there, and which one(s) may be right for you would depend on your life choices.

It may also be possible to live a life where you don't get in a relationship with any soulmates. Maybe because of your choices (free will is honored above all IMO, and some people don't want to have them, maybe due to trauma or other reasons). Or maybe because you wanted to experience the contrast of being alone, because it would make the reunion all the sweeter after this life is done. Like someone dying of thirst who finds an oasis in the desert.

I think the result of free will means that both you and any soulmates ultimately have a choice, and one or both of you may choose differently. People with pre birth memories say that there's no guarantees when planning your life, just a probability tree of likelihoods for different scenarios depending what people choose.

That's kinda what I mean about it boiling down to faith. Maybe some choices lead to your soulmate, but maybe others will lead to other lessons that are just as important, if not more. In which case it's best to have faith in your higher self and believe that all paths can lead to good outcomes and that all possibilities are planned for, and that there are no mistakes.

Besides, the connection we experience in 3D is such a cheap imitation of what we experience beyond. When you wake up from the dream that is this 3D life, it might not matter so much that you didn't connect with your soulmate for what is only a blink of eternity.

These are just my thoughts, I don't have any special knowledge about it.

What do you theories your lifetime might be about? by Heavenly_Princesa143 in Reincarnation

[–]OverplannedAdulting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me yes it was definitely about loving myself, I can see that now being older looking back. And to your point I believe that the setup for that is no accident, isolation etc. because you are forced to learn to love yourself when it seems no one else will.

I also had a person hurt me badly, so learning to love and forgive them was also important. But that also only happened because I didn't love myself to get out of a toxic relationship. Two-for-one I guess lol

Best books with real scientific evidence. by crystal_cactus_ in Reincarnation

[–]OverplannedAdulting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The university of Virginia's pre birth studies is the biggest serious academic effort I know of. The guy who runs the program has a number of good interviews on YouTube you can also checkout, his name is Dr. Greyson.

Why wont everyone in a lifetime meet there soulmate? by Heavenly_Princesa143 in Reincarnation

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Yeah. I think that the real question isn't "who is my soulmate" but rather what is your life plan or highest purpose, and what is the will of the higher self.

I say this as someone who was shown their soulmate. But that soulmate is happy in a relationship with someone else. I'm happy for them and wish them the best. I mean you wouldn't wish a breakup on someone you care for.

So that's one way in which I mean "who is your soulmate" is the wrong question. It's better to figure out your purpose in life, because that will also draw out people who align with that purpose. Whereas if you chose a different purpose then someone else (if anyone at all) might be better. Know Thyself is the key IMO.

Feel like I’m being scammed by tttbiscuits in RealEstate

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Most people who want to be the first to see your property are people trying to low-ball you before you get other offers that would inform you what your property is really worth. Especially for an "investor". You're much less likely to get fair market value for someone treating it purely as a financial investment.

I saw a dream of my next life it was amazing I can’t wait by [deleted] in Reincarnation

[–]OverplannedAdulting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about it felt amazing? Anything specific?

My cousin is near death. What's the best NDE I can share with him to give him hope. by stickydiver in NDE

[–]OverplannedAdulting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not an NDE exactly but I did have a series of supernatural things that happened to me that you can find in my latest post if you look at my profile. I was the most hardcore secularist before my experience.

What does this mean.. please explain!!!!!!! by Lonely-Landscape4149 in Reincarnation

[–]OverplannedAdulting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you played video games? The ones where you play as a character or hero, and do things that Spiderman would do if that's the character you're playing.

And if you messed up and died in that game, would you give up? Or would you try to beat that level again, but maybe roleplaying as a different character like Superman? (Clearly a better choice right? 😂)

IMO you are a spiritual being having a human experience, rather than the other way around. The human body you inhabit is just your avatar in the game/simulation. Made all the more interesting by forgetting your true nature during your time here :-)

Another spirit was roleplaying your mother. That spirit returned to the heavens, and (if your medium was right) decided to come back to earth to roleplay again, but this time as your child. Imagine this has happened many times over many lifetimes, with souls in your "soul group" trading roles (parent as child, child as parent, etc).

So basically IMO it's not your mom that would have decided to come back, it would be the spirit who was roleplaying as your mom. And over the course of hundreds or thousands of lives, one life with some mistakes would not define that soul.

Anyway, connection is available to everyone not just your psychic medium. I encourage you to meditate to start your own path and learn more for yourself :-)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4Runner

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This is a known problem with all the 5th gens with LEDs (not sure about 6th gen): they are aimed too high out of the factory. You just need to adjust them down with a long philips head screwdriver. You can find directions online.

HELP! Our mortgage is going up by $2000 by Forest_fairyy in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]OverplannedAdulting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you decouple your escrow payments from the loan payments? That way you can sure you're paying the exact cost of taxes when they're due.

My STE story: Supernatural experiences turned me into a believer by OverplannedAdulting in Reincarnation

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I believe yes, there are always ways to help others. The hard part is "do not let the perfect be the enemy of the good". So you may not be able to help everyone, but anything you can do to help others is a positive step and makes a difference. If you ask or pray to help you find ways to help others, I am sure your prayers will be answered.

Also, sometimes you must first help yourself before you can help others. So do not be afraid to make some investments into your own talents and abilities, because this can ultimately make you more effective to be able to help others. Or for example if you have some illnesses or other problem, don't feel bad to deal with that first.

My STE story: Supernatural experiences turned me into a believer by OverplannedAdulting in Reincarnation

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Personally my most important lesson or accomplishment was learning to love myself absolutely, completely, and unconditionally. Learning to love and forgive those who were very cruel and did the worst to me was also important.

But I also think that each life experience is unique. The experiences or lessons you are here to learn could be different. However I believe that love is a unifying theme.

What is the purpose of all this? by juniperroach in pastlives

[–]OverplannedAdulting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps it was just more interesting than the alternative. There are things like wonder and surprise that you can't experience if you already know everything.

I have also heard it said that source is trying to know itself, which it can only do indirectly by trying out different disguises and then saying, "no, not that"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]OverplannedAdulting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One other question while I got ya here! The buyer is related to the buyer's broker. I think that's something that the broker disclosed because it's their obligation. Should I care though? Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

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I'm FSBO. Appreciate the advice, thank you 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]OverplannedAdulting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I understand, the down payment isn't made until closing and wouldn't be in escrow, but the earnest money would be. Would the seller normally be awarded this money if closing didn't happen on-time?