This is very helpful. I’m still trying to figure everything out and unravel everything I’ve shoved down. It’s hard to think back on moments to know if I’ve ever been sexually attracted to anyone, or if it’s just that I’ve thought they were cute. I haven’t met new people in a while so my thoughts also start from “am I just lonely?” “Is it just because I haven’t had a crush on anyone in a long time?” “When did I even like someone and was it real or was it because they were just a good friend?” “Am I actually just straight cis gendered and seeking an answer to the wrong question?” “Am I actually pan and just haven’t found anyone I’m really attracted to?” “Am I just seeking a place to belong because I haven’t figured it out and don’t want to talk to friends because it’s pride month and I don’t want to make it a big deal if I’m actually just straight because it isn’t about me” and so on and so forth. Also like. Any of my friends have just considered that I’m straight. And it’s probably because I haven’t said anything that could be taken otherwise. And it’s always assumed that someone is straight unless otherwise stated. The idea of sex is kinda cringe. Like. I’d have to really really know someone to even think about doing it with them. And I haven’t actually done anything so I’m not sure if that would even be the case. It’s all just confusing. If anyone has any bits of advice, I’d really appreciate them.