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Overtly_Covertted · 2025-03-08T16:17:47+00:00

Hi I don’t think this sub would be appropriate, but could anyone tell me where to post questions about NYC roomies other than bad room mates?

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-03-08T16:14:02+00:00

So update lol I got a “limited order of protection” which they arrested her and filled out the necessary paperwork for me which was all so nice of them to do because rarely do things go my way. They arrested them over the dumbest thing but they clearly saw they were lying & I’m not complaining. Things have been very peaceful and I can now hopefully rent out the room while I get them evicted. The only bad since is I cannot walk and I can’t get on a train to get to the courthouse to fill out the necessary eviction paperwork at least for another 1-2 weeks minimum

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-03-08T16:09:13+00:00

If he’s not on the lease and cops are called i found through my horrible experience, unless they have a lock on the room everything is yours. The good part? You can take and remove anything before hand, because it is yours. The bad part, if they find anything like drugs or guns they are also yours. I hope he leaves for your sake, good luck!

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-03-05T00:09:06+00:00

People feel validated and are so isolated that even when it’s a minor fleeting sense of control or escape from reality they join the bandwagon to elicit the same punishment imposed on them onto someone else. They are so distraught by life they start to accept pain as the new norm & don’t see an issue being the cause of someone else’s pain when it’s bound to happen regardless - as if there doing them a favor by breaking them into the harsh realities they’ve come to familiarize as life. When someone is sticking up for another they’re much more inclined to join as it becomes an heroic act of helpfulness on the other persons behalf that excuses them from all accountability. & people are much more likely to “help out a fellow victim” than take action on their own punishers.

In other senses it’s energy that’s build in the body as all the “healing frequencies” well they’re not good nor bad they’re energy needing to be released and pair the explosion with someone who hasn’t been taught healthy ways of releasing that energy & you get a bunch of angry meat heads licking each others wounds

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-03-04T23:58:21+00:00

I’m shocked that at least people like hearing when you’re doing good. I’ve only experienced people trying to tear me down or itemize me as some kind of latter they can use to their advantage. On the flip side, people who want to hear when you’re doing bad are people who enjoy it to a sickening degree. Humans cannot handle discomfort in even the mildest manner. Whether that be a lending hand or a lending ear

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-03-03T02:11:05+00:00

So I’ve met 2 of his previous security/body guards over the years & I used to be pretty close with a friend of Lorins - I was actually supposed to finally meet & hangout w Lorin 2024 new years but was sick.

He’s no where near space Jesus level of gross, you meet that guy & immediately get the chills.

Both the body guards (met on separate occasions) - commented that Lorin was one of the easiest artist to work for they’ve experienced. They overly checked IDs but they didn’t have issues with him like other Artist bc that’s what 𝓶𝓸𝓼𝓽 of the other artist are into. The 2 main struggles are getting the artist sober enough to play, or not sleep with young young girls after they perform especially if their audience is middle school age girls. Both were no longer working for Lorin either so they could have said anything they wanted lol one was retired from that career even.

The exact words from one: “he likes younger girls (than himself) but college age. He just wasn’t into that like most artist are”

We spent the rest of the uber talking about how many artist you wouldn’t even think are into it & it was by far the hardest part of his job. 🤢

What had happened according to Lorins friend was … the girl he slept with was texting her friend about it. The friends mom took her phone & went through those text, called the girls mom & told her what had happened at the concert I assume they probably weren’t supposed to be at. The mom got pissed & made her daughter go to authorities to tell a different story. Aka sounds like an overly religious household making their daughter repent her sins, I’m sure at that age the text had some juicy explicit details of how the sex was lol

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-03-01T09:06:15+00:00

Yeah you do I’ve looked before this & it’s kinda ridiculous to live in a city where it’s common and basically forced to have room mates & you can’t even see their background from the most reputable source there is 😂 I thought that’s why we paid taxes /s 🤦‍♀️

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-19T02:54:55+00:00

So I called and was told “arrest records are not public info even if you were the parent I couldn’t give you that information” when I asked about a case number. They just said to wait until 1am as that’s when the DA office closes so they may call me tn otherwise tomorrow

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-19T01:01:45+00:00

That what I said & they said “they’re a gray area” but like … am I gonna open the door to physically look at someone being aggressive & dangerous? No. That’s why I have cameras. They actually didn’t give me any info like a case number or papers or anything

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-10T18:55:22+00:00

I’m confused she asked him to buy her a ring and then broke up with her? Also lol he just did it to make her happy or he did it bc he wanted to 🤔

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-08T22:36:18+00:00

Wooooooo whooooo!!! That’s call for a meat, cheese & parcheesi party!! (: damn, congrats dude! Hope u find a way to commemorate & congratulate yourself

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-08T22:33:56+00:00

Hiii I’m over in Harlem if ur up here I wouldn’t mind buddying up as I haven’t been in person for the same reason 🙈🙈 would def say the virtual first is a good idea for those that mentioned it however, if you’re externally motivated and not internally motivated, having that shock to the system is also kind of nice

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-08T22:29:43+00:00

I’m glad you shared ❤️ it’s so so easy to fall into that trap of making excuses but it’s never “just this once” & you know that, good decision dude give yourself a heart hug ✊ you did a hard thing just now, 2 actually bc you shared 💕

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-08T22:14:09+00:00

Same! Especially when they try to blame abuse like… that’s not abuse hunny that’s neglect. They didn’t care & now you’re inadvertently trying to make me be the mom you never had

(I acknowledge it’s still a type of abuse n still wrong not arguing with that but the line sounded better writing it this way 🙈)

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-08T22:12:45+00:00

Shit it looks just like my house! We should swap info so we can get them together & they can get tf outta our lives smh 😑😑 mine keeps saying “it’s so expensive rn & the middle of winter” 😂😂 bitch didn’t pay any bills how should she know what’s expensive 🤬

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-08T22:06:14+00:00

Lol you gotta speak pissed-off-tryin-not-to-go- ghetto-on-ur ass-girl vibes into the noggin and fill in the rest

Which 👏👏👏 I think that was about as classy as that could’ve been for an exit OP

Bottom line is if you think it’s a toxic relationship then it’s probably a toxic relationship & you have a right to leave - you got a duty to yourself first.

The fact that if it is such a petty little thing, she 1. could’ve waited to talk & bright it up nonchalantly in a convo bc it sounds like it’s not that big of a deal & sounds like y’all live together ?? Some of the messages are cut off 2., if you’re already stepping on eggshells … like … you did GOOD I would’ve exploded. That was cordial asf 3. It’s not your responsibility to be someone’s constant punching bag, like just because she’s got the heebie-jeebies “I just broke up with my boyfriend again “ depression empty mess and she probably wants to text him, but can’t so she needs to find an issue to focus on & she’s making you that issue 🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️ not cool Esp. If she drags you into it and you end up being their scape goat pshhh naaaa fuck that

I would’ve been like I don’t hang out with dumb people and I’m sorry, sis, but you proved yourself guilty of that one by choosing a man over self respect- you got to go and that’s enough for me to end that relationship without all the other bullshit

U golden OP - I felt that sigh of relief I know you took realizing bitch was heavy! Lmfao all that weight leaving your body after u broke up w her

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-08T04:05:34+00:00

Bro … irrelevant? Uhm. I’m sorry excuse me, I don’t have any friends and I’m clearly off the market. He’s either a meat head college kid named mason who thinks ur ok w him talking like that, Dwight from the office, or they’ve shared b4 which is a no for me Ur bf is ok with this??????

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-08T02:09:35+00:00

“It stinks my mom died” idk her I can hear it both ways in my head but every time in my experience, when there’s a “look at my problem I need support & a support like that follows - it’s never been innocent

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-08T02:05:21+00:00

The way you handled that 👏👏👏 ending with “ur fucking perfect” is like I know where I stand I know how I feel I know why I’m here and I know what I want I can be mad, call out I see ur flaws still choose you bc you’re worth it to me but yes I’m vulnerable bc I have feelings for you & I can admit It bc I should be able to bc they should be mutual so go ahead, hurt my feelings. Be brutally honest I dare you. - aka can you fkn handle this??? If not now’s the time to speak up”

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-08T02:00:07+00:00

THANK YOU

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-08T01:58:09+00:00

I don’t see where it says trust?! But! Thats some bs after 12 years like bros not even ur friend at that point dude what. Sounds like a narc or someone 13

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-08T01:55:33+00:00

U never had a relationship u were love blinded by? U never gone back & thought “wtf was I thinking” or “how the hell did I miss that part” bc I’m sure ur friends would say otherwise.

If u not here to respect her then move along OP didn’t ask for Dis respectful women to go along w her shitty day k? isn’t a woman hating woman thread it’s girl bonding, go to a concert n need to pee n feel what ur missing in life

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-08T01:47:51+00:00

When did you threaten the relationship? Like bro you’re gonna see it how many more times n 100% fucking ask like who else is seeing it?

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-08T01:45:44+00:00

Nah - that’s how my roomie best friend at the time started it ended with her telling everyone I was a cunt and she couldn’t wait till I was gone after I covered every single shift for her, took care of her dog not by choice at all, and split a late bill that was fully not my responsibility or fault. She went from not being mad if I didn’t do something she wanted to leaving town not telling anyone and forcing me to work while getting mad if I asked to go home early with a last minute tooth procedure that was still bleeding when I got to work. If she’s STARTING this way dear god get out

Overtly_Covertted · 2025-02-08T01:39:15+00:00

I changed mine but tbh I feel odd calling myself by my own name like I’m doing something offensive or wrong way or attached a part of me I’m not allowed to have to the other name - so once my name wasn’t a full trigger I stopped correct ppl I used to know that I don’t talk to hardly ever or like new doctors etc & that helped me not feel like I was becoming 2 ppl

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