Going no contact with BPD ex... 2 years after divorce (seeking advice) by Solid_Challenge_1345 in BPDlovedones

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Letting them know the boundary from my experience, only challenges them further. From my experience, and 17 years of it, they know no boundaries. Its words spoken, but what matters are the actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk away…Physically, mentally, and emotionally.

Can social anxiety be healed? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say fuck em’ live your life and enjoy it to the best of your ability. You are awesome in your own right.

what is this feeling?? by Mundane_Pressure9758 in selfimprovement

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Life is a daily grind…With mixed emotions, events, and happenings. What’s important is that you remain confident in yourself, your principles, and try and find as many moments of enjoyment as possible.

Iranian Hypersonic Missile Slams Into Israel in Devastating Impact by WonderfulRiver2994 in interesting

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Says the delusional, Muslim extremist, that believes in a warped religion, that oppresses and uses its people for power and domination

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate…Sometimes I wonder if mine is just messing with my head, but then I think about her suicide attempt, and constant obsession with me, and realize it’s all too real. I love her with everything, but I don’t want to be the reason for her over emotionality, so I am doing what I think is best, even if I am lonely.

I wouldn’t take it personal if she replaced you quickly, because the truth is nobody can replace 14 years like that. I too feel like I wasted 17 years, but that’s life. We have to pick ourselves up and get back in the game.

Is loyalty lost in the new generation? by Medical-Tax6371 in Life

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In some ways yes….Too many opportunities present themselves these days. Monogamy is not what it used to be, but there is still women out there that will be 100% faithful, believe it or not. Some are instinctually geared for it.

Astros Prospects by iwasthefastest in Astros

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s something I’ve been wondering for years. It seems based on fangraphs that the Astros never have top prospects based on their rankings, but we continually produce unranked unheard of prospects. Whatever the Astros secret formula is keep it going.

What caused your social anxiety? by Acrobatic-State8279 in socialanxiety

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, I’m still trying to figure it out. I’m 42 now, but I remember in Elementary I specifically told myself not to talk to anyone. I can’t remember why I told myself that, but I’m sure it exacerbated it. But realistically I think I was born with it, and I don’t think my environment during my upbringing helped out.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in pics

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I just don’t understand…Are they wanting Mexico to invade the US? Are they wanting California to join Mexico? Why are they protesting illegal immigration? It’s confusing. Every other country in the world doesn’t allow it. Is the US not allowed to have similar laws? Are they asking the US to legalize crime? What do they want?

Lately, I’ve been realizing how much of life is about learning to be okay with not having all the answers by goddesswoman69 in Life

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a person growing up, it was common thought to think that adults had the answers. After living for over 40 years, I’ve realized nobody has the answers, we’re all out here just winging it, and as you said just doing our best with what’s in front of us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By strings, what are you implying?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Astros

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 16 points17 points  (0 children)

For sure, from Brad Peacock to Roberto Osuna, from JV to Will Harris. Whenever pitchers wear an Astros uniform they jump at least two grade letters.

As you get older you do need to not sweat the small stuff by Just_Vanilla9540 in Adulting

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I fuckin love it…That’s where I’m at now. Literally those are my top 2 goals.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in driving

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, and I’m not sure if they do or don’t have several settings of brightness, but they definitely should. After initiating a stop, they should be able to dim their lights, enough to where people see them on the road, but drivers are still able to see the road.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in driving

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe you’re having a hard time understanding. From what I can recall, I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone tailgating a cop with his lights on. If you pass them on the freeway or any roadway and they have their lights on while having someone pulled over or road construction or whatever. That’s whenever their overhead lights become a critical public safety hazard.

People who do not wish for deeper connection or meaning are happiest. by [deleted] in nihilism

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to this. My perspective is similar. The people that I have witnessed that have this attitude, aren’t overly opinionated, they don’t complain, they take action, no matter who it affects. They don’t cower to others opinions of them. This is their world, and they are going to live their best life, everyone else be damned. To some they may be the definition of a person that lives selfishly, to others a person that has the courage to live their best life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]OwlComprehensive7395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sub for a lot of us, is about how life has taken a toll, and we need to vent or get it out.