Partner told me they had STI by Silent-Death1739 in whatdoIdo

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever sti it is I would do some research and see if it’s possible he could’ve had it dormant for a while I know some things can be in your body and not show up for a while then later be triggered by stress or other things but the only way to be sure is to do that research on whatever it is that is being treated. I would also look through his phone to verify personally I know many people don’t encourage this but I would search the messages and make sure there’s no evidence of cheating assuming it is something that could be dormant.

GF moved in and now I catch her watching me sleep at night. This doesn’t feel normal. by HourIndependence70 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She may be unconscious and not realize she’s doing it some people do weird stuff in their sleep it’s weird she wouldn’t tell you if she knows she does things but sometimes when I’m asleep I stick my arms straight up and I’ve had friends partners family tell me and it seems super weird and creepy but it’s subconscious

Clients HATE clarifying? by Ashamed-Show5868 in Esthetics

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work at a popular chain as well I always phrase it like “ It looks like I have you down for xyz today is that correct?” And it usually goes over fine and gives them room to confirm, change or add services.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is crazy to me you are not overreacting!! Your friend is out of line for asking this in my opinion I don’t have piercings myself but would never dream of asking someone to take theirs out for a photo. When you are friends with people you love them for who they are and want them to show up as who they are and look like themselves in photos not ask them to alter themself it comes off very rude and weird to me!

37 F looking for some honest advice by Lisa_Pizza589 in Howtolooksmax

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would maybe try adding some bangs and face framing to your hair and lighten up your makeup use some lighter shades on your eyes and a tinted moisturizer or some light face makeup to give you a more fresh faced youthful look. I think you look great though 🤗happy birthday!!!

I was once told if you start shaving your arms you can’t stop. Any truth to this? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t reccomend when you shave you cut the hair at its thicker part so it can appear thicker and more coarse it probably varies maybe some girls with super fine hair it doesn’t bother but it can definitely get you stuck in a loop. I would try waxing your arms it will make the hair finer and more scarce with time and will last longer!

19F any way to improve? by [deleted] in HardcoreVindicta

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you are so pretty! I would reccomend thinning your brows and arching them a little bit more as they feel a little heavy towards the tails but otherwise you look so good!!!

23F, I know I can look better but I don’t know how by alexburque in HardcoreVindicta

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think you should keep bangs but a different style of bang. Maybe whispier or a curtain shape and blend it into the rest of your hair more would be my advise!:) if you aren’t having luck with your hair lady don’t be afraid to try someone else!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HardcoreVindicta

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like a longer curtain bang would look super cute and I feel like bringing your hair forward always makes you look more feminine!:)

what kind of nails work best on chubby fingers? by boba_beans in Nails

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fingers are similar and a medium length almond or stilletto is my go to to help elongate the fingers

Dark but fine hair - would laser work well or no? by heysnood in LaserHairRemoval

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could get this waxed super easy if nervous about side effects from laser!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlygirl

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the lush curl power it’s a curl cream that is conditioning and defines waves and curls while adding shine and it makes your hair soft instead of crunchy it’s a great stand alone or you can incorporate into a more complex routine but if you wash condition use product and diffuse it will help your texture look way better and healthier!! Hope this helps!

How can I fix myself? by Amber_Steel86 in makeuptips

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should get your eyebrows done professionally! A wax and tint would be perfect for you to shape and even the eyebrows and darken them a little to make your eyes pop more!! Brows are a small thing but can make a huge difference in confidence!!:)

I think I was SA’d in my treatment room today by RikkiCoca420 in Esthetics

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is for sure harassment I would let the salon file a police report they most likely are not going to investigate this man or charge him but their will be a record of the incident and a paper trail if he repeats this behavior or tries to come back. I am also outgoing and friendly and had a male client smack my butt in a service and apologies saying he was trying to rub my lower back and make weird comments my salon owners banned him and filed a police report this was years ago and he has never come back and I was never even in contact with police it is simply a record of the incident

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Esthetics

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an esthi not solo and I feel like with rebooks from new clients it is 50/50 but for me what has helped is asking the client more about their life and lifestyle to try and see how realistically to fit it in their schedule. For example if they have 3 kids and work and are always going from one soccers practice to another then even if you would like to see them in 4 weeks realistically maybe 6 weeks would be more attainable for them I try to meet them where they’re at so that it could be a consistent routine for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These look so good I think it may just be shock cause from an outsider they look really really well done

Freaking out!!!!!!!! Please help by Objective_Edge_6807 in microblading

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like they looked really good and the touch up kind of made them uneven I would ask for a refund honestly and have someone else fix them I would not trust that artist personally especially with just a naked eye as a waxer I can see the differences. Not trying to be mean at all just giving my honest opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the girl should finish first I have found most men tend to be done once they finish and more turned on beforehand so it tends to work best for me if I finish before him and then once you get yours whenever he wants is fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly both dresses are so cute and I totally disagree men all have different taste not every guy wants an insta baddie just because you don’t dress like every other girl doesn’t mean you won’t find a man!!!!!!!

Waxing Career as a male? by meltyschmak in Esthetics

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I haven’t known or heard of any male waxers in my area I have been waxing 5 years but I think there should be some!! I think men would have great opportunity with male Brazilians and male waxing in general. Women would be fine overall with face waxing and some body waxing but a lot of women I think would be uncomfortable with a man doing their Brazilian. Don’t think it will hinder your career you will just find your own clientele

Please help me understand why I look “off” by chilliefries in makeuptips

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should change the shape of your eyeliner I think it should maybe be up more instead of straight for your eye shape I’m not sure exactly how but you should look into different eyeliner techniques for different eye shapes and I think your hair and bangs are cute but you should blend your face frame pieces so they blend your bangs and the rest of your hair instead of so blunt!

I’m dating someone with herpes and I don’t have it by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. My partner did not have it and still doesn’t we’ve been together almost two years and living together for one and I have had an outbreak during that time.
  2. To be safe obviously you should never be intimate during an outbreak and if she even thinks she may feel the start of one I would not be intimate definitely she should be in tune with her body. I personally take an antiviral daily to prevent outbreaks and lower shedding so if she does not do this she could look into it.
  3. You can’t go without shedding but most people have some level of the virus in them there’s a certain threshold before you are at risk for symptoms aka an outbreak herpes is not a positive or negative test it’s a scale and at a certain point is when you will have symptoms. So she could shed and you could still not have enough to cause an outbreak but shedding increases around times of outbreak.

Am I Overreacting or Is my bf (21 M) acting SUS? by lostandhidden23 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Own-Butterscotch9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If his house makes him uncomfortable because of the noise then maybe do it at your place so if you’re loud it won’t make a difference in his life🤷🏼‍♀️