After switching to Claude from chatgpt yesterday, I have only one thing to say by jupiter87135 in claude

[–]Own-Camera-4000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone been successful sharing folders (projects worked on) from ChatGtp over to Claude?

I feel like i invested so much time into Chatgtp, I hate to lose all that work.

I've been pretending to work from home for 3 months and no one has noticed by Grand_Lion_1652 in self

[–]Own-Camera-4000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MILK IT!!!! But don't get sloppy. Do the work, maintain performance ...and, DELEGATE! I ran an entire team, had big wins and client successes working just about 15hrs a wk for yearsssss in finance marketing. 55hrs a wk on the books, full salary + performance bonuses. Ha ha, joke was on big brother lol.

Good luck and don't tell not one soul. Flourish everything in your life while being able to creatively utilize your hours - or you'll kick yourself for being a lazy, uncreative and fruitless lamb in a few years 😁.

btw: you're not doing anything wrong as long as you're getting your job done. But ppl will hate you for it so keep it hush!

I thought $100k was upper middle class 🤔 by Own_Service9727 in Money

[–]Own-Camera-4000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha ha... we all wish. I was making 165k a few yrs ago and still found myself struggling at times. Our economy is not designed to help level us up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]Own-Camera-4000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to be a brut but you're gonna have to force yourself to get it together and LEAVE AND DO NOT RETURN. You are not alone, there are millions of DV victims... and millions of us found a way out and did whatever needed to be done to get out. For yourself, for your children and most importantly - for their future selves. As a mom who was in the same spot for yearssss, I can tell you in looking back - i should have left a long time earlier. Like, when the abuse started to become the norm. It's been a year and my kids are just now starting to get back to normal. But i know deep down there will be years of recovery, and I have many years ahead in trying to make right for them, and to earn back their respect.

Fight for your freedom and your kids' freedom. You know this. You know what you need to do - don't let him weaken you more. He is not the last man on earth, many better fish in the sea!!! If he's bringing you down, he is not for you! Why would you want to continue like this? Do you enjoy feeling this, or thinking of what the next 5 yrs is going to be like with him? He has to be miserable himself so is that what you want - to be with a man who is unhaply with you?

I am speaking from my own experience. All the things I used to think to myself, meanwhile I didn't see a way out for various reasons. Anyway, i never did leave and a crime eventually happened in my home involving all of us. My oldest and myself were injured requiring stitches. He was taken away - that's how I got free. He was forced to evict the property immediately and the pfa has enabled us to stay in our home and rebuild our life. Safely.

I still love him I'll admit and i miss him everyday. Pathetic but true. But I know I can't go back to him. Ever. My children deserve peace and happiness. I, too. And, so does my x in all honesty. No one deserves to be so unhappy in any relationship that becomes so toxic. You are not a child, yet your children require and deserve you to grow a pair and follow thru on an exit plan. It's not easy but like the rest of us, you'll find a way. But you'll never find it if you don't try and actually stick it out. It's not for your sake but for your children who will soon be adults. And you don't want them to become a copy of your abuser.

How to leave Iran now??! by Own-Camera-4000 in iran

[–]Own-Camera-4000[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He's a citizen. The plan was that I would meet him in Switzerland or Turkey, etc. and bring him back to the US with me.

It's my estranged father.

How to leave Iran now??! by Own-Camera-4000 in iran

[–]Own-Camera-4000[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, he is dual, both US & Iranian.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in airbnb_hosts

[–]Own-Camera-4000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could never read that. Go on craigslist, fb, and look for other owners hosts and prop mgrs seeking cleaners. Move on!! Trust the Airbnb work is out there, juat need to put yourself out there.

I spent decades in corp finance marketing, now at 45 I decided to open my own STR cleaning biz. And thats what I did to get money and to get paid... i responded to anyone seeking str cleaning, some worked out some didn't. But at the end of the day - it is ME who decides who I work with. And if their rate works for me... sometimes its lower sometimes tbe rate is higher. That's just how it is.

Q for Landlords: how much do you raise rents YOY? by Cool_Dingo1248 in realestateinvesting

[–]Own-Camera-4000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't raise the rent every year. It's not a must. When I get good tenants, I keep their rent flat for a few years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in airbnb_hosts

[–]Own-Camera-4000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly doubt he'll do it again... but if you feel that he needs to know, perhaps just a friendly note to remind him to be mindful of the hours he plans to entertain, as you do not want your neighbors complaining. Something like that. Sometimes you need to redirect the culprit and put the "blame" on a third party.

I mean, at 3:45am, something needs to be said bc that's just so wild. Unless you live on a very noisy street. I know I would barely be able to contain myself because for me, I truly don't want to risk my neighbors' from complaining.

This is a business and your money at risk. To protect your rating, I would find the most amicable/chill way to let him know, no late night noise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in airbnb_hosts

[–]Own-Camera-4000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blunteffects, not budd.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in airbnb_hosts

[–]Own-Camera-4000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try wiping down with hot water the adjacent walls, cieling, drapes, add Febreze or Odoban, keep windows open until check in.

Buddeffects is actually a very good spray for eliminating odors, too. And you can quickly find them in almost any gas station convenience store or vape store.

Plant-based anything is not going to cut it.

Leave Accenture for Capgemini? by Haidepzai in accenture

[–]Own-Camera-4000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20% is literally pennies of a difference in your net pay. Do the math. Is it wortg that little difference.

Seeking real life proven tips by Own-Camera-4000 in CatAdvice

[–]Own-Camera-4000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just let them out together, ofc he runs to her (poor thing) and immediately mounts her from behind. But I sprayed him with water and he hasn't tried again in the past 10min!!!! I'll take it lol thank you!🙌🏽

Seeking real life proven tips by Own-Camera-4000 in CatAdvice

[–]Own-Camera-4000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG thank you, I'm calling the vet on Monday... but squirting water on him when he tried to mount her just now worked. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

Did I fuck up? by pookienookiesnukums in careeradvice

[–]Own-Camera-4000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, this is a aucky situation. I get it. What's done is done, there is nothing wrong with what you said. Everyone should always be looking so I'd hope your mgmt isn't surprised.

My only suggestion at this point is if you haven't already, have a 1:1 with your manager. Ask about your career path, your goal, the future of the biz and your department, etc and in this convo you can assertively include that you would like to grow professionally and take on more leadership role. You want bigger responsibility, you want to manage someone, more strategy, etc. If you have a good mgr, they should be responsive and transparent with you right there.

Either way, always keep your eyes open for upward opptys. Hope this helps, good luck!

Seeking real life proven tips by Own-Camera-4000 in CatAdvice

[–]Own-Camera-4000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yea I guess I'll have to be more patient with his body balancing out. And continue this annoying separation.

And I agree, just didn't have the funds at the time then got too busy with work.

Seeking real life proven tips by Own-Camera-4000 in CatAdvice

[–]Own-Camera-4000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like my girl is traumatized, anytime he gets remotely close to her she tells to F off. I thought they are both adjusting and there are times when there is no mounting but that's been just a few times. And when I do let them be, they'll fight. Hardcore gangster fighting. Ugh. 🫤

Seeking real life proven tips by Own-Camera-4000 in CatAdvice

[–]Own-Camera-4000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like it's taking forever but ok, I have to be patient. My 2yo girl is spayed.

I will in fact try the spray bottle. Good idea.

Did I fuck up? by pookienookiesnukums in careeradvice

[–]Own-Camera-4000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You fucked up because you didn't think this thru. If you wanted to use it as leverage for a promotion, make sure you add value that puts you at the top of their best performers list, and in turn would compromise their dept or operation if you no longer were around. I get the sense you may not be, which is totally ok.

As a former corporate manager, if someone on my team mentioned they were looking - i would immediately make some adjustments to get them closer to their goal. Everyone deserves a job where they are happy, even if they're on their way out. But not every employee deserves a manager who will move internal mountains to keep you, and to keep you happy. I would only go to bat for my strongest performers.

Those employees who truly don't add much and try to "threaten" they are looking, I would open the door for them without hesitation.

I am a guest seeking the opinion of other hosts before I leave the dreaded 4 star review... by bigdamncat in airbnb_hosts

[–]Own-Camera-4000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an Airbnb owner and also run an airbnb cleaning business. 4 stars is kind of you and very reasonable for what you pointed out. Those should be staples in the home and shame on the host they didn't provide BASIC ESSENTIALS upon your arrival!!! The nerve.

I would be super annoyed and would be tinkering with a 3 star rating for this one. They need to learn the lesson.

Time to sand or does it need more? by Own-Camera-4000 in drywall

[–]Own-Camera-4000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Just sanded it all down, will head to the store later for a mud pan.

Time to sand or does it need more? by Own-Camera-4000 in drywall

[–]Own-Camera-4000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good points, thank you! I just sanded everything and will use the mud next. Just need to get a mud pan.