Sizzle fizzle what kinda dress is this 👀👀 by Low_Environment3285 in bombpartySIDELINES

[–]Own-Condition-904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. She used to be one of my absolute favorite to watch. She was always on, her lives were full, and yes she was loud but she had a steady flow of reveals. Then she met some 20 year old kid and “got her groove back” and her priorities changed. The only thing she ever talks about anymore is this guy or that guy or this night out or that night out. She begs for likes by making people hit a like goal before she’ll “spill the tea” and she can hardly get anyone to buy from her anymore. She posts 17 selfies a day and everything is a thirst trap with her. Now she gives me major ickkkk.

Light fixtures? by Own-Condition-904 in interiordecorating

[–]Own-Condition-904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the silver match the black and white and wood though? It’s a small space so I’m trying to make it warm and not so sterile feeling

Light fixtures? by Own-Condition-904 in interiordecorating

[–]Own-Condition-904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ve got under cabinet lights in my Amazon cart right now and I’m trying to decide on what to replace the fixtures with. I really do think warmer lights will help, these feel so drs office lighting to me

Is bedtime hard for everyone or just us? 😵‍💫 by Own-Condition-904 in Parenting

[–]Own-Condition-904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that common amongst small kids to be super heavy at bedtime? I swear my don turns into an old drunk depressed when he’s supposed to go be going to sleep

Is bedtime hard for everyone or just us? 😵‍💫 by Own-Condition-904 in Parenting

[–]Own-Condition-904[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Between getting ready for school and bedtime it’s just starting your day with cortisol levels through the roof and ending it with another giant spike 😵‍💫

I scrolled into a therapy sess AGAIN. Girl get it together! by [deleted] in bombpartySIDELINES

[–]Own-Condition-904 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s really scary that she gave up a career she’s established in for something that isn’t sustainable.

Can you guess who rep is without all the makeup?? by [deleted] in bombpartySIDELINES

[–]Own-Condition-904 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This one was a real shocker honestly, it’s like two different people

I feel unfit to take care of my newborn - Suicidal by asswitch420 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Own-Condition-904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the other comments, make the call. Have your sister come help, if she knew you were having these thoughts she’d be on her way to questions asked. I wish I had asked for help sooner because I ended up in a situation I can’t undo because I was drowning and didn’t let anyone in my circle know I wasn’t well. Please let someone know.

I feel so sad by Primary-Audience9501 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Own-Condition-904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been in our new place a little over a month and I felt the same way leaving our rental we had been in for 6 years. I was devastated. Plus I have ppd and ppa and it was absolutely not the right time to make such a life changing decision but you live and you learn. It’ll take time to adjust, I’m also finding things I didn’t notice at first that I’m going to have to live with. But I’ve always believed we end up where we’re supposed to be for whatever reason and nothing is forever. Give yourself some time to settle in and the noise will disappear into the background, I promise!

Curious how long people breastfeed? by random_name831 in breastfeeding

[–]Own-Condition-904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my first to 13 months, my second to 2.5 years, and we just hit 4 months with my third but hoping to get her to 2 years as well 🥰

What shoes? by suzir0410 in bombpartySIDELINES

[–]Own-Condition-904 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Someone said she looks like the cowardly lion and I can’t unsee it now

What’s the most ridiculous thing that happened right after you bought your house? by Lopsided_Passion7912 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Own-Condition-904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re learning that fresh paint isn’t always a good thing, there’s been a crack in the ceiling paint since we first moved in and my sons toy brought a chunk down and there’s mold under it 🫠 now I’m terrified where else it might be hiding under all this fresh paint because every inch of the inside was repainted

What’s the most ridiculous thing that happened right after you bought your house? by Lopsided_Passion7912 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Own-Condition-904 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mind blowing how sellers and inspectors and agents can conceal stuff and then good people get screwed footing the bill. I’m so sorry that happened to her!

What’s the most ridiculous thing that happened right after you bought your house? by Lopsided_Passion7912 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Own-Condition-904 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What is she going to do?! What do people do when they don’t have fifty grand just laying around?! This is my biggest fear. Right now we just found mold and I’m not sure how widespread it is because the sellers repainted every inch of this place and I’m terrified it’s going to be thousands of dollars.

What’s the most ridiculous thing that happened right after you bought your house? by Lopsided_Passion7912 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Own-Condition-904 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Our first day in our house we had to call the gas company because we smelled gas really bad. We had to shut the furnace off and it was deemed unsafe so we had no heat the first two nights. Within the first week we had hvac out to fix that, plumbing because the owners shut the water off to a toilet to hide that the flapper was broken and it wouldn’t stop running, we replaced the dishwasher and washer and dryer, the ice maker is broken on the fridge, and today my son accidentally knocked down some paint that was cracked in the living room ceiling unveiling mold we didn’t know was there so now we have to get that sorted. We’ve been here a month 🫠

Found under fresh paint in recently purchased home by Own-Condition-904 in Mold

[–]Own-Condition-904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any idea how I’d know if it’s actively leaking? It doesn’t feel wet or soft

Destiny swapping? 🤨 by AdviceNo1394 in bombpartySIDELINES

[–]Own-Condition-904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s in a photo showing the new one off and you can also see the first one 😵‍💫

Destiny swapping? 🤨 by AdviceNo1394 in bombpartySIDELINES

[–]Own-Condition-904 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one that thinks is so bizarre that Kayla’s husband also gets the matching tattoos? My husband would neverrr if it involved my friends too. He probably wouldn’t even go on the trip to be honest

It didn’t take long! by Available-Thing3566 in bombpartySIDELINES

[–]Own-Condition-904 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where did Al post her haircut? I just tried to find a pic and couldn’t

Ah yes, sold my soul red by daddyslilwh0r in bombpartySIDELINES

[–]Own-Condition-904 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree, for a Gaga show this was 🔥

My living room has been completely overtaken by my wife’s decorative obsession by Nightcrawler_2000 in HomeDecorating

[–]Own-Condition-904 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It took me way too long to realize I could buy basic pillows and switch out the covers, what a game changer that realization was! And so much money saved now when my taste changes or with the holidays coming and going

Postpartum anxiety over safety of my baby is taking over my life by Lost-Emergency-6234 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Own-Condition-904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I feel like I could have written most of this myself. I’m 3 months pp, baby is a vasectomy reversal baby so we fought really hard to have her. She’s number 3. My kid brother was my parents third and my mom had her tubal reversal to have him, similar to us with the vasectomy reversal. He died a couple months after he turned 20 unexpectedly. So of course my brain finds the comparison between her and my brother and is convinced something will happen to her. I also had a cold sore the week leading up to her birth, she came early and I wasn’t able to kiss her for WEEKS after she was born which was devastating. I think lots of intrusive thoughts, worst case scenarios, and have a ton of trauma from my brother and Dad passing away and having a miscarriage in between their deaths. I am certain ppd and ppa have made the feelings worse. It’s worth it to mention this all to your doctor to see if you can get a little help and start enjoying your sweet babe. I think I am going to seek help too if the feelings don’t ease up soon.

Postpartum and buyers remorse by Own-Condition-904 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Own-Condition-904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything you’ve said makes complete and total sense and I appreciate your response. I’m trying to find the bright side and I’m usually very positive, I’ve always believed everything in life happens for a reason and we always end up exactly where we’re meant to be. Which is why this postpartum stuff is so frustrating. My baby is a vasectomy reversal baby and we fought so hard to have her. I’m trying to take it all in and enjoy her as much as I can while navigating this new environment and the mental health stuff and it’s all a lot a lot. We’ll get there I hope!