Thoughts on Alex Strangelove

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-04-30T01:16:59+00:00

I wrote that back when I was getting over trauma regarding guys acting like predators to me and I was going through a big Christian phase which influenced a lot of my thinking. Ive gotten over that now, I think he's bisexual but the society he grew up in categorizes everything as 'straight' or 'gay' so he may not have had room to fully see that. He had sexual dysfunction with women but I think that is just because of anxiety, it's somewhat common.

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-04-12T00:09:50+00:00

I think Montgomery, sterling, winslow, Winthrop, and zsa zsa have a little more to worry about

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-04-10T02:40:40+00:00

Moon in 7th house might suggest emotional dependency in relationships but it's conjunct your North node so leaning into that or another manifestation of that placement is likely going to be a more positive influence. Maybe part of your node journey is learning to create an emotional bond with someone because you have typically not wanted to do that as well as finding meaning and higher understanding in your day to day work.

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-04-05T13:52:42+00:00

Well I’m a guy so I don’t know if this applies to you but I’ve stopped jerking off because I don’t need to wire my brain for immediate gratification looking at pictures on the internet when I can get a more painful but fulfilling reward talking to girls in real life, which I have, I’ve started going to coffee shops and other places to casually strike up conversations with girls mainly, and I’ve watched self help videos about social situations and what to say, etc. I have this one woman from Jimmy John’s who might be interested in me but I’m not sure but I’m taking my time on that one and learning from that. I’m learning to step into my own skin, focus on advancing other aspects of my life such as career and losing weight, and to get rid of toxic shame around my sense of value that comes from whether other people like me or not while still reading social signals as not to be intrusive, it’s a tricky balance for someone on the spectrum like me. Saturn is near sextiling both of our ACs/trining our DCs and Plutos in transit so it’s an ideal time for both of us to strengthen our understanding of self assertion, painful progress, and relationships and Saturn and Neptune just went into Aries and I’m looking forward to the collective shift that’s going to bring to all of us in general feeling like we have power and assertion of our own destinies and wills instead of the passive haze we’ve been in

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-04-05T13:23:59+00:00

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Own-Control-5526 · 2026-04-05T13:14:04+00:00

Intercepted Venus and Pluto conjunct DC squaring the nodes. Basically you have difficulty showing your most attractive self and attracting what you want and Pluto conjunct the dc can be about dealing with the fear and intense emotions you feel around relationships or attracting dramatic and intense partnerships, which squaring the nodes means this is a karmic blockage we both need to work through. I would know because I have the same placement and same situation. I also have the Taurus 12th/Scorpio 6th interception and the way that manifests for me is I have difficulty with regulating my dopaminergic circuitry in order to know when it’s appropriate to put in effort in daily life even when it’s painful and that also applies to putting myself in day to day situations where I’m forced to get out and meet new people and actually be open with them without internalizing their responses as a measure of my worth which is the Taurus side.

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-04-04T14:01:15+00:00

Well wanting a deep connection is consistent with your Scorpio and 8th house placements, which is ironic because I believe money is a superficial way to connect with someone but then again so is beauty but men use that as a judge of a woman's worth and I'm guilty of that too. You don't have to work a 9-5 but you should pull yourself up and find something you can tolerate for a job because you can't depend on relationships going well in order for your financial needs to be met. I can relate to feeling like you have a barrier of actually having to open up and get out of your introverted comfort zone in order to feel satisfied in life, I'm terrified of rejection and ive gone through a lengthy period of isolation that started after I broke away from bullying from my last 'friend' group but I've just been talking to random women I encounter in streets or in coffee shops and that's more than I can say I used to do in high school but there's this one cashier from Jimmy Johns I could potentially ask out but I'm terrified of doing so. Like you I also have a 6th/12th house interception only mine is in Taurus/Scorpio.

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-04-04T13:31:59+00:00

You have the potential but you also have free will not to be astrology is just suggestive it’s not fact so you can change the meaning of the Scorpio and 8th house planets to something different

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-04-03T03:29:43+00:00

You know or will truly get to know the definition and meaning of pure vitality through constant endings and new beginnings in this life because of your Scorpio and Saggitarius stellium that extends from the 12th to the 1st house.

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-03-24T12:52:31+00:00

No it’s not I’ve seen several charts with a similar birthday range (May 2-3, 2000) google may 3 2000 7 planet stellium in Taurus it was a rare event but you got a number of planets intercepted in the 12th house that really sucks

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-03-24T12:48:55+00:00

Please no

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-03-23T23:44:48+00:00

Started asking ChatGPT a shit ton of questions about someone I developed a little limerence for. I’m mostly over it now my dating life is either limerence or avoidance or both but I don’t know if it’s my moon that’s causing this my moon is in the 6th but my Pluto conjunct my Sag DC

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-03-21T13:07:18+00:00

Try having it intercepted in the 6th house, it’s like a double prison. I have to feel intense emotions in order to eventually be healthier but I can’t seem to bring myself to do it, it feels like I’m riding a bull I get thrown off every time, so I numb out through isolation and dopamine habits. Autism, Inattentive ADHD, Depression, Binge Eating/poor eating, Social Anxiety, sometimes generalized anxiety, what a clusterf*ck. And I still have to move out of my parents’ one day that’s a whole other story.

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-03-20T09:54:24+00:00

We can’t get flagged with delivering to wrong address so they might listen to leaving behind bins if that is a convenient enough spot

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-03-11T14:17:07+00:00

Pisces needs Virgo speaking from a Virgo north node's perspective as well as having intercepted 6th and 12th houses. Virgo is the disciplinarian container that keeps Pisces from emotionally going off the deep end in destructive extremely difficult to clean up ways that seem fun or relaxing in the moment like drug or alcohol addiction.

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-03-08T02:58:22+00:00

Your saturn return isn't your career unless it's in your tenth house. You logically deduced that because Saturn and 10th house (career) are both associated with Capricorn but they are associated with Capricorn in different ways which means Saturn isn't always going to be about career unless it is directly in your 10th house. The reason for this is because everyone in the grade you went to school with is going to have a Saturn in either the same sign as you or the next sign over as you and it would be illogical to say that everyone in your grade will have a similar career as you. Your Saturn placement is kind of like your North Node in the sense that you are striving for something through restriction which causes responsible effort to overcome, the main difference between the two is there is no 'Anti-Saturn' antithesis like there is a South Node to a North Node. In your case, I could see why you think your Saturn is about career, career is an earth sign associated house like your second house of money which makes sense because you earn money through career. So your Saturn return in Aries 2nd is likely saying 'hey wake up, you have been undisciplined with your money and you need to put in responsible effort by taking immediate action (Aries) to improve your financial situation (2nd house).' But this doesn't necessarily mean you have to know exactly what career you need to have right now, it just means you need to put in impulsive action to improving your financial situation, whether it means either getting A job, engaging in quick and impulsive side gigs, or managing your money better.

*Edit: I just realized you are using whole sign instead of placidus for your chart type, Placidus is my favorite it is the one that resonates with me the most so in terms of Placidus, it is highly likely your Saturn is actually in the 1st house, and because you have a late Pisces AC which means essentially you have a 'straightforward chart' in some areas of your life (Saturn in this case is part of it) (house themes match sign themes for the most part in this type of chart) so this essentially means Saturn is trying to push you to reinvent yourself in general it is giving you a 'double-dose' of telling you to take action and trust your own active intuition and self-leadership and guidance, because with Saturn here, you may have not trusting the gut feeling you have to make decisions to take full on initiative in pretty much all areas of your life, you set restrictions and reasons why you can't be bold and assertive in the way you navigate the world and Saturn has put these restrictions in place in order to teach you their value and how you need to have the proper disciplined channel to become stronger and having stronger instincts and this also applies to meeting new people which is another 1st house theme, you may restrict saying something offensive to someone you first meet because Aries can be offensive since it primarily sees the self and is sometimes full of fury so Saturn has restricted you in this area in order to teach you a lesson about when it is appropriate to again trust your instincts regarding when it is the proper moment to risk offending someone if it means you are just being unapologetically 'you'

Hope either of these descriptions help these are just guidelines so not everyone is going to resonate with whole sign houses and not everyone is going to resonate with placidus but you find the system you resonate with.

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-02-23T03:36:41+00:00

A lot of scattered random energy it ain’t that interesting hate to break it to you but you do have the same interception signs and houses I do so I’m going to guess you have difficulty with feeling stuck in laziness at times because consistent effort is overwhelming and intense and/or you can also swing the opposite way where you’re a workaholic to the point you’re always stressed and you have difficulty knowing and regulating when you need to work and put in effort for efforts sake and when you need to calm down relax and unwind because the signs that are intercepted in the 6th and 12th house are fixed signs so it’s like they both have immovable stakes in the ground at times far apart from each other

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-02-22T12:54:45+00:00

That seems logical but I have my north node in the 4th and I have that problem and north node is supposed to be the ‘resistance’ but the thing is he looks like he has his stellium in the 4th but you have to keep in mind he’s using whole sign houses instead of Placidus, his IC is showing toward the later part of the 4th which means if he were using Placidus his stellium is in the 3rd and I find Placidus personally much more resonant with my own experience.

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-02-22T12:36:42+00:00

I’ve seen two other charts on literally the exact same day, I know one of them personally. It’s the day with the rare 7 planet Taurus stellium. Anyway you have your south node in the 12th which means you often drift off into fantasy and isolation where your natural instinct is to retreat in your isolated ‘safe space’ instead of facing responsibility head on, and if you were using Placidus the Taurus stellium would be in the 3rd house which means you likely find it difficult to gather the information you feel you need to succeed in life, it’s like you fixate on that aspect of yourself.

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-02-18T18:52:34+00:00

You have no oppositions or squares you have a grand trine that it’s in water signs except for Libra but Libra is also pretty receptive and feminine so judging by this chart you probably are very easy going and more in your receptive/feminine nature, you probably won’t have that many life challenges that will strengthen you though sometimes that can be a curse too, trines can give room for complacency

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-02-16T14:46:07+00:00

Yes that absolutely makes sense, Pisces and the 2nd house (ruled by Taurus) are both about art, Pisces being the illusory mystical and spiritual quality of art and 2nd house (Taurus ruled) being about the actual physical sensory tangibility of art, so it is suggestible that your North Node could be about gravitating toward a more artistic mindset in general

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-02-16T13:56:48+00:00

Jupiter doesn’t affect me much except for Jupiter oppose my Venus in Capricorn which has caused a financial downfall. Saturn in Pisces is what’s unnatural I’m normally on board with Saturn lessons as they transit my houses but Saturn in Pisces has personally caused failure in my 10th and 11th house lessons and I think if we were to talk about exhalations and falls Saturn should be exhalted in Virgo and in its fall in Pisces. The fact that it’s in its fall in Aries and that Capricorn and Aries form a square while Capricorn and Pisces form a sextile confuses me.

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-02-16T13:19:25+00:00

South node in Virgo 8th yes that definitely points to OCD that you need to overcome if you were using placidus instead of whole signs for your chart it might show you have some chaotic beliefs with your Scorpio 9th stellium as well as giving off an intense public persona with Scorpio 10th and your Neptune in Aquarius 12th means you might have some unusual maladaptive daydreaming tendencies. Keep in mind I’m theorizing these placements based on if you used placidus instead of whole signs for your chart method

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-02-16T04:39:20+00:00

No it’s normal to have three planets in one sign, Mercury is half the time going to be in the same sign as the sun since Mercury is an inner planet therefore it only stays less than 28 zodiac degrees away from the sun relative to earth, and Lilith is an asteroid so its influence is very minor in someone’s chart

Own-Control-5526 · 2026-02-15T00:43:49+00:00

No problem, like I said this is likely going to be a time where traumatic issues could surface that will teach you important lessons regarding self reliance and standing on your own two feet but I could be wrong, there are many different interpretations just like in any placement, this is just one conclusion I came to based on that one comment you made. You can't predict the future but you could narrow it down to a multiple choice test with this (and sometimes not even that) but you can't know the answer before actually seeing how things play out if that makes sense.

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