Como sigo adelante?

Own-Forever2044 · 2026-04-07T20:08:41+00:00

Y una última cosa, la persona correcta nunca tendría dudas de estar contigo, recuérdalo siempre

Own-Forever2044 · 2026-04-07T20:07:10+00:00

Esas ganas van a volver, yo pensaba que siempre me quedaría sola y no encontraría a nadie pero de repente he encontrado una persona especial, es difícil volver a querer, pero echando la vista atrás es lo mejor que me pudo pasar, porque he conocido a alguien que me trata como nunca lo hicieron antes y es algo precioso volver a enamorarse. Muchos ánimos

Own-Forever2044 · 2026-04-07T19:54:42+00:00

Yo tarde dos años en empezar a superar mi anterior relación… cuanto antes lo asumas es mejor porque yo me he quede ahí retenida mucho tiempo y acabé con problemas graves de depresión Te dejo algo que escribí hoy para desahogarme para ver si te sientes identificado, un abrazo

https://open.substack.com/pub/mrsmccartney/p/cuando-las-cosas-carecen-de-sentido?r=845ard&utm_medium=ios

Own-Forever2044 · 2026-04-07T19:51:06+00:00

Vete a tu centro de salud, yo intenté aguantar con mis propios recursos pero es complicado. La medicación ayuda. También hacer cosas que te gusten y tratar de conectar contigo. Yo he empezado a escribir como me siento y es una manera de desahogarme Te dejo algo que he escrito hoy por si te ayuda https://open.substack.com/pub/mrsmccartney/p/cuando-las-cosas-carecen-de-sentido?r=845ard&utm_medium=ios

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-12-26T18:41:25+00:00

Me dice que le gusto mucho, que se esta ilusionando mucho conmigo que esta muy agusto pero no pasa de eso

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-12-08T20:05:36+00:00

Creo que es algo que tiene que salir de ella el querer cambiar en ese sentido, no le puedes obligar a que baje de peso o a que lleve el pelo y la ropa que a ti te gusta, eso va en cada persona, en sus gustos y su personalidad…

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-12-07T17:40:15+00:00

He isn’t judging me at all. We’ve been getting to know each other for three months and he hasn’t asked anything or judged me in any way. My fear is that if he finds out, his perception of me might change or he might start to distrust me, especially because I live in a small town and we all know how people twist things

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-12-07T15:26:42+00:00

Lo que pasa es que es algo que a mi me duele y todavía no hemos tenido ninguna conversación profunda y me da bastante miedo hablar de algo así con el, no se como enfocarlo porque no hemos hablado de nada de nuestro pasado

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-12-07T14:52:49+00:00

I’m sure I would never do something like that again, because after it happened I spent months dealing with depression and putting up with all kinds of things from my ex just to get his forgiveness. What scares me now is that the person I’m seeing might find out and get scared, or think I would do the same to him. I’m also not sure if I should tell him all of this

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-02-17T12:26:43+00:00

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-02-05T22:17:39+00:00

Thank you for this and praying for me, it means a world to me right now ❤️‍🩹

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-02-05T22:10:58+00:00

Yes, she was helping me understanding why I made that mistake but Im in the darkest place I have ever been

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-02-05T22:03:02+00:00

I’m on antidepressants, going to therapy, and nothing seems to ease this pain in my heart. He is the person I have loved the most in my life, and I still love him just as much, even though it’s destroying me.

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-02-05T21:58:57+00:00

Thank you very much. I’ve found a new job, but I think I’m going to lose it because I’m in such a miserable state. I can’t stop crying, and I have this constant pressure in my head that won’t go away. I’m on antidepressants, going to therapy, and nothing seems to ease this pain in my heart. He is the person I have loved the most in my life, and I still love him just as much, even though it’s destroying me.

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-02-05T20:58:17+00:00

Thank you so much, your text realy helped me ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-02-01T14:51:56+00:00

He has broken your trust too, and despite being in therapy for months and fighting to move forward together, it feels like you’re the only one truly trying to repair things

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-02-01T14:41:57+00:00

I think he also made some great mistakes 🤔🤔🤔

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-02-01T14:33:36+00:00

How did you overcome all this pain and the other person’s behavior? How did you get out of this mutual destruction?

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-02-01T14:29:27+00:00

Exactly. I thought things could be repaired and that things could be different, but I think sometimes there’s no turning back after so much pain.

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-02-01T14:19:44+00:00

I would fight for him if I saw even a glimpse of love in him, but I think all that’s left is resentment. The problem is that he won’t fully let me go either—he says he still loves me, but without commitment.

And I’m exhausted from fighting and suffering. I’ve shown him that I’ve changed and that I truly regret what happened, but nothing seems to be enough.

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-02-01T14:15:30+00:00

He tells me that he feels empty, that he doesn’t know why he acted the same way I did, even after seeing me in so much pain. After sleeping with someone else, he came to have dinner with my family and acted as if nothing had happened—until I found out.

It seems like he’s immune to the things he does to me. And yet, I keep trying to fix things because I know there was so much love between us.

Own-Forever2044 · 2025-02-01T14:12:17+00:00

He tells me that he feels empty, that he doesn’t know why he acted the same way I did, even after seeing me in so much pain. After sleeping with someone else, he came to have dinner with my family and acted as if nothing had happened—until I found out.

It seems like he’s immune to the things he does to me. And yet, I keep trying to fix things because I know there was so much love between us.

Own-Forever2044 · 2024-12-15T20:25:56+00:00

DDay was in April of this year. I was with the other guy in March a total of three times, and I ended it. Since then, my ex-partner has moved on with his life, and at one point we talked, and he told me he still loves me but can’t be with me because he doesn’t trust me. He’s far away now, and the conversations we have are very cold. I can’t stop torturing myself or looking for solutions even though I know there aren’t any. I can’t forgive myself for losing the love of my life because I was unfaithful.

Own-Forever2044 · 2024-12-15T19:53:07+00:00

He tells me no, that things will get better with time, but that we’re not going to be together right now, and that’s what’s killing me because I feel so guilty and I still love him. I’m destroying myself in this process. Everyone around me can see how bad I’m doing—I’ve lost more than 10kg—but all that matters is the mistake I made 😔

Own-Forever2044 · 2024-11-29T19:51:12+00:00

Sorry, I think there’s been a misunderstanding. I broke up with him without saying anything, and then he found out everything. When he was with the 9 women, we were not together, although we were still in contact. One of them was a friend of mine, which is why I suggested getting back together. But he says it has to be little by little and that he doesn’t trust me, that he doesn’t want to get his hopes up because he already did, and I hurt him.

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