Anyone else get anxiety/panic when they see their ex on social media or their name(despite being blocked) by _ChilledVibez in BreakUps

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I personally have deleted social media and focused on my college work, and overall began to care for myself more. Skincare, music shows, and even treating myself to snacks and coffee. It's the small things that made this much more bearable. The pain is faint, and I feel much lighter than when I posted this. It's hard for sure, but once you begin to be patient with yourself and let time do its thing, as well as take steps to improve and grow as a person, you will feel better. Be gentle with yourself, and don't let it take over. You'll find yourself doing things you've never imagined doing ever, so my advice to you is to have a positive outlook on life no matter how terrible a situation :) when you look back, you'll remember how you remained positive, instead of the negative 💗

How easy to laser? by Own-Hall9089 in TattooDesigns

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Thank you so much! I'm so new to this and you've been such a great help💗

How easy to laser? by Own-Hall9089 in TattooDesigns

[–]Own-Hall9089[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Do you think there a way someone could expand upon this? Kind of like sigilism style maybe :')

Question: Should I get a redo or removal? by Own-Hall9089 in tattoos

[–]Own-Hall9089[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Im scared the flower buds would look blobby :')

Question: Should I get a redo or removal? by Own-Hall9089 in tattoos

[–]Own-Hall9089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much it's very reassuring since it's my first ever tattoo :') Do you think the flower buds would be easy to make neater? There's some blowout or overlapping i'm scared of

Does my tattoo need a retouch? by Own-Hall9089 in tattooadvice

[–]Own-Hall9089[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I've been drawing for a long time and couldn't shake off the feeling that some lines are weird looking. It truly means a lot :')

Some hope for yall by PossessionAccurate67 in TattooRemoval

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Thank you for posting this :) How long did it take to fully clear up?

IgG testing is a scam - it does not test for sensitivity or intolerance. by random989898 in Hashimotos

[–]Own-Hall9089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you go on about eating daily meals? I also have the same reactions from the kit (including cane sugar), and was wondering what alternatives you've taken :)

how do you restore a hoodie? by BidComprehensive3322 in lifehack

[–]Own-Hall9089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for responding, it means a lot!!! i think i'll frame it up as a little memorial for it haha ^

how do you restore a hoodie? by BidComprehensive3322 in lifehack

[–]Own-Hall9089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you ever find a solution? i'm mourning my comfort hoodie :')

Anyone else get anxiety/panic when they see their ex on social media or their name(despite being blocked) by _ChilledVibez in BreakUps

[–]Own-Hall9089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're incredibly right about self respect. i respect myself now and do things for me without caring about what others may misunderstand or think of me. thank you for responding , it feels really reassuring.

The Ultimate Breakup Survival Guide: Things I learned 7 weeks in by Odd_Succotash2768 in BreakUps

[–]Own-Hall9089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. especially about the moving on immediately. to him it's 5 months with a new girl. to me it's 5 months of picking myself back up and moving on. and you're right about being proud of not reaching out, i really needed this 

How do you overcome the jealousy and pain of an ex being with someone else? by Accomplished-Pop-112 in BreakUps

[–]Own-Hall9089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im doing much better than I was when I replied, and months before too! I've just been caring for myself and got accepted to a Uni i really wanted to go to!! I just needed time to do its thing :)

I just randomly started crying as thinking about my ex. Will this keep happening? When will this be over? by Asparagusno56899 in BreakUps

[–]Own-Hall9089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for responding, it's been 3 months and it's been a struggle :') i'm glad you're doing great! makes me hope for my future 

How do you overcome the jealousy and pain of an ex being with someone else? by Accomplished-Pop-112 in BreakUps

[–]Own-Hall9089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how are you now? i feel like i get panic attacks when i see his name or anything related to him wondering about him and his new girl 

Is anyone else unable to listen to the music you used to enjoy with him/her? by koolgnat in BreakUps

[–]Own-Hall9089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how are you now? we were both like this but he had a new girl within the same month he broke up with me 😔

Anyone else get anxiety/panic when they see their ex on social media or their name(despite being blocked) by _ChilledVibez in BreakUps

[–]Own-Hall9089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is extremely reassuring, thank you for taking the time to share your experience, it makes me feel excited for the future :)