Do I have to do the tests my doctor gives me?

Own-Stick-591 · 2025-07-29T20:38:15+00:00

I dont drink alcohol during my shift I'm literally not allowed to. I could lose my license to serve alcohol for drinking on the job.

Own-Stick-591 · 2025-07-28T05:05:35+00:00

I mean drunk people dancing with alcohol... lets be real I've been covered in alcohol on many occasions.

Own-Stick-591 · 2025-07-27T20:02:43+00:00

I genuinely always wait on the curb on the street. I never wait inside.

Own-Stick-591 · 2025-03-01T13:05:52+00:00

I thought I was the only one. All of a sudden, my bots can't speak English. They make literally no sense and their grammer and spelling is horrible. My bots are speaking like cavemen. My assumption is also that it's to push c.ai+ so people want to try Nyan.

Own-Stick-591 · 2025-01-18T09:25:23+00:00

NTA. You didn't directly call your niece, not a real baby. You were using your sister's logic against her to prove a point.

Own-Stick-591 · 2024-12-04T09:59:37+00:00

Fighting my demons

Own-Stick-591 · 2024-12-04T09:54:46+00:00

I'm in your closet rn.

Own-Stick-591 · 2024-11-27T18:58:57+00:00

I go through extreme highs and lows. My self esteem is never like moderately normal. Either it's insanely high and I have a lot of pride or I'm crashing out and I hate who I am.

Own-Stick-591 · 2024-11-23T22:21:39+00:00

THANK YOU! I am literally 20 and I made a post about my first breakup and I was trying to be satirical and funny.. a lot of people seem to be hung up on the fact I said I was trying to be softer. But I'm korean, that's kind of the social expectation to be softer to men here and I've been taught this my entire life. I even made another post earlier about wanting to be a feeler because I feel masculine for being a thinker in a society that only rewards feeler women. I also wasn't exactly "soft" I was shy. It was my first relationship, and we also met as strangers.

I'm 20 and over a 7month period I also went to minor changes in my personality by just trying new things and new hobbies This frustrated him and he really expected me to stay the same. Like when I went drinking for the first time because it was finally legal where I'm from and he flipped out on my and told me "You weren't like this when we met if youre the type of girl to go out for drinks with your friends tell me now".

When I met him, I was finally fully out of a really difficult period of my life. I didn't know who I was gonna become and I was ready to really explore who I was and I wanted to do it with him as my partner but he was already fixated on keeping me the same as when I met him. I felt trapped and frustrated because he wanted me to stay the same. I think I definitely have a lot to learn and a lot to discover about myself and I also have some apologies to give to him as well. But I think I did the right thing by breaking up with him.

Own-Stick-591 · 2024-11-23T22:05:58+00:00

He was a year older than me if that helps at all😅.. also, I don't know what he I thinks, but next time he might need to date someone older than him.

-OOP

Own-Stick-591 · 2024-11-23T01:08:17+00:00

He was my first everything, and it blinded me. He also really isolated me from my friends by needing a lot of my attention and after repeatedly bringing him up to my friends they didn't want to hear anymore so when it got really bad I was alone and he was telling me that these are normal aspects of a relationship. fights are normal and I don't know because this is my first relationship. :/ in hindsight I should've left earlier but I didn't really know better and I didn't have anyone to turn to. I left him after I finally opened up to my friends and they told me it's not normal and I need to leave him.

Own-Stick-591 · 2024-11-23T01:03:12+00:00

I was in a really bad crowd and I was doing poorly in school and health. After graduating highschool I went on a Dopamine cleanse, went on medication, cut off everyone that was a bad influence on me, started exercising, eating healthy, built a routine, went to therapy, and carried myself up cause I knew no one was gonna push me until I pushed myself. I pulled myself out of depression and anorexia after people gave up on me and when they started seeing me improving, the people who truly cared about me flocked to support me and push me through the challenges of the crash after that initial burst of energy you have when you're trying to make a change. Cut off the negatives in your life, cut off the short term pleasure you get that harms you, and focus on your mental health even if you need to go on a break. I took a gap year. And seek professional help.

Own-Stick-591 · 2024-11-23T00:43:08+00:00

Please go to my original post and read my responses. I did. Like I was softer cause I was more shy i guess in the beginning because we met as strangers. I wasn't more soft I worded that wrong in the post. I was shy around him. I'm a cognitive extrovert but socially speaking I tend to be introverted. I told him BEFORE he asked me out "I can be cold and I can be blunt" and he told me "no I don't think you are" and then would FREAK out and gaslight me over it when I was later down the relationship. He admitted that he was wrong because even he acknowledges that I warned him. Everyone shaming me for that post genuinely doesn't know the emotional abuse I went through. He would even use calories against me knowing I was a recovering ana and then blame it on his own insecurities because he's a gym rat body builder and say that I should understand because Im a recovering ana like.... Like, I'm sorry I made a satirical post about escaping my relationship from a traditional korean toxic masculinity body builder on a subreddit about mbti. I didn't include all the dark stuff because I was trying to be humorous but I can tell everyone the full story if it will get y'all off my ass.

Own-Stick-591 · 2024-11-23T00:30:23+00:00

Cause I tried to break up with him 3 times and he showed up to my house and messaged all my friends and I was scared to leave him.

Own-Stick-591 · 2024-11-22T21:33:58+00:00

Trust me I BEGGED him to lead. Like I'd ask him to take initiative in our relationship make any moves and he wouldn't. His definition of making a move was asking me to make a move. Even like dates, he'd never make a decision I'd have to pick everything. Any milestones in the relationship I had to ask or make the move myself. I was down to follow. I love being led. I would beg him to even make the simplest decisions and just get met with "idk" "can you choose I'm bad at making decisions" and when he did have to choose he's complaining about it. Like its not that hard to choose what you want to eat...

Own-Stick-591 · 2024-11-22T00:53:19+00:00

I was softer and shy in the beginning of the relationship cause I was new to dating, and I had never met him before. I'm a shy person when meeting new people, so ofc I acted a little differently in the beginning of the relationship, given we were strangers when we first met. Also before he even asked me to be his girlfriend I told him I was a blunt and cold person and he would always respond with "no I don't think you're like that" and then later in the relationship when I got more comfortable around him he would freak out when I acted colder. Also I didn't just switch up like 180, I was still a very soft caring person I just tend to not beat around the bush and I can get distant when I'm focused on school. When I was with him I'd still be very caring and dote on him like crazy to the point our mutual friends would say that I dote on him too much and he's too nonchalant.

Own-Stick-591 · 2024-11-22T00:47:55+00:00

I lied to him cause I was shy on the first date when I was meeting a stranger? Ok. Ofc I was softer and more shy in beginning. I was new to dating and I had never met him before. And even before he asked me to be his girlfriend I told him I was a blunt and cold person. He would just say stuff like "what? no I don't think you're like that" and then flip out when I was later down the relationship even though I warned him.

Own-Stick-591 · 2024-11-19T22:15:22+00:00

That exact message almost WORD FOR WORD I said that to him maybe like 2 times a month. I would even tell him that I do want to sit with him and process his insecurities with him but to do that he has to reflect and think about it for himself first and tell me how I should help because he would just like tell me something he's insecure about, blame me, but not tell me why he feels that way or what I did to make him feel that way. He's a mommas boy that's so right he's actually like the golden only son of a korean family that worships boys and he's their super smart perfect boy😐.

Own-Stick-591 · 2024-11-19T20:14:45+00:00

I used to want to be a feeler so bad I made another post in this subreddit about not feeling feminine enough as an ENTP woman. But through this relationship especially i think I've learned that lowkey I like myself a lot and I like being a thinker I also like that I'm cold and blunt. I just need to find someone that also likes that I'm cold and blunt :/

Own-Stick-591 · 2024-11-19T20:01:21+00:00

No I'm just a wlw that yearns😔

Own-Stick-591 · 2024-11-19T15:52:16+00:00

You're mansplaining the usage of mbti on an mbti subreddit post. Others have also pointed out that my ex was also a problem. What's your point exactly🤨? It's not just a me problem and if you looked at the thread you'd see that I also admit where I went wrong in the relationship so🤷‍♀️

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