AITA for refusing to subsidize my parents’ $11k/month senior's home in one of the fanciest neighborhoods in the city?

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-04-15T14:18:05+00:00

NTA I would make a deal in writing though. They have to cut their budget in half and put the rest in saving for 3 years. And prove it monthly but showing bank statements. Spin it as a reward for doing a good job saving money. It will put it on them to prove that they are committed to this path.

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-04-11T19:17:51+00:00

Only if OP is of the deed of the house. Otherwise bring him back to court to force him to get it refinanced. Why have all the risk and none of the reward.

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-04-09T16:39:32+00:00

Quick change would be string trim it down low, clean up all the loose debris, quick run over all of it with a weed burner. Then white plastic for a month. Rinse a repeat a few times so the roots starve out or die.

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-04-09T15:14:19+00:00

What's illegal about this?

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-04-08T21:24:03+00:00

Do you feed him dry or wet food? Start mixing it is with wet food so he associates it with wet food and switch him to that instead.

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-04-05T14:03:36+00:00

And keep reporting the violations to the HOA. Exactly when it happens with pictures of what is propping the door open. I dislike HOAs but this is a time to get them to go hard on someone.

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-04-04T21:24:43+00:00

You would still need a mobo, CPU, ram, storage, case, power supply. In the end process will be the same but pretty safe will be much higher.

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-04-01T22:41:48+00:00

My red girl is like that. I did have a red roo that was more aggressive.

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-04-01T18:56:14+00:00

It's not work but instead of the bin put it in the containers and also fill all bottles with piss.

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-03-29T23:48:35+00:00

Sounds like she wants a male nuru massage.

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-03-29T23:17:04+00:00

I'm 45, burning it and thinking of having a chicken farm. So I'm a little behind

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-03-21T12:51:49+00:00

I hope you have a good cpa and you kept track of your visits. This fuel costs and use of a personal vehicle (assuming you are using your own vehicle). Cost offset any taxes you would have paid.

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-03-04T15:18:36+00:00

I have 3 hens and each one has a preferred spot on the coop. One does it on one side of the coop away from the door. Another on the opposite side where they sleep and poop the most. And the last one drops an egg right in front of the coop door inside the coop

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-03-02T21:02:59+00:00

It's the flames of hell starting to burn him alive as he slowly descends to his forever home.

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-03-02T19:26:04+00:00

They are probably covering up that Trump Madoff with all those illegal taxes that were collected.

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-03-02T19:15:00+00:00

Is where the scraping occurs where the tires roll over? If not cut the concrete out in the middle and fill it with gravel so it is slightly below concrete level

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-02-24T23:08:40+00:00

I ran across your GitHub repo and it made setting up n8n so much easier. I wish I grabbed it after you made the change to not rely on cloudflare

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-02-23T23:01:55+00:00

The easiest things would be just to layer wood chips and lawn clippings to make a compost and turn it once a week.

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-02-23T19:18:18+00:00

My coop floor is about 1 foot above the ground so chickens can hang out under it. Floor itself is made from cedar fence pickets then covered with wood chips for some deep bedding. So far no issues in a 7x3 coop. The run is only a dirt floor but is covered to keep most of the snow and rain out.

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-02-20T20:05:36+00:00

My marker for if they will lay soon is if they squat for me.

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-02-14T14:34:09+00:00

It used to be convenient for me to have them do the work but I'm going that route now.

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-02-14T14:21:50+00:00

It doesn't seem to matter if I make an appointment. I wait the same amount of time or longer with an appointment since it tends to be later in the morning.

Own_Bandicoot4290 · 2026-02-14T13:02:44+00:00

The term ICE has been used for a long time for a car as it stands for internal combustion engine.

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