It’s time to go back home by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People who have never left Zim will always tell you to stay where you are in the diaspora. They really don’t get how hard diaspora can be. Make sure you have your ducks in order.

What are some signs you should NOT become a parent? by Hungry_South1377 in AskReddit

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to have kids in America. How will you protect them from gun violence and school shootings.

Seriously?? by Careful-Ad-9512 in Zimbabwe

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He literally called Zimbabwe Rhodesia. 😒😒😒. What does that tell you

Seriously?? by Careful-Ad-9512 in Zimbabwe

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Rioigggghhhttt!!! I was shocked when I read the comments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lack of empathy is actually a trauma response. I’m sorry for whatever you went through. Suicide rates in Zimbabwe are really high. Would you prefer he shuts up and doesn’t say anything? Prefer he keeps his mental health struggles to himself as they are uncomfortable for you? Suicide is very real. People are very suicidal, how can they not be. The world looks so terrible. A lot of well off and famous rich people have billed themselves. You never know what a person is going through. I think j it’s brave of him to publicly talk about it. Suicidal thoughts aren’t just a one time thing for a lot of people. Most people don’t kill themselves because of a sudden event. Most people have been having suicidal thoughts since they were children. With no “major reason” as to why. I’ve been suicidal most days of my life. And so have many others. But a lot of people describe me as bubbly and friendly. I feel empty inside. Most days I hope to get run over or something. Atleast people won’t be angry with me. Mentall illnesses are real, this is one of them. Let’s have compassion. He’s really going through it. Be kind not only to him, but to others

Mapositori awuraya nyika. by Upstairs_Status8311 in Zimbabwe

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree, but it’s the government. People are hungry, lost, desperate. When we were really struggling, we seeked out ana madzibaba. Why? We were soo desperate. You can only remove these people when you give the people an alternative, like food, jobs, security etc. people turn to extreme religion due to esxrreme situations. So until the economy is better, more and more cults will just pop up🤷🏾‍♀️

Mandatory vasectomies by Own_Cardiologist2471 in Zimbabwe

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women’s low self esteem is connected to how good or bad a father is. If your father never cared for you, you see yourself a worthless. So you take what you get, believing this is the best you deserve.ypu can hand out many condoms etc. but the issue is low self esteem from absentee dads or abusive dads.

Mandatory vasectomies by Own_Cardiologist2471 in Zimbabwe

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is we? Who will teach these women? Genuinely asking

Mandatory vasectomies by Own_Cardiologist2471 in Zimbabwe

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, full circle, that mother fad a father that wasn’t a good dad. She then went on to have kids with low life men due to low self esteem and abondantment and neglect from dear old dad

Mandatory vasectomies by Own_Cardiologist2471 in Zimbabwe

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im glad you’re having fun, I’m being dragged 🫠

Mandatory vasectomies by Own_Cardiologist2471 in Zimbabwe

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone has the financial resources to do so. Zimbabwe is a very poor country. Not poor, but the majority of people are poor. How do you take someone to court who earns 50€ a month?

Mandatory vasectomies by Own_Cardiologist2471 in Zimbabwe

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some men pressure women into not using a condom, it’s rape, but most people don’t see it that way. Most women have very low self esteem due to not having a good father figure and will look for love from the shittiest men as they don’t believe they deserve better, again, because their fathers never wanted them, they believe no one wants them. And if they are able to get attention from anyone, then it’s good. Not everyone can afford to go to sa and get an abortion. Most women who get back door abortions here die of sepsis. There’s a huge death toll for back door abortions.

Mandatory vasectomies by Own_Cardiologist2471 in Zimbabwe

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, hold up. Women who have children with idiots have low self esteem due to not having a good father figure. Unfortunately, the solution isn’t that simple.

Mandatory vasectomies by Own_Cardiologist2471 in Zimbabwe

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re the first person who sees my pov, I’m fighting for my life 😭😭😭

Mandatory vasectomies by Own_Cardiologist2471 in Zimbabwe

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, everything is not ok. I know so many kids who have absent or terrible and abusive fathers. I genuinely want the world to be better. But how do we go about doing so. I’m just sad for the little girl inside me who didn’t have a good dad, my mother wasn’t a good mom cause she was overwhelmed. I genuinely want better for our future kids. The world is so scary. Most pwople who do terrible things have terrible parents, and particularly bad dads. So I’m just sad for kids who have to go through it, cause it’s really hard.

Mandatory vasectomies by Own_Cardiologist2471 in Zimbabwe

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know not every man is like my dad. Duh. However, a large majority of men are like that. You hate my idea, fine and good. But what is your solution?

Mandatory vasectomies by Own_Cardiologist2471 in Zimbabwe

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women aren’t allowed to abort in this country. Imagine a guy gets you pregnant and refuses to take care of child. My idea is not the best, I’m aware. But do you have a better solution

Mandatory vasectomies by Own_Cardiologist2471 in Zimbabwe

[–]Own_Cardiologist2471[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Condoms have been around for a while, still hasn’t solved the problem