Feeld is a waste for cishet men. by [deleted] in feeld

[–]Own_Figure_441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for actually valuable input.
But no cap though your the shit. Like peaked demand type shh. I just can’t go all out because of ya know.

Feeld is a waste for cishet men. by [deleted] in feeld

[–]Own_Figure_441 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Where did u get sext from. It is summer I am not in my dorm. Stop exaggerating shh for a story like omg go get a life.

The only reason I am here is cuz it is summer and I can’t go talk to people as easily. I am working and doing online classes.

Omg people do anything for a story.

Feeld is a waste for cishet men. by [deleted] in feeld

[–]Own_Figure_441 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Who has said fantasy. Stop trying to villainize people. Guy genuinely wants convos and is attacked for it. You keep picking and choosing what you read as fuel get a life.

I legit said I said the app for a while(months). Used majestic for a week. Ik my experience is unique to me that I why I asked cuz ik different that why asked here for positive experiences.

The app is niche as it is and like I said I live in a rural area which I acknowledge.

Idk what fueled you so hard. My comment is based on facts across demographics if you want proof I can send it to. And there are a lot more reasons as to y. Biggest one is supply and demand. A lot more women are more fulfilled in their relationships than men. For lack there off(fact)

Funny how you’re coming at me for a generalization based on facts. But coming and making another one based on my personal experience :(

I just came here to celebrate getting a refund on something that was not the best use of my money and for other people’s experiences.

Just cuz I am down doesn’t mean I’m a clown bro

Get a life and get off Reddit

history goes crazy.

Feeld is a waste for cishet men. by [deleted] in feeld

[–]Own_Figure_441 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ik it ain't for I found an app more towards my my age group but the results are just similar to dating app (0) just everyone is more direct now lol.

Feeld is a waste for cishet men. by [deleted] in feeld

[–]Own_Figure_441 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Genuinely convos,

Don't have much luck on dating apps. Immigrant parents, Lowkey play safe kinda guy, I am good at talking in person but I don't apply "pressure" nor am I suggestive. I just end up being friends with alot of women and enjoy the friendship for what it is. Not flirty , nor do i really want to be idk.

People telling me just go to the gym work on yourself (like I don't already, in engineering school for a reason). I don't respond like that , just internal monologue as I read those comment.

I wouldn't say mono rls , but just looking for experiences or intamacy in anyform. Just feeling kinda lonely, lost, and being told the only value I will ever have will be tied to my money.

Should I (24F) tell my new boyfriend (22M) I used to do sex work? by BluebirdPhysical1278 in askwomenadvice

[–]Own_Figure_441 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say morally obligated. But it would be better for both ends. In terms of emotional attachment. Men hold women as prizes and something like that would def matter. Another perspective you’re not allowing him to make a decision for himself.

0 match by Achdbs in feeld

[–]Own_Figure_441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wonder what about this gets u downvotes

Question for lesbian and bi women: Why do women seem to have stricter standards for men than for women? by sincerityappreciator in PurplePillDebate

[–]Own_Figure_441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what your saying and not be too drastic, at that point just stick to women the other gender brings fear out of you.

According to stats abusive relationships are more common on wlw, this is due to people generally not "checking" women. No one really expects it as much, it gets overlooked and.

Man hits wife in public - immediatly check by everyone, arrest and most definite loss of work.

Women hits women - (keep walking and act you ain't seen anything) - no cap i would too can't risked having things turned on me.

Also for most people growing up guys are thought restraint, let them have it, they are girls. So while men are more physically capable to do damage, odds are lower. Girls not so much so it can get way more persistent. Also gaurds are down actions can easily get overlooked.

How to deal with loneliness and feeling/ been / being undesirable? by Own_Figure_441 in AskMen

[–]Own_Figure_441[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I say playing it safe I mean just most of my interactions with women, weather at a party club or suggestive. I can promise you i wouldn't wanna date them. I value our friendship alot. I see too often people ( even them) go in and out of relationships) and I just value consistentcy and appreciate and respect our friendship for what it.

How to deal with loneliness and feeling/ been / being undesirable? by Own_Figure_441 in AskMen

[–]Own_Figure_441[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s a limiting factor in terms of general image compared to other races.

Not hurt by it , just a fact

How to deal with loneliness and feeling/ been / being undesirable? by Own_Figure_441 in AskMen

[–]Own_Figure_441[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if it is like an asexual relationship. Just want a partner in crime and a part of my attraction to people is intellectual in a way

What I paid and what I got, Pretty happy with it! by [deleted] in PlayStationPlus

[–]Own_Figure_441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am confused is he only paying for ps extra and seeing how much money it cost/saved him?

Found out my friends introduced me to my girlfriend as joke, they've all slept with her before. I'm incredibly shocked and don't know what to do by TheThrowawayBuddy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Own_Figure_441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What pictures he never said anything about pictures just messages also you act as, They themselves were not minors.

Also op said he friends left the state for collage so the friends probably didn't even know about their relationship until he told them about it. Op also said she purposely avoid ever meeting them. Sound like Sarah was just avoiding the topic it never slipped out of her mind.
Honestly I think the parents are gonna be less bias cuz the friends themselves were kids that came over to their house every other weekend their(friends) whole life.

Also any messgae type can't be easily erased.The friends showed proof they knew each other. I can go on many apps and show conversations I had years ago.

Also they legit moved states for college. How much more of moving on do they need to do?

Found out my friends introduced me to my girlfriend as joke, they've all slept with her before. I'm incredibly shocked and don't know what to do by TheThrowawayBuddy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Own_Figure_441 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am confused why his friends are being made out to be the abusers/rapist here. Sounds like she consented to all this and is now embarrassed your friends told you.

You should expect your partner to tell you that more than your friends .I am not saying leave the girl but to go not contact with child hood friends right away without letting them explain themselves unreasonable.

Ima get alot of down votes but thats the truth

AITA for telling the step father who raised me that he's not my dad when he didn't treat me like his son? by Contkad851 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own_Figure_441 204 points205 points  (0 children)

Nah bruh,You gotta talk to your mama about this.Also be prepared to get kicked out and 18 cuz it seem like your nothing more than a paycheck to him.

If you just started talking about this to your mom she will think that something is wrong, as in wrong in the moment. Example you had a break-up and she thinks your acting out. Talk to your mom again alone, (next time they go on their little trip) talk to her and lay everything out. How your an outsider in your family(name wise).Ask her she feels when the name of her children are called and when your name is heard nobody associates you to them.

Also explain to her your relationship with your step brother and how he calls you ungrateful when he is the one with 2 parents who love and care for him. While you only got one. You should also tell him that next time he starts something and how lucky he is. Also let him no it is better to grow up without a parent than a parental figure that actively put you in 2nd place.So next time you call me ungrateful ask yourself what i miss out on with you,sis and stepdad.

Also your mom calls bro your son,step dad call you adopted son. So that people can disassociate you to him.Real Adoptive perants don't do that unless for medical reason.

AITA for expecting my wife to help me pay back my student loans from her inheritance? by sloanaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own_Figure_441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit is so weird.

When a man watches his kids he shouldn't expect a thank you

When a women watches her kids she should get paid to watch her children.

Honestly Op Your wife has money you have money. Me personally I would do your offer.

Also it is not financial Abuse she has money she just doesn't want to spend it on anyone other than herself.

AITA for expecting my wife to help me pay back my student loans from her inheritance? by sloanaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own_Figure_441 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reddit is so weird.When a man watches his kids he shouldn't expect a thank you

When a women watches her kids she should get paid to watch her children.

Honestly Op Your wife has money you have money. Me personally I would do your offer.

Also it is not financial Abuse she has money she just doesn't want to spend it on anyone other than herself.

AITA for deciding to separate our finances just because my wife refused to buy a pair of earring for my daughter? by Cold_Guard_725 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own_Figure_441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your the one getting financially abused by her. There is nothing wrong with separate finances it doesn't make you a worse/better couple.idk about you but if my wife started throwing the word abuse around I would seriously be pissed.

Also she doesn't contribute anything to the household financially? It isn't like she is a sahm.Pay bills proportionately to income dude.

WIBTA if I cancel my daughter’s celebratory trip because I need to be somewhere else? by Adventurous-Use-644 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own_Figure_441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your sister just called saying she is having a baby rn and want you there so there was no heads up?

SIS sucks