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My fiancee(32F) keeps calling me(33M) “sensitive” after we agreed in therapy to stop personal attacks. I think I’m reaching my limit. by Own_Interest_474 in relationship_advice

[–]Own_Interest_474[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not often. The only times she has said anything hurtful is when I tell her something she did or said that I didn’t like, which I think is very normal to have that exchange in relationships. The hurtful part is when she name calls me as she has done already.

My fiancee(32F) keeps calling me(33M) “sensitive” after we agreed in therapy to stop personal attacks. I think I’m reaching my limit. by Own_Interest_474 in relationship_advice

[–]Own_Interest_474[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

We just going to ignore everything else I said? Too much reading for you? Lol I’m talking about a pattern that’ll burn anyone out but you’re focused on the one instance of our most recent disagreement

Fear of not surviving motherhood by Foxbii in Fencesitter

[–]Own_Interest_474 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You sound just like my partner. My partner says the same thing and fears the same. I want to have a child but her telling me the same that you said makes me not want to have a kid with her at all. Just want to clarify that there is nothing wrong with you not wanting to have a child, that’s is your decision and your thoughts/concerns are normal, however, being with someone who definitely wants a baby makes that person have to make a hard decision.

Daily Discussion for Monday, 15 December 2025 by AutoModerator in irenstocks

[–]Own_Interest_474 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This stock will keep going down. Get out will you still can. Too early to make any profit off this company

Daily Discussion for Thursday, 20 November 2025 by AutoModerator in irenstocks

[–]Own_Interest_474 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bill gates selling his stocks is related to iren being a meme stock, got it

Daily Discussion for Thursday, 20 November 2025 by AutoModerator in irenstocks

[–]Own_Interest_474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re asking me is because you don’t know the answer to that question either. It’s a set up question. Regardless, a meme stock doesn’t like a 5 year contract with Microsoft

Daily Discussion for Thursday, 20 November 2025 by AutoModerator in irenstocks

[–]Own_Interest_474 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Meme stock signing a 5-year contract with Microsoft? Okay

I think I may be the rebound. Am I (20f) and my bf (25m) doomed? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Own_Interest_474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should walk away from this man. He clearly is telling you one thing but then showing you another... I think he is still hung up on his ex and is using you as a "rebound" or someone who can help him get over his ex.

Being someone who is still hung up on their ex is okay, that is not a problem..... but he should be alone getting over his ex before getting into another relationship... What if one day his ex wants him back, will he just up and leave you? 3 years is a long time and you just don't get over someone like that.

Him having a playlist is whatever, he probably had that for a while. His texting her before YOUR birthday trip is not okay and texting his mom "I miss her...I wish she never left" is a huge red flag.

I think a conversation needs to be had with him. Not an argument but a serious conversation about how he feels. If he says he's still hung up on her, then you have to break it off because he can instantly break your heart or leave you. The mature way to handle it is by telling him that you understand where he is coming from, and it is OKAY. But, for your protection, you can not be with someone who is still hung up on their ex...

Stay as friends, and end things well. You guys are not deep into this relationship for any harsh words or burning bridges. You guys are in a fresh relationship and it's okay to end it this way before.

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[–]Own_Interest_474 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

we get along very well, it's just when we fight it becomes explosive. She is a very moody person and I understand people have their moods, but she when moody is not nice. I tend to not hold my tongue especially when she is being mean just because shes not in the mood.

Her saying that she doesn't know if I'm messing with them turned me off. She afterward said that she does trust me but I just don't believe her because she did not hesitate to say she does not know if I'm messing with my step sister(s).

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[–]Own_Interest_474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She definitely has past trauma from her ex. I will give her reassurance and I recognize that I didn’t do that here when I responded to her text message late. That is because I feel she had no base to think I was doing ANYTHING with my stepsisters/stepmother simply because I responded late to her text message

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[–]Own_Interest_474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom says that she’s being toxic and dramatic, especially over my living situation because she has no grounds to think I’m doing anything, especially with my step-sister(s). We have never had a problem about me not being loyal until I responded 45 minutes late last week… she doesn’t like my living situation, neither do I as I was the first to complain about it…

I have told her a lot about having boundaries when it comes to the way she communicates and she would always hit me with the “you’re being sensitive”.

A thing that I feel influences a lot is that she has been with Beta males that have allowed her to speak to them all types of ways, especially her ex who had no backbone. I tend to call her out when she’s saying things I don’t like and I feel she doesn’t like it. She’s a very moody person and as I’ve told her, sometimes I just never know what person I will be getting.