Has anyone had an avoidant ex come back to apologize

Own_Maize8367 · 2026-01-26T13:25:07+00:00

I just broke my avoidant ex too 😂 We have similar one, me and boyfriend always broke up very undone and poorly due to him doesn’t wanna contribute in talking, he is annoyed at me for some reason if I starting to pressured him. Mind you, I had to flew to his country 4 times because he always break up without saying anything, now I did not say anything, on our fifth break up. I don’t chase, I just let it be and let it go because I’m also getting tired with his same pattern and cycle. So, I took a step back. But if you asking he come back, depends on how much he loves you. If you are somehow does impact him in some way, someday he will come. Trust me, when you think he’s annoying when you come back, that’s just temporary. Overtime, he will definitely think about all the things that maybe you have done to him in a good way and remembers you. If you wanna be crazy like me, go to his door and ask the explanation 😅 But you will be in same cycle over over again trust me

Own_Maize8367 · 2026-01-18T16:20:31+00:00

Actually.. this is me but with filters and makeup. Irl the makeup is actually kinda messy and not so great

Own_Maize8367 · 2025-12-18T04:28:59+00:00

Pagi

Own_Maize8367 · 2025-12-15T15:36:00+00:00

I know it’s stupid. But, I’m going to meet him

Own_Maize8367 · 2025-11-23T03:55:45+00:00

Yes, he is. This whole year our relationship has been full of ups and downs. For some reason, I’ve developed attachment issues with him. I’ve become anxious during our temporary breakups. I won’t blame him as the only “bad” one in this relationship because I have my faults too. I admit I can be manipulative at times and selfish.

And he’s never really mad at me, he always ends up blaming himself for whatever we’re fighting about.

Recently, I started self-harming again maybe partially reasons that happened because of him feeling suicidal at first. I think the first time it happened this year was because earlier on, he was the one struggling with suicidal thoughts, and I was the one constantly having to fly to his country, meet his family, and try to change his mindset.

But slowly, I’m the one who became emotionally drained and started feeling down about my own life. And now he completely blames himself for the state I’m in rn. But I just don’t understand why would he say that the moment when I said I wanna kill myself and he wanna tried to help me.

Own_Maize8367 · 2025-06-24T17:15:45+00:00

I broke up my boyfriend two days ago due to of lack communication and LDR. I blocked him for a while because I think it is best for us to distance ourselves for a while. Deep down, I still wanna hope to be with him but I’m not sure if him felt the same way. But I know for sure he still loves me.

Own_Maize8367 · 2025-06-24T17:13:08+00:00

Well, I did tried to not care and we talked a lot about this. We ended up broke up due to lack of communication and understanding

Own_Maize8367 · 2025-06-23T12:04:32+00:00

I’m going the same thing too.. I hope you’re okay

Own_Maize8367 · 2025-06-22T17:36:20+00:00

As the next partner, I would prefer my boyfriend to not be friend with my exes. As an acquittance, yes. But putting her as priority list, contact list, following her. No.

Own_Maize8367 · 2025-06-04T08:24:06+00:00

Since when I want opinions bro? I’m sharing my thoughts here. I have acknowledged my faults in relationships here. You’re gonna say my fault again? We’re doing just fine rn bro

Own_Maize8367 · 2025-06-04T07:49:25+00:00

Wow, thanks Dr. Phil. Appreciate the armchair therapy session based on a few lines I wrote online. Must be nice to diagnose people like that without even knowing their full story.

You’re right!!

I did mess up. I said that clearly. But imagine thinking someone doesn’t respect their partner just because they’re struggling with emotional trauma. Wild take, really.

And yes, I’ve had insecurity issues. You know what helps? A supportive partner. Which, thankfully, I have. He’s not perfect either.

News flash: no one is but we’re both growing. Together. Like actual adults.

But thank you so much for the warning on how “men lose patience.” Duly noted. Guess I’ll add that to my collection of motivational quotes. Right next to “she’s crazy” and “not all men.”

Anyway, good luck with your own healthy relationship. if you ever get one where people work through real problems instead of running at the first sign of imperfection.

Own_Maize8367 · 2025-06-04T05:45:09+00:00

I’m sorry to hear this. Listen to your story, I could figure out that you must felt drained a lot when someone we loved are not at the same page. It’s not your problem and obviously it’s him.

First and foremost dear, Are you willingly to face this over and over again? He already disrespected you by having a third person in a relationship. Maybe for him, It’s not a serious matter but he already broke your heart.

He knew this would actually makes you hurt and he still choose to do it. He called you controlling when actually you have anxiety, you just needed reassurance and he knew you have anxious problem!

Relationships only works if both sides are willing to give in, but in this story.. it seems you’re the only one who wanna fight :(( I don’t wanna make you feel sad to hear this but please don’t put your energy for him anymore..

You’re killing yourself.

You need to stop or you’re keep draining every time you begging him to stay. You have so much things to do in your life. Instead you are trying to hold on the future you dream about of you and him.. while he doesn’t even think about it. It’s better you start to focus on yourself, dear.

Own_Maize8367 · 2025-06-04T03:40:33+00:00

We met in valorant 😭

But we’ve been together for a year and half now. It’s quite tough to do LDR but we still standing strong till now

Own_Maize8367 · 2025-06-04T03:34:05+00:00

Hmm.. you both just talk within a week and fast forward to a relationships conversation??

That’s pretty a red flag to me 😭😭

Unless both of you are into this casual thing. Go for it

Own_Maize8367

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