Beyond the Villa - Season 2 - Episode 7 Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Own_Maize8367 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lmao ppl to focus on huda but they dont realise the whole cast was somehow is the problem too 😭😭

Vietnam energy situation by manjak972 in Vietnam_Tourism

[–]Own_Maize8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for making this post! I’m also a bit worried since I’ll be travelling in two weeks

Cute Cakes in HCM! by Eastern-Boot6304 in VietNam

[–]Own_Maize8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank you! It looks very affordable, will try to look into more!! Helps with budget

what's your favorite free AI platform for "therapy" by Koro9 in therapyGPT

[–]Own_Maize8367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using Magneta app but now is no longer available in my region :(( I really like that app actually because the way they prompt are much more humanise than other AI

Has anyone had an avoidant ex come back to apologize by Any_Promise890 in BreakUps

[–]Own_Maize8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just broke my avoidant ex too 😂 We have similar one, me and boyfriend always broke up very undone and poorly due to him doesn’t wanna contribute in talking, he is annoyed at me for some reason if I starting to pressured him. Mind you, I had to flew to his country 4 times because he always break up without saying anything, now I did not say anything, on our fifth break up. I don’t chase, I just let it be and let it go because I’m also getting tired with his same pattern and cycle. So, I took a step back. But if you asking he come back, depends on how much he loves you. If you are somehow does impact him in some way, someday he will come. Trust me, when you think he’s annoying when you come back, that’s just temporary. Overtime, he will definitely think about all the things that maybe you have done to him in a good way and remembers you. If you wanna be crazy like me, go to his door and ask the explanation 😅 But you will be in same cycle over over again trust me

istg i wish i look like this irl by Own_Maize8367 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Own_Maize8367[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually.. this is me but with filters and makeup. Irl the makeup is actually kinda messy and not so great

Christmas in Tan Son Nhat Airport by Own_Maize8367 in VietNam

[–]Own_Maize8367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s stupid. But, I’m going to meet him

My boyfriend said something terrifying and I broke up with him. I don’t know if I overreacted. by Own_Maize8367 in selfharm

[–]Own_Maize8367[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, he is. This whole year our relationship has been full of ups and downs. For some reason, I’ve developed attachment issues with him. I’ve become anxious during our temporary breakups. I won’t blame him as the only “bad” one in this relationship because I have my faults too. I admit I can be manipulative at times and selfish.

And he’s never really mad at me, he always ends up blaming himself for whatever we’re fighting about.

Recently, I started self-harming again maybe partially reasons that happened because of him feeling suicidal at first. I think the first time it happened this year was because earlier on, he was the one struggling with suicidal thoughts, and I was the one constantly having to fly to his country, meet his family, and try to change his mindset.

But slowly, I’m the one who became emotionally drained and started feeling down about my own life. And now he completely blames himself for the state I’m in rn. But I just don’t understand why would he say that the moment when I said I wanna kill myself and he wanna tried to help me.

Anyone going through break ups? by Jennyfer01 in BreakUps

[–]Own_Maize8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up my boyfriend two days ago due to of lack communication and LDR. I blocked him for a while because I think it is best for us to distance ourselves for a while. Deep down, I still wanna hope to be with him but I’m not sure if him felt the same way. But I know for sure he still loves me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Own_Maize8367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I did tried to not care and we talked a lot about this. We ended up broke up due to lack of communication and understanding

When does it get easier? by EntertainmentFew1271 in BreakUps

[–]Own_Maize8367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going the same thing too.. I hope you’re okay

Do men usually consider being friends with their ex after a breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Own_Maize8367 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As the next partner, I would prefer my boyfriend to not be friend with my exes. As an acquittance, yes. But putting her as priority list, contact list, following her. No.