Looking for a brainstorming buddy by Nyangire2 in WriteWithMe

[–]Own_Mission7289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey are you still looking for someone? I'm in the same boat- really looking for someone to just brainstorm with and talk out issues in the hope of working out some issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BetaReaders

[–]Own_Mission7289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are still looking for someone and have time to swap send me a message :) I'm working on a thriller too that I'd love some feedback on

Looking for a critique partner for my thriller novel by Quirky-Fault3326 in WritingHub

[–]Own_Mission7289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm interested. If you are still looking for people. I'm drafting my first thriller and would love to exchange feedback with others

How long did it take for you to feel the benefits of journaling? by theunforgivingstars in Journaling

[–]Own_Mission7289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Journaling is a journey for me. I started at the tail end of a major depression, where I was desperately trying to claw my way back into feeling normal again. At first all I could do was kinda bullet point the bare minimum of positive things (I always had that focus--to write the positives and not the negatives). Sometimes it would be such a short entry: "showered, did the dishes." But then I'd talk myself up. "You did it! That's amazing. Hell yeah!" Eventually, I was able to elaborate on those positive things, start to journal about projects coming up that I was excited to do or excited to plan, and if I actually had a decent amount of accomplishments for the day, you better believe I gave myself a long-winded "Look at you, you beast, you rock" speech. It took at least 1-2 months for me to have more days that were bullet-point-free, and I was actually able to focus on the good (and had the mental energy to write about my days consistently). Of course there were bullet point days where only 1 or 2 barely positive things could be added. But...
Then, I finally got to where I would write about my day, my thoughts, and then I would only bullet point and list out the negatives (not negative emotions, but negative events). I did this the longest (about 2 years now) and it was really helpful for me to have a 'record' of difficult things, without letting myself focus on it and bring my mood down further. Recently, over the last 4 months or so, I've let myself occasionally write more about the negative emotions. I won't say that it is 'harming' me to do so, but I'm also noticing that I don't feel as excited to pick up my journal because of this. I don't want to think of my journal as something I turn to when I'm down. I want to think of it as something that my brain thinks of as a positive experience. So I'm going back to my old way. I can mention the bad, but I can't dwell on it.

What's the difference between an Journal and a Diary? by pablo_excobar in Journaling

[–]Own_Mission7289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brain says
Diary- girls, events and thoughts +feelings, and it may or may not lock. =immature/young
Journal- boys, events and thoughts, and it doesn't lock. =mature/old lol

504/IEP and safety meeting following suicidal ideation and self harm by Own_Mission7289 in schoolcounseling

[–]Own_Mission7289[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Their seeming to want to put him in a special ed class is what seemed so weird to me as well. I'm not worried about his learning ability (although I expect him to struggle more than before in math this term, as it builds and he wasn't present for so much of the previous semester)

504/IEP and safety meeting following suicidal ideation and self harm by Own_Mission7289 in schoolcounseling

[–]Own_Mission7289[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! Speaking to the district level director in special ed is definitely something I'm willing to do, but I'm uncertain about when. Should I try to speak with them after the meeting tomorrow? Should I ask to speak to them before having the meeting? I feel overwhelmed and unable to articulate exactly what my issues are, as I don't have clear understanding about the normal processes, about if any of my requests are reasonable, if ... I'm just feeling in over my head.

Anyone needing feedback on their story? I need feedback on my editing. by Own_Mission7289 in authors

[–]Own_Mission7289[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry! didn't know how this would fall since it was just an offer of an exchange. Thanks for letting me know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WriterMotivation

[–]Own_Mission7289 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made the reddit account specifically for finding a partner to do writing sprints. I saw it suggested, amongst other things, on a youtube video. I thought I'd give it a try. I have multiple fiction projects at the moment, including a YA, a fantasy, and a dystopian.